I am in the Boston area. It seems thrt more girls are on S/A but I get booted almost as soon as I sign up, And I do not like the recuring credit card charges, Secret Benefits seems to be mostly scam girls and picture sellers.. Where do I spend my vice funds?
I deleted my Benefits account after having no success on meeting anyone for over a year, and the one guy I DID successfully meet off there declared his love for me after two weeks and started showing stalker tendencies. Don't know how it is for it legit guys on there, but I've never recommended SB.
I have had good luck on benefits but you have to be SUPER selective about who you message. I generally would recommend signing up for both and then messaging girls on benefits super rarely when someone really stands out and is verified.
Also I have reported girls on benefits for being online only and the admins refunded my credits. So that is definitely nice!
Quality on SA is far better than SB. And I get the impression that SB is mostly escorts. SB on the surface seems cheaper, but you have to pay for a lot of your interactions with the girls on SB. So if you are very active there, I think you will end up paying for money. Why should I pay extra to read a message from a girl ? SB makes you do that.
Paul is the only one I've ever heard of who has had success on Secret Benefits. If you go that route, you'd better interrogate him for his secret methodology.
SA is the no-brainer winner. If they've given you the boot treatment, you might need to do a full overhaul. New browser, pictures, credit card with different name, different profile text, and change your IP address if possible
SA for the win every time. I've been sugar dating for 10+ years.
IMPORTANT: Remember it's a DATING site, not an escort ad site. Do not use any escort-like terms and NEVER discuss any quid-pro-quo dynamics (payments, time/# hours, sex acts, cost for various acts, requests for nude pics, etc.) - ever! That's why people get booted. Establish an interest in meeting for dating, then move the discussion off site to text and you can take it from there. Be prepared to pay for the premium fees. Think of them as the cover fee to get into a SC and just work the fee into your sugar spend budget.
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Also I have reported girls on benefits for being online only and the admins refunded my credits. So that is definitely nice!
Haven’t been on there for years but I had more success there than on SA - but this was WAY before SA blew up and got national media attention.
SA is the no-brainer winner. If they've given you the boot treatment, you might need to do a full overhaul. New browser, pictures, credit card with different name, different profile text, and change your IP address if possible
IMPORTANT: Remember it's a DATING site, not an escort ad site. Do not use any escort-like terms and NEVER discuss any quid-pro-quo dynamics (payments, time/# hours, sex acts, cost for various acts, requests for nude pics, etc.) - ever! That's why people get booted. Establish an interest in meeting for dating, then move the discussion off site to text and you can take it from there. Be prepared to pay for the premium fees. Think of them as the cover fee to get into a SC and just work the fee into your sugar spend budget.