Dumped by ATF?
neon44
Dumped by ATF?
I emailed her a few days ago asking if we could "talk" on the phone when she's available. Usually she doesn't take this long to respond. She's also a teacher and not at the club that much but I've had some great fun with her and spent alot of money I'm at the point now that I really don't want to contact her again and look desperate. I'll see how it goes but maybe it's better anyway with the covid and I'll save money lol
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To each their own on their experiences and relationship but when I mongered I realized favorites are not the Monger equivalent of girlfriends, she "may" consider me more than a customer but never a boyfriend.
And I may have considered her more than dancer or BG but I never considered her a girlfriend and thus if I felt it was time to move on it was pretty easy to do so.
It was a lot of fun to find new favorite(s).
Sounds like she doesn't really want to provide what you were seeking. Just move on. Maybe you could even find something better to do with a dancer's mouth than to have her babble to you over the phone.
Anyway, I sometimes miss an e-mail and then never see it again. It gets lost between the 200 junk e-mails i get a day. Or I'll get an e-mail while I'm driving and I read it at a stop sign but think i'll wait until I get home to respond and then sometimes forget because the message has now been read. E-mailing her a second time doesn't make you a creep. But thinking SHE wants the dirty talk as much as you do, might make you cheap. Toss a little extra money her way and see if that gets her attention.
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Lack of response doesn't mean she dumped you, could be a million reasons or could be her dumping the idea.
Follow up and when she responds you can ask again if you so choose. If she ignores you got your answer
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Like Jackslash said above I wouldn't put too much stock into her not answering a message, strippers are all over the place and they are kind of day to day people. You could wait a little bit to message her again but while your waiting go find other girls. Life's too short for one pussy.
Secondly, you should check your mind and heart as it relates to this ATF to make sure you're not falling in love with her. I've had my share of women who I was just getting to know yet in my own mind, she was my GF and I'd just lose it if I felt too much time elapsed between the time I called her and when she called me back. And I had to remind myself, "She's NOT my GF".
Just kidding. Find another. Variety is the spice of life.
The main thing is she's thick/curvy, kind of strong and fufills my wrestling fetish. We keep it light and its been fun. I'll see how it goes but If it is over at least I have her picture from a text message last year. lol
Dancers are a tricky breed and no 2 are alike. My ATF for years had to move away from a former relationship. It was difficult for me to visit her there and it usually made me feel bad about the situation. I finally told her I wouldn't be coming her way any longer.
Perhaps a mistake on my end as that was it for the club relationship. Now the tricky part, she new my family through our son. She and I knew, but none of the others. When we were together, she was incredibility cold towards me.
Such is the life with a dancer!
Actions speak louder than words. Apparently she'd rather give you a handjob than get tied up on the phone with you trying to talk dirty.
She answered my email (had a crazy week) and said shes ok with it. Guess I was overreacting.
Thanks for the advice
Welcome to TUSCL. But I guess that sounds off considering you've been on here since 2012.