Male sexuality in 2020. Why do you go to strip c;ubs?
WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
New Jersey
Between being in therapy and being in the 7th week of the NJ lockdown I've had some opportunities to reflect recently. I've thought about girls I didn't kiss on the first date. Girls I was attracted to when I was in school and didn't ask out. And I've thought about how I haven't really gone for it in some other I=aspects of my life. I've been talking about al =l that with my 65 year old female, Jewish therapist and she asked me recently what it is that I do at strip clubs. Just the fact that I can grab a woman's ass without anyone missing a beat is amazing. Beyond going to strip clubs for the obvious - access to hot naked women, I go because I can be a man as opposed to the neutered version of men our society asks for today. Men like Azis Ansuri who looks as non threatening and boyish as possible and still got in trouble for asking a woman he bought dinner and took back to his apartment for a blowjob.
Can you guys relate?
Can you guys relate?
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I will play along and answer your questions.
Why Do You Go To Strip C;Ubs?
I go to Strip Clubs on my quest for the Holy Grail; OTC with a DS where GFE & PSE and a Sugar Baby type of relationship are created as a mutually beneficial experience, that makes my CF on her way to become my ATF and me happy about the interaction.
Can you guys relate?
No really.
“You never see a Harley parked outside of a psychologist or psychiatrist’s office.”
Motorcycling clears your mind and restores your soul. You enjoy the ride and have fun.
“Wind Therapy” is the best and most enjoyable activity.
Sometimes the road you traveled doesn’t get you to the destination you had hope for...
But if you can look back on the trip and still smile... then it was worth it.
Mistakes are a vital component to the learning process in life; so don’t beat yourself up over the decisions you made, learn from them and enjoy the learning experiences.
Go to Strip Clubs if you want and makes you happy because you enjoy the company of beautiful make ladies and don’t worry about what others think or do.
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. Don’t worry be Happy.
Maybe you and your therapist should watch the movie “Analyze This” together.
Analyze This is a 1999 American gangster comedy film. The film stars Robert De Niro (Paul Vitti) as a mafioso and Billy Crystal (Dr. Ben Sibelius) as his psychiatrist.
Paul Vitti (De Niro) has a mistress on call to pleasure him in ways he could never imagine being passionate with his wife
Dialogue:
Dr. Ben Sobel : What happened with your wife last night?
Boss Paul Vitti : I wasn't with my wife, I was with my girlfriend.
Dr. Ben Sobel : Are you having marriage problems?
Boss Paul Vitti : No.
Dr. Ben Sobel : Then why do you have a girlfriend?
Boss Paul Vitti : What, are you gonna start moralizing on me?
Dr. Ben Sobel : No, I'm not, I'm just trying to understand, why do you have a girlfriend?
Boss Paul Vitti : I do things with her I can't do with my wife.
Dr. Ben Sobel : Why can't you do them with your wife?
Boss Paul Vitti : Hey, that's the mouth she kisses my kids goodnight with! What are you, crazy?
- Sorry I couldn’t find the clip in YouTube.
I am glad you think is pretty good.
If you do get your therapist to watch the movie with you, please let us know what she says.
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Not even a little. You're feeling neutered only because it provides you with an emotional excuse to justify your difficulty in dealing with women. Blaming an external force is always easier than facing your own deficiencies.
You're welcome. I'll send you my bill, which will include a recapture fee for saving you months of pointless whining at your therapist's hourly rate just to get to the real source of those feelings. 😀
"People may also mention a coyote-ugly moment. This typically means that they would like to do (or have previously done) something similar to events in the movie, especially dancing on a bar top."
Or...
"popular etymology suggests that it drew inspiration from actual coyotes, as they tend to be so desperate to escape from traps that they chew their own limbs off. Other early uses imply the sexual partner was as ugly as a coyote, hence coyote ugly."
Or...
"In the movie, one of the characters describes a one-night-stand scenario with a person who is so ugly that in the morning, upon discovering them laying on your arm, “you’d rather chew off your arm than risk waking them.” The character states that this is coyote ugly." https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/coyot…
Without a large drawn out essay answer, my explanation is simple. ROLE REVERSAL.
So often women are choosing who they want to talk to or they shut you down before you even get two word out. As we say in the A, they stay “Choosing”.
When you walk in the SC, you’re the one in power. You the one “choosing”. The feelings don’t even have t be mutual. Everyone is available if your coins right. Knowing I can pick
And choose whomever fits my craving of the evening is euphoric.
If I want a dark skin fake ass chick. I can have. Mamacita from a variety of Hispanic countries. I can have. If I want a BLACKED fantasy, I can get a snowbunny to fit my fantasy, All in the discrete setting if the SC.
On top of that The outfits and heels 👠 are sexy as fuck! And nothing like seeing beautiful women sharks her ass and tits.
I go to the strip clubhouse after a hard days work or if I had the day off. I go when I’m happy and I go when I’m depressed and sad. I go when I’m mad and I go when I’m cheerful. I go when I’m horny or when I’m not horny at all. I go when I’m lonely and I go when I’m with associates. It’s really a one stop shop for everything.
This was the short version? I skipped to the end. "It’s really a one stop shop for everything." When things are set up right, you might be on to something.