New Niche - Young Dancers with Daddy Issues

7/28/2020 6:43:36 AM

Ok, I've finally has to cope with the fact that I'm old enough to be the father of many of the girls I deal with in the strip club, especially the girls in their 20s. Over the years my preferred dancer type has edged up in age into the late 20s to mid 30s range as I tried to stay ahead of the curve, but it's not longer realistic. As I've also been learning recently, it seems that I have also been depriving myself of a great source of fun.

For whatever reason, lately I've been drawing a lot of young girls with Daddy issues. Holy shit the things they tell me about their pasts. Something about me just makes them want to spill their guts about the bad things their own parents did to them. This is all without prompting from me.

Invariably they are seeking approval from this burly and slightly gruff Daddy figure. I give them some, but not too much of course. I've had to learn a completely new approach with new stock responses like "That sucks, a Dad is supposed to protect his girls, not hurt 'em" and "If I was you I woulda done xyz too. Parents like that don't deserve your loyalty." I've got a few others, but you get the picture.

It doesn't take long before that need for approval translates to a wild OTC trip. That's when many of these girls want to be treated a little rough. Spanking while I'm banging her from behind is common, but some of them like to be choked too. They can't seem to get off unless they're being disciplined a little, especially when the Daddy figure is calm and in control when he's doing it. All the cues are non-verbal - mewling blabber ruins it for them.

Seriously, some % of this generation of young strippers is truly fucked up. Now maybe it has always been like this but I was never old enough to tap into it, idk. Lucky for me that I'm young looking for my age and built well, so I should be able to capitalize on this for some time until I age out into grandpa territory.

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Mate27

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4 years ago

Then you can hook up with NinaBambina!

Warrior15

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4 years ago

I have to watch it when I am discussing my own kids. My sons are now older than most of the strippers/sugar babes I am seeing.

I've recently come across a few girls that wanted choking. I"m wondering if it is part of what you are talking about. Did Daddy choke them in the past ?

shanny72

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4 years ago

It's not just the strippers of the generation. The regular civilian girls are plenty messed up too

rockie

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4 years ago

My SC interaction quite often has me rubbing up dancers with some form of Daddy issues. And yes some (strange to me) behaviors have evolved from our interactions. I don't find any gratification in slapping, choking, (anal sex for that matter) and I usually suggest that they just move on to another Daddy nearby. I also attempt to limit my shared pleasure with any stripclub damsel that's (known to me) to be under 21, as naive and too young is not an elixer for me. I prefer my entertainer to be between 24 and 32 years old and have some sense of where things are headed as our interaction evolves. My expectations of any entertainer over 30 is that they offer a more sophisticated approach than the younger entertainers.

skibum609

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4 years ago

Choking seems to be a huge thing in the past 5 years. Don't recall it before. One of my job hazards is finding out that everyone is fucked up, so dancers seem normal.

twentyfive

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4 years ago

What’s so new about girls with daddy issues ?

gammanu95

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4 years ago

Erotic asphyxiafion has been around for decades, its just gotten more publicity with social media and some media coverage of kids hanging themselves while trying it during masturbation. You'd have to be a brave stripper to ask a PL to choke you. The closest I've been was a stripper who wanted to take me private so I could tear her fishnet stockings. It was the end of her shift, so there wasn't much left. I passed.

rickdugan

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4 years ago

===> "You'd have to be a brave stripper to ask a PL to choke you. "

By the time a girl who does not often meet dudes outside agrees to go OTC with a fella and gets naked with him in a hotel room, a certain level of comfort is already established.

JamesSD

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4 years ago

My stripper FWB was 29 but classic daddy issues girl (she owned it). Loved being spanked choked rough sex and having her ass destroyed while she thanked me.

In my civvy dating life I've also moved from peer to Daddy for women in their 20s. It's a very different dynamic when they want love and commitment vs wanting approval and validation. The latter group will do almost anything and don't ask much in return beyond a good girl.

skibum609

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4 years ago

Choking can be done itc during a lap dance.

JamesSD

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4 years ago

Nice to agree with skibum on something!

Yeah I'm a fan of spanking, hair pulling and choking during lap dances and I can tell my CF genuinely enjoys it (wouldn't do it if she didn't like it)

Cashman1234

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4 years ago

I think there have always been a decent percentage of strippers with daddy issues. It’s likely that many feel more comfortable talking about their issues now (than in the past). I think certain customers have a true daddy vibe that will attract those dancers.

There is more acceptance in the mainstream for the use of rough sex techniques. Spanking, and even choking aren’t as taboo as they were previously.

Possibly 30 years ago, a girl Jennifer Levin was killed in NYC by a guy named Robert Chambers - during what Chambers described as rough sex. It was called The Preppy Murder. The thought of a college girl engaging in rough sex - horrified many folks. Times have changed.

georgmicrodong

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4 years ago

It wasn't too long ago when I went OTC with my first "granddaughter" age stripper, I was almost exactly three times her age.

And yeah, she had daddy issues. Not exactly like yours though. Mom was a harridan, and dad had died when she was a girl. Since my own father passed when I was a child, I could relate, and it paid off.

But I've been older enough than most of the girls I've been with to be a "daddy" figure for quite some time now.

Player11

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4 years ago

Many like older men. Long term Sb x stripper was less than half my age when met. Even though she was engaged we did otc and itc fucking. After she got married it did not change our meetings. I have hundreds of photos of her in archive. Bik, nude, etc... Before sex she will do lap dances then I give her sexy back rub / sexy talk, feel her. Then great fucking. I treat them like queen, respect their privacy, charm them, Feed them money.

Muddy

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4 years ago

Can't say I've met alot of dancers with abusive father stuff that I was aware of atleast. No father though, yeah that's really common.

nicespice

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4 years ago

Speaking of Daddy issues, I just hung out with a customer today that talked about the time he went into a club and found his daughter there. She got uncomfortable and told him to gtfo, so he went off to another club. 🤣

Uprightcitizen

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4 years ago

I attribute it to an open sex culture amplified by mainstream porn and access to a very diverse view of "norms" through internet media. This has been a thing for some time and it was an eye opening experience for me like 5+ years ago. Its different for us guys (like yourself) where it was viewed as deviant behavior in our formative years. Fantasy and role playing (which includes daddy play) is endemic in modern sex culture and from what I have witnessed is pretty standard. Has that culture created more acceptance of sharing legitimate sexual abuse? Perhaps.

Uprightcitizen

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4 years ago

Lol @ Nice

Now thats a funny (but perhaps tragic) family story

skibum609

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4 years ago

I remember rapist, murderer and liar Robert Chambers. People were fucking horrified with the lie he made up and he wasn't believed. Don't recall anyone blaming her or thinking less of her. He is eligible for release in 2024, but in a just world he'd be murdered in prison before then.

Icey

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4 years ago

I think a lot of strippers have mommy issues. Bad relationships with moms shaped them. Fathers are absentee

chessmaster

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4 years ago

Half these girls now have daddy issues. Strip clubs and sex work is exactly the type of lifestyle that attracts girls with daddy issues. Same with the insta thots and only fans girls.

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