My update

Oh - so you're saying you were banging these chicks for free vs paying for it?

Still - for many on here they find actually paying for it to be "cheaper" than not paying for it - but not everyone is wired the same way.

For the main chic it varied. I never really kept track on money when it came to her. It could range from giving her gas money to paying a $200 cell phone bill. One week we fucked 3 times and hung out every nite at her place. We didn’t just have sex, we were very close friends. A few times she randomly asked me to come over to fuck her because she was super horny.

The other two chics were more set up. We would go out on a date then go back to my place to fuck. I would give them $300 for their time. But I would also see them at the club and we would fuck in vip ($120) .

If it's a transaction its just that. When financial transactions are the basis its not friendship. Ask yourself jf any of them would be around with nothing to gain from you or without the club being ghe basis of your relationship. You have to be aware of what it is even if its unpleasant to your ego.

We all understand that. It’s a given. I still consider it some sort of relationship. Even tho we are using each other. Especially for the amount of time we invested in each other. Not even being sexual. We would just hang out. Our kids even played together etc.

You know the dynamics we don't. I'm just going by what you said.

For sure. Each situation is different. I only had this relationship with my main chic, the other two were more of a transaction type. But we did the most we could to make our interactions and dates feel personal and authentic. I always felt special and unique. That’s just how I am. And they knew that.

@Newtothislife

Pics and Videos or didn’t happen.

Over 2 years of messing with these chics. Of course I have pics and a few videos. I even had the luxury of shooting a cooking show with porn star SARA JAY. I have videos on my YouTube. Lmk who wants to see. 🙂

Thats a m girlfriend experience.vthese these girls do it for a living. You start to feel something and they know they can take advantage of you. Thats the problem with it. When youre not on the same page. In the long run its a recipe for heartache

With dancers you know its real when your relationship is like it would be with any girl. Ask yoirself if tbeyre the types you attract in your everyday life. If it's based on money. If it centers on the club. Etc

I’m glad you are enjoying your time with these girls. It remains a business transaction. The relationship appears to have the frustration and fights, that are involved with a non monetary relationship, but it requires you to pay for everything.

It must satisfy you, for you to continue the relationship, so that’s good.

When you say this girl (or chick?) has stopped stripping, does that imply she’s now an escort? I’m not sure that’s a good thing....

She’s a Uber driver now. She changed her ways. No more hoe life for her. 🤷🏻‍♂️

That must be a step down in money. Unless she works crazy hours - or near a major airport - it can be tough keeping a decent dancer cash flow going.

@Newtothislife

I hope you tell your “girlfriend” that: “for most people, driving for Uber is a waste of time...”

“Why Uber is a scam - Math explains”

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fgQPj90OrQ…

Also you start to look a lot like another poster that was impersonating a rapper and using his pics, I am just saying.

It doesn’t matter, because “Everything in this site should be considered a work of fiction”

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