I'm just sitting in a chair. All of a sudden a dancer who was on stage spots me and comes over and says "thanks for tipping me". I'm thinking that wasn't me. I didn't correct her though. The other night I saw a dancer on stage I hadn't seen before. I go to tip her and suddenly she says "you've tipped me a couple of times already, do you want a dance?" I told her no thanks. I didn't bother to tell her that wasn't me. Her stage tipping left me no desire to even tip her again. She just stood there and took my money. I think a lot of the time, new dancers don't remember who tipped them.
Maybe I should rephrase that, a lot of the time dancers may act like you already tipped them because they aren't sure if you did or not. Unless they like pretending that you did. Some dancers remember too well. They'll hunt you down no matter where you're sitting in a large club.
Strippers see hundreds of guys in the club every week. There's no way they can keep us all straight in their memory, even if remembering people was their main area of expertise, which it isn't. Shaking their ass is. When in doubt, they might say they remember you. There's nothing terribly significant about it.
I don't think it happens very often. Sometimes, I think dancers use this as a ploy to get your ego going. It would be hard for a dancer to confuse me with any other customers, only because I'm OLD, UGLY, STINK, & WALK WITH A LIMP.
Sounds more like a conversation starter except for a few dancers that really do not remember very well. I might understand not remembering if there were a lot of people or a customer sneaked a tip onto the stage and she spotted me first rather than the guy sitting at the back of the club.
Bones, you are an easy one to remember...Now if you could just do something about that stink..LOL... I don't confuse people very often.. I am good with faces, and names as well...
It's never been a problem for me, but only beacuse I schedule my visits around my favs, and don't usually venture to far away from them. My biggest concern would be if the bartender confused me for someone else.
I like it when they put a handful of beers on ice soon after my arrival.
A dancer in Akron dressed in a skirt and halter walks by - very hot and says I - glad to see you - you have had dances from me right? I say not for a few weeks - she says come on in back - sure - she proceeds to give me a nice fake bj through the pants and does well with he hand also. Never been to the club before but she was the hottest dancer there so it worked for me.
I think dancers (despite stereotypes) have great memories. It can be weeks since I have been in the club and they can remember our last conversation almost word for word. I just find it amazing each time that it has been longer than that and they remember me. Or at least they fake it real well until they get enough clues.
Gatorjoe: I've met some strippers with great memories like that, and some who couldn't remember that they already asked me twice within the past minute how I'm doing tonight. Pardon the stereotype, but I suspect some of these failures of memory could be caused by drug taking.
Chandler, I think it's also because some of them are totally bored with their jobs, their minds are a million miles away and their mouths are on autopilot. I've never had a dancer mistake me for someone else but I've had several who forgot having spent time with me the prior week. But that's probably also partly due to how dark clubs often are.
Chandler, I think it's also because some of them are totally bored with their jobs, their minds are a million miles away and their mouths are on autopilot. I've never had a dancer mistake me for someone else but I've had several who forgot having spent time with me the prior week. But that's probably also partly due to how dark clubs often are.
I had a time in East St Louis, (my first time there) I walked into the club, one of the well reviewed high milage, scary places, I had a bunch of girls come up to me and say something like "Where have you been I have not seen you in months." I told them it was the first time I had ever been there. I went back that night and the samething happened. I am sure glad the guy they confused me with did not cause a problem the last time he was in, and the bouncer wanted to kick his ass.
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You're not only good with faces, but your good at EVERYTHING you do! Licks
I like it when they put a handful of beers on ice soon after my arrival.
Every once in a while you notice a dancer seems to be having a Miss Teen South Carolina moment, or confusing me with someone else.