Somebody told a stripper what I wrote in a review. Not cool.
goldmongerATL
The Square Above Charlie Weaver
I wrote a review about a month ago about a newbie girl I took back to my hotel. It was her first OTC. Got mixed opinions on whether I should have named her. I did so to pass on the intel that she did OTC. This is a small club so redacting her name to S***y would still make it pretty easy to find a girl with a matching name. But that's a debate for another day.
We exchanged numbers as she did not know if she would continue dancing. I took her number on the off chance I ever get back to Indiana. I got a text a little while ago. Undeciphering the textspeak:
It's S***y. Why did you tell your friend we went to your hotel?? I just got back from his hotel. $300!
We texted a lot more and this is the jist of the story.
Some guy went into her club and asked if she was S***y. She said yes and asked how he knew that. He said "he had heard" she was willing to do OTC. He implied I had "told" him, not that he read it in a review. She got comfortable with him and decided to take him up on his offer, but only for about 1.5 hours, not spending the night. She had decided it is good money and plans to start hinting to PL's that she determines are from out of town.
There was one thing she was pissed off about. In my review I mentioned she was "about five pounds from being an 8". This guy dropped that she was not as fat as the impression I gave. I got the I can't believe you think I'm fat complaint.
I told her I didn't tell anyone but she hit me with "then how did he know?" I just clammed up.
Bottom line was no major harm in this one case, but it is REALLY UNCOOL to quote someone's review to a dancer. Even more UNCOOL to give the impression you were told this info personally. Although telling her you read it in a review opens a whole other can of worms for me.
At a brothel like Follies if someone said he heard she let guys finger her and swallowed cum in VIP that would narrow it down to oh, a couple of hundred customers. But at a small club with a girl that has almost zero track record as far as number of customers it's totally different. For all I know I am the only guy who had ever even bought a VIP session from her.
We exchanged numbers as she did not know if she would continue dancing. I took her number on the off chance I ever get back to Indiana. I got a text a little while ago. Undeciphering the textspeak:
It's S***y. Why did you tell your friend we went to your hotel?? I just got back from his hotel. $300!
We texted a lot more and this is the jist of the story.
Some guy went into her club and asked if she was S***y. She said yes and asked how he knew that. He said "he had heard" she was willing to do OTC. He implied I had "told" him, not that he read it in a review. She got comfortable with him and decided to take him up on his offer, but only for about 1.5 hours, not spending the night. She had decided it is good money and plans to start hinting to PL's that she determines are from out of town.
There was one thing she was pissed off about. In my review I mentioned she was "about five pounds from being an 8". This guy dropped that she was not as fat as the impression I gave. I got the I can't believe you think I'm fat complaint.
I told her I didn't tell anyone but she hit me with "then how did he know?" I just clammed up.
Bottom line was no major harm in this one case, but it is REALLY UNCOOL to quote someone's review to a dancer. Even more UNCOOL to give the impression you were told this info personally. Although telling her you read it in a review opens a whole other can of worms for me.
At a brothel like Follies if someone said he heard she let guys finger her and swallowed cum in VIP that would narrow it down to oh, a couple of hundred customers. But at a small club with a girl that has almost zero track record as far as number of customers it's totally different. For all I know I am the only guy who had ever even bought a VIP session from her.
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On the other hand, you have to take the hit for writing S***y's name. OF COURSE some cunty PL is going to use that info. Rookie mistake man!
However, this is also a good reminder to avoid personal identifying information if we are describing explicit sexual interactions. My only exception to this rule is that I'll use names to warn others of a ROB.
It’s really no ones business what you did with whom, remember that.
Yeah, graphic illustration about how you can kill your own golden goose. If you're not interested in protecting her so she doesn't get in trouble at the club, protect her so your awesome OTC doesn't dry up
For your penance, I'd like you to read every one of rick dugan's reviews, and tell me how many reviews of his outed dancers names, or even initials to specific acts.
