Many years ago, TJ clubbing was very affordable and inexpensive. I still remember the days when a half-hour arriba session at Adelita’s bar with a gorgeous Mexican chica would cost between $60-$70.
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Nowadays that 👆🏻seems unheard of, and pricing has almost doubled and tripled ( in some cases ). Plus, the mongering options are also unlimited. As such the simple half-hour session of Fun can become quite expensive ( based on your individual taste and idea of fun, whether you prefer keeping it only ITC or taking it OTC to the next level ).
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My daily FUN limit can range anywhere between a mere $250/$300 per night to a whopping $1400 ++ ( including good restaurant meals, partying with ATF and her friend/s together, drinks ….. etc ). Depending on my mood and how far I’d like to take the FUN on that particular day/night. Plus, these pretty Mexican chicas make the situation even worse by introducing me to their friends or else tagging them along hoping for a threesome entertainment 😁
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As such lately my usual budget seems to be going totally wackos, especially on this past Friday when I was invited over by my Mazatleca ATF ( back in town )and she brings over yet another gorgeous 21 year-old spinner friend with her ( to make up for our recent misunderstanding/quarrel at CC ).
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The overall FUN was simply mind blowing and so was the out-of-pocket $$$$$. So the question that comes to mind after this experience is, where do we put a Stop 🛑 Keep a strict budget and follow it or break all the rules as long as the FUN/FANTASY follow through each time ?
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last commentI've done the back of the napkin math on my trips. Every single time I've broken my weekend budget a threesome was involved.
It's not even just that it's 2x the price. You need or want longer too. That's why I ask my wingmen to hold up signs that say 🚫🙅♂️NO THREESOMES🚫
But... they are fun, and you need them every once in a while to live your best life.
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When I’m in TJ, I try to keep my daily limit at $500. I think for three nights, $1500 should be enough for a good time - girls, food, and drink. Then again, everyone’s budget is different.
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. “But... they are fun, and you need them every once in a while to live your best life.”
👆🏻Ron, that’s my problem but IMO the FUN simply outweighs the expense. No wonder I’ve always got a big smile regardless of the very demanding job I may have😁This past Friday, I really went overboard from my usual partying mode but the memory recap next morning was priceless 👌🏻
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OPlllini96 - You are a smart man in keeping a daily limit and following it through. Although over time that may very well change, based on more frequent visits to TJ ( from before ). But, I am sure it’ll never get out of hand for you compared to if you were living locally in SoCal. Now that temptation of being nearby TJ plus the nonstop messaging by chicas inviting you over can become very hard to resist especially if you had the means to accommodate their needs ( and vice-versa )👌🏻So, in a way some of you guys are lucky for living far away from TJ 😁
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^ "So, in a way some of you guys are lucky for living far away from TJ 😁"
Yeah, as an East Coaster, looking at it with the most positivity I can muster, it keeps me out of both bankruptcy court and divorce court. So there's that...
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^ “ Yeah, as an East Coaster, looking at it with the most positivity I can muster, it keeps me out of both bankruptcy court and divorce court. “
👆🏻Very true indeed 👌🏻Although in some cases, living far off doesn’t help either. I know a few friends that aren’t local and they all started out mongering in TJ once every six months and now they are practically flying in almost monthly. I had warned them ahead of time to proceed with caution as TJ mongering can become quite addicting coz of the endless FUN, but they all thought I was just kidding ( Lol )😈
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My Motto: He who dies with the most memories wins.
If your main concern is staying in budget, that stress is going to affect your performance. For some reason, I always exceed my budget and my real world bills still get paid…somehow.
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^ “ For some reason, I always exceed my budget and my real world bills still get paid…somehow. “
👆🏻PT - Same has been the case with me for a while now. We are all definitely blessed in that way 👍🏻
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At first when I was new to TJ Mongering, I had many restrictions as I wasn’t quite familiar with all the possible priceless opportunities/memories to be had. But, as I started feeling more accustomed and comfortable to my surroundings by meeting/dating all sorts of pretty Mexican chicas I learnt a lot about life from their perspective based on their individual experiences. It’s amazing seeing how smart and also realistic minded these club/s girls can be at a very young age and maybe it’s because of the daily hardships they experience due to poverty in their personal/family household/s.Since, my focus has primarily been on FUN and the priceless memories that keep adding in.
