How far out of your way would you go to see a stripper at her club whom you've never seen before? What would make you want to? The attitude in her writing? The way she describes her dances? Somebody else's recommendation?
(Obviously, this question is prompted by comments about a certain poster among us. However, I'm asking it as a general question, not necessarily about anyone in particular.)
I don't think I'd go very far to meet someone I didn't know, maybe an hour max. But for someone I do know ... I go 1200 miles (one way) to see my ATF.
All of the above- communication style piques my interest, actually talking to her or getting a reliable rec. would be the deal sealer. But, to go more than 1-2 hrs away, would have to have something else going on in area. If you go to Cleveland just to see evilcyn, you've got me beat there.
how far?
my front door.
Just kidding, I would go to a nearby club if she was visiting and I wanted to see her and I had a decent amount of time. I've gotten somewhat intimate with at least one dancer and had no idea what her home club was called. I had no intention of driving that far away. I was a bit surprised some dancers were actually driving over 200 miles one way to work at a local club and doing that every week for a while.
Well I have done it once. A stripper who posted on my favorite clubs chat board. It was 240 miles away but I was going to make the trip anyway. We met up, she was young and good looking and did an above average lap dance. She suggested that when I came to town the next month, we get together OTC and hang out. We exchanged some emails. She sent me 3 pictures. One with her tits exposed. But everytime I tried to hook up with her OTC, I got met with rejection. She even posted on this board (HellaElla) that I was out of bounds trying to date a stripper. Then the stripper shit started coming in from every direction. Her and other strippers. Her younger sister P.J. got canned for drug abuse. They both may be working at Heartbreakers. Thats where they send the losers.
Honestly, I don't think I would go to any club just to see an "unknown" stripper/dancer. I would, and have, however, driven almost 100 miles to see one I knew. Now, I would drive maybe 300 if I could see her again.
casualguy, it is common for girls to drive that far to work.. We had one that drove almost 2 hours, to work at our club 5 days a week.. I have a had some drive, with never meeting face to face, and it always has been somewhat a mix of personality, company, and then dances...It makes me a little nervous for someone to drive out of their way to see me with never meeting,at least they have all turned out enjoyable though..
I wouldn't drive more than 15 or 20 minutes out of my way to see a dancer that I'd never met before. Even with a sparkling description of her and/or her dancing styles.
With the glowing reviews we've read about EvilCyn, and reading her posts, I would definitely visit her, if in the Cleveland area. (even knowing that her dances aren't "two way" touching)
However, for a known commodity - for a fave, for instance, I would drive HOURS to visit. I drive three hours each way to see my ATF, and every second of that drive is worth it.
I won't go much out of my way to see a stripper I have seen before who's already a favorite, unless she's at a great club or near some other good clubs. To make it a destination, there's got to be a Plan B in case things don't work out.
This applies doubly so for somebody I've never seen or met before. I might possibly throw caution to the wind if it were a stripper with whom I'd carried on some torrid email exchange, but not just because she sounded nice on a discussion board.
evilcyn, I understand now it isn't unusual for dancers to drive that far every week to work at a club. I just didn't know that years ago since most of the dancers I met were local girls or girls who lived within an hour away from the club. An hour away seems local to me.
I think 8 years ago, an old ATF from NC still had my phone number after I moved to SC and called me up to tell me she was working at Platinum Plus for a few days and wanted me to visit. I drove over an hour to go see her. I know of another dancer that was traveling from Alabama to a nearby club here in South Carolina every week. I'm not sure how many miles that was. Another one of my favorite dancers was traveling every week for a while I estimate about 270 miles one way or 540 miles a week back and forth between her home and a club near me. I think she was flying a bit too fast, lol. She got caught speeding by the police and then she stopped visiting.
Another one of my current favorites is working at the beach but she stays there for several weeks at a time before returning to work at a local club. I was a bit surprised the last time I called her and she told me she was at the beach.
I did get talked into visiting one ATF dancer at her home a couple of different times after she had moved an hour away from the club she worked at. Considering the fact that I already lived an hour away from the club in the opposite direction, that was a 2 hour drive one way. She once lived in the same city she worked in. I still remember one night she called me up out of the blue and tried to talk me into going to see a movie with her during a weeknight. I had to go to work in the morning. I thought 4 hours of driving and told her no thanks.
As far as driving far to see a dancer I don't know, that's not happening.
I think that girls traveling far to dance is pretty common, they do it so they don't accidently run into anyone who knows them. I used to see a girl fairly regularly who drove 2 hours (each way) to the club - she lived near Dulles Airport in VA and worked in a club south of Baltimore. I also once met a dancer who worked in Providence and was a student in Worcester, which is well over an hour. I also knew a dancer who lived near Richmond and worked in the DC area.
But lots of other girls don't care and they work near where they live. My ATF lived about a mile from her club - she shared a house with 2 or 3 other dancers who worked at the same place. I think age has a lot to do with it, the young single ones probably care less about running into someone they know.
I think a dancer traveling has less to do with being recognized than it does with maximizing revenue. Most of the girls I know who travel do it to get to better, busier clubs.
A little off topica, but when I'm in a new town for a couple of days, I'll scout out the area, and go to all the SCs in TUSCL. To find the best one. If the best is 90 minutes each way I've done it before. But thats cuz I was bored, and the club was good. Oh and they had nite paving going on. I never expected it. Sat in so much traffic!
How far is relative for me. I regularly drive from one to two hours to visit clubs and do so based on a particular dancer I want to see at a particular club. The last time I made a special trip was to see a favorite ex-porn star who was working as a house dancer at a club reasonably nearby. I had always wanted to meet her and the trip did not disappoint.