Stage Side Mini Lap Dances, Where to Find them & how to attract them?

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• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  Some places do that. The most extreme is when that can go to DFKing and/or DATYing, at stage side. Some places that might not be standard, but if the back room has gone FS, then some aggressive girls wanting results, they won't hold back. They even initiate DFKing or make DATYing unavoidable. Dives is what I would suggest. SJG
• Arbiter

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  5 years ago

  Anyone know vegas clubs these might occur at?
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  Any place where FS in the back room is the norm, and where there are no real front room limits. Always best! Many girls will go the distance to get you into the back room. SJG
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  Never been to Vegas, and lots of reportage out there. Some have reported on dives in Vegas. SJG
• mjx01

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  5 years ago

  afaik mini-laps are standard procedure are PT's Aurora CO
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  ^^^^^ stage side? And how far can it go, DFKing, DATYing? Back room FS? SJG
• PaulDrake

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  5 years ago

  I am curious why you like this vs just getting a lap dance?
• Arbiter

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  5 years ago

  They are way cheaper, spontaneous , stage viewing / tipping is fun and these make it way more fun, and they are a nice preview
• nicespice

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  5 years ago

  A lot of San Antonio dancers are like that. But I think it’s just cause it’s a higher mileage city in general anyways.
• nicespice

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  5 years ago

  I don’t think you’re going to get a 10 min one however unless you’re making it rain a lot thought
• crazyjoe

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  5 years ago

  This is pretty much standard at PTs Centerfolds. Usually $2-4 will get a 30 second dance. Never been to Dandy Dans though
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  Icey has detailed Las Vegas club info [view link] The reason I like stage side and front room interactions, instead of just buying a dance, is that in the front room you have not agreed to anything, no time length, no amount of money. Rather, you are just handing her money. The money is a show of appreciation, not a fee for service. Probably the money flows even faster, and there is no house cut. I learned how much better this way is, as opposed to buying dances, in our own underground circuit. And even in San Francisco, the stage side friendliness is often better than buying dances. More flexible, more fun. And a girl on your lap is a very good situation, very conducive to front room intimacies. Overall, better to just let what happens happen right where you are seated, or on your feet. Approach a girl on your feet, or she sits on your lap, or at stage side. Better these ways. Lap dancing started in San Francisco and it was like that, front room only. Buying Dances Is A Chump's Game! Booths and back rooms were invented to increase the house cut, and also to make it so that dancers can stay tuned out, and so they can maintain total control at all times, instead of just letting go. Save the booths and back rooms until you have intimate rapport with your girl, should be lots of DFKing, maybe FIV and DATY too. Then, when you have this rapport, and when it is time for your own pants to come down, then you invite her to the back room Then take her home with you and continue to bed her regularly. SJG
• Arbiter

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  5 years ago

  Yea SJG gets it. Our organizations should have an alliance.
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  Nothing wrong with giving a girl money. But Buying Dances Is A Chump's Game. SJG
• Sweetheartinkd

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  5 years ago

  Sometimes used as enticement to "advertise" and tease the skills the dancer has to offer :)
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  ^^^^^ Best because it is not yet structured by a money or time agreement. You still give her money, but it is not yet contractual. SJG
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  Especially for one who is highly influenced by how women dress and paint up, instant sex venues are best. SJG
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  Need more thinks like swinger's clubs, but for single people, not for married Republicans. Complications in this though. SJG
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  Swingers Clubs work because some married Republican women are on a power trip. If you try to make it work for single people, it will probably be P4P. Not that the women are resistant to sex, its just that they want something more. So the other way then is a counter cultural milieu, like the organization I am building. The women will be well taken care of, but not actually paid for sex. Sex is always to be free and plentiful. SJG