Again, the purpose of monger sites is to SHARE INTEL ABOUT DANCERS!! If I just want to know dance/ entry/ drink prices, there’s club websites. I want to know dancer past performance & tip demands; even subjective opinions re looks & willingness are of limited use since tastes vary & YMMV always. I was outed from another website that has limited/earned-access “Adult Review” sections for juicy details (a great concept but not “fool”-proof). I do agree the all-access TUSCL requires more subtlety & is more of a balancing act, but “the Minnow Rule” would gut the utility of reviews & reduce readership on this site. And it seems totally selfish and knight-ish to hoard intel to protect yourself & “your girls”; help out your fellow mongers, dude!! Better to trust fellow mongers to honor the code & not be a douche than to “political correctness” this website into uselessness.
So a little help. How would you have worded it to provide useful info the the reader about what was available?
*The dude who wanted to use your review for his own negotiation purposes.
*You outing her and making her activities known without her consent.
*And also her for not charging the appropriate rates (which I consider “fair” and TUSCLers would consider “insane”)...which would have naturally filtered out the blab happy customers.
The information is for us to use to formularse your approach not to show the dancer, what a dick.
I was at HK with a fellow TUSCLer when a BG recognized us, I decided to buy her a ficha and she asked me what were saying about her, my white lie: just saying how beautiful she was.
Come on guys, use the intel properly.
I don't think there is a consequence-free way to do everything you want to do. You either get to provide useful info to the reader about a specific girl doing OTC, or you get to keep doing OTC the same way you have, IMO. You can't expect you can do both. Even if that one cunty PL hadn't outed you, another might have; or management or one of the other girls could have (and still may) read it, in which case the consequences can be much worse for her. In the days when we had a super-explicit & detailed (we named names) review board in my area, it was the other girls who provided the worst punishment. Protect your OTC or give specific OTC info to the PLs, one or the other, IMO.
If you feel compelled to brag about your sexual exploits wtf is rong with you.
I think it depends on the club. In this club it was probably wrong to name her and mention she went OTC because it is small and slow.
Not bragging. Just pointing out success at club X, failure at club Y, etc. Trying to help people who come after me. It is tough to strike the balance in how to do that.
1. In reviews: Do not use provider names when describing any illegal acts.
2. In a club: TUSCL = Fight Club. You do not talk about Fight Club! You do not talk about TUSCL!
Read these rules. Then read them again. Then have them inked onto your ATF's ass so you can be reminded of them the next time you are raw dogging her from behind.
Then email [email protected] and tell him you shot your splooge all over her ass to hide the rules - just don't user her name!
I’m all about giving folks tips about how to go about getting what they want but steering customers towards certain providers is a nonstarter in my book, remember what she does with me she may not be willing to do for you that’s why it’s always ymmv, if a monger just pays attention to what’s happening here on this board there is no reason that he/she shouldn’t be able to find what they are desiring of, if you need to take them by the hand and coach them every step of the way they’re not ready for this.
At the very least before pointing to a specific provider you should ask her if she wants you to do that, I’m sure not having that conversation with her are you, if that’s the case you need to keep your sexual exploits to yourself, I’m sure most of the women would very much prefer it that way.
In a small club - with a limited set of dancers - a basic description of a dancer can be enough to give her identity away.
The circumstances described were not good.
After most every review I post - I get someone asking for a name - and I refuse to give them a name. I think those guys are the ones with no game - who just want to go up to a dancer and say “I heard from this guy Cashman1234 on a strip club site - that you will suck cock for $75 plus gratuity. I’ll give you $60 and call it even. Let’s go to vip now.”
Was the other guy a dick for what he did? 💯 percent fuck yes. Should you have expected that it was possible some anonymous dick out there was reading your review and it could come back to bite you? 💯 percent yes.
It sucks but it’s a good reminder to be more careful.
I hope his dick falls off.
About a year ago I received an PM From one of our fellow members who was referred to me from one of my trusted members circle.
PL was friends with one of my most trusted and was asking for intel on a specific club ..: was especially interested in which of the various extras girls are / might be open to a hotel room romp with an out of towner
Being of help I named a few girls he might want to approach but apparently he outed me as being the source of the info that they were OTC available... thankfully I didn’t provide lurid details but had some back stroking to do when one of the girls called me on the carpet ...
I blocked both my trusted friend and never heard back from his referral friend
Lesson learned. Keep it zipped when strangers are looking to leverage info from your own circle ...
Have a great weekend.