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Life is beautiful, live to its fullest and keep cherishing the great moments👌🏻
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“But, I am sure it’ll never get out of hand for you compared to if you were living locally in SoCal. Now that temptation of being nearby TJ plus the nonstop messaging by chicas inviting you over can become very hard to resist especially if you had the means to accommodate their needs ( and vice-versa )“
That’s a very true statement @PAFBABS. If I lived in SoCal, I honestly would be tempted to go every day, and would spend more money than planned. Now, once I retire in a couple of years, I’ll go a little more often (maybe once every other month) and have a bigger budget.
@PutaTester: point well taken. As I pay off more bills, my available budget will go up. But at the same time I don’t feel any pressure around the girls. If I sense a bad vibe, I’m quick to limit my losses (usually one or two fichas) and move on to other ladies. This way, my money goes far.
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“ Now, once I retire in a couple of years, I’ll go a little more often (maybe once every other month) and have a bigger budget. “
👆🏻OPlllini96 - Good planning, and I am happy for you. Nothing better than utilizing your well earned retirement time in the company of gorgeous chicas 👌🏻
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“ If I sense a bad vibe, I’m quick to limit my losses (usually one or two fichas) and move on to other ladies. This way, my money goes far. “
^ You’re a smart man, coz many others aren’t as successful as you in cutting bait quickly and they usually get suckered in deep before even realizing it. Now that I am a lot more experienced at this game, I still notice a few of my ATF’s occasionally trying to pull a fast one every now and then ( intentionally or maybe unintentionally ). But,I know exactly when to be gentle or else firm towards them as needed. IMO these chicas will respect you too for it for not being weak willed 👍🏻
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👆🏻Thanks for the valuable feedback, and it’s good to know that all TJ Mongering Pros think alike 👌🏻
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Sounds like the diehards hyped up TJ so much the prices rose along with the place's reputation.
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I don't think a few PLs on a tiny message board like this can do anything meaningful to swing the prices. I'm just as suspicious of the idea of gatekeeping prices, like on other forums where "HOLD THE LINE" is a mantra.
The reasons prices have gone up include:
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I’ve never been to Tijuana, but it seems to me that there’s too much emphasis on budgeting going on not just here but across the TUSCL website. My guess if you’re concerned about your finances, then this isn’t a good hobby for you. Not saying that anyone should live above their means, I am saying if you’re concerned about your finances you’re probably not having as much fun as you should.
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I am pretty fortunate to be comfortable have the means to enjoy clubbing on my terms, but the reality is, I'm still need to have a budget. No matter how much you spend on the hobby, or in the Zona, you could still always spend more.
Like if I won the lottery tomorrow, I'd be doing a weeklong bender in the Rizo pool suite, which I would keep stocked with hot chicas in a week long orgy. Such an extravagence would be several orders of magnitude more costly than what I might currently spend in any given trip.
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. “ I am pretty fortunate to be comfortable have the means to enjoy clubbing on my terms, but the reality is, I'm still need to have a budget. No matter how much you spend on the hobby, or in the Zona, you could still always spend more. “
👆🏻Likewise RonJax2, same here my friend. I’ve been in this hobby for many years, starting out from our local SoCal clubs and then stepping up the game into Tijuana mongering. If budget was a concern then the FUN wouldn’t have been this awesome each and every time. It has simply gotten three folds better now than ever before ( for me ).
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ProTip : Women don’t like cheapskates, keeping that in mind it’s totally fine to stay within your means but at the same time generosity ( within limits ) will be noticed and appreciated by these pretty chicas. It’ll simply make it much easier to add in some priceless / memorable moments very quickly within the memory bank 👍🏻
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