Recruit Difficulty and stay broke? WTF!?
Estafador
BIG APPLE
I never understand these adult entertainers (I say that instead of a specific title because I'm casting a wide net across the promiscuous board) and their TERRIBLE money habits. With the advent of technology, learning how to have your money make money has never been easier. Hell I'd say if you can make a cool $7K a month for 5-10 years with little difficulty then you can be a millionaire a year or two later. Yet whether it's a stripper, a gold digger, escort, cam/web girls, whatever, they always somehow stay low on funds and high on luxurious items. How is that possible. If you're a golden stripper, role model for all pink girls (stripperweb for the few that don't know) you're probably making good money hustling thirsty johns without giving up the goods. Or if you're a gold digger or "sugarbabies" (same thing really), you're getting paid to date a man and yet are always broke, how? That man should have the knowledge you can aquire or at least his monthly allowance can be squirreled away for later in life since he's always paying for dinners, you're rent and your vacays.
I say this because just a few days ago I met a girl who was one of these sugarbabies (took her a while to admit it) and was also a stripper on the side. She told me she rotated through men because obviously she's not giving up the goods (that's negligable). Now I'm not her customer, but she complaining to me how she needed to make some money for rent and such. Was she subtly trying to ask me to donate to her charity, I don't know but I didn't nonetheless. I asked how she is broke and she said she doesn't make enough afford her basic necessities. I guess when stripping ain't working out and she doesn't have a john to squeeze, she's probably working at McDonalds. I was just shocked. And she was bragging to me how these old men give her lots of money take her places, go out on dates, etc (the dates were seperate from them actually giving her money) and yet she couldn't afford rent. Said she been at it for a few years, more than 2 but that's all I know. Millionaire old men who was quick to part ways with money too. Clearly I was shocked, bamboozled, and utterly confused and didn't even process to ask how exactly she was broke if millionaires were giving her cash on top of paying for them to have a good time with one another? Unfortunately we parted ways before I could ask and that was that.
Yet here I am busting my ass to make a dollar and STILL can put money in the savings, the ETFs, my business projects, and STILL pay rent. I have never been more confused by this in my life. Because if I was a female and can get away with making $10+K/mo just selling photos of my ass on snapchat, I'd be rich by 30. I just don't get it.
I say this because just a few days ago I met a girl who was one of these sugarbabies (took her a while to admit it) and was also a stripper on the side. She told me she rotated through men because obviously she's not giving up the goods (that's negligable). Now I'm not her customer, but she complaining to me how she needed to make some money for rent and such. Was she subtly trying to ask me to donate to her charity, I don't know but I didn't nonetheless. I asked how she is broke and she said she doesn't make enough afford her basic necessities. I guess when stripping ain't working out and she doesn't have a john to squeeze, she's probably working at McDonalds. I was just shocked. And she was bragging to me how these old men give her lots of money take her places, go out on dates, etc (the dates were seperate from them actually giving her money) and yet she couldn't afford rent. Said she been at it for a few years, more than 2 but that's all I know. Millionaire old men who was quick to part ways with money too. Clearly I was shocked, bamboozled, and utterly confused and didn't even process to ask how exactly she was broke if millionaires were giving her cash on top of paying for them to have a good time with one another? Unfortunately we parted ways before I could ask and that was that.
Yet here I am busting my ass to make a dollar and STILL can put money in the savings, the ETFs, my business projects, and STILL pay rent. I have never been more confused by this in my life. Because if I was a female and can get away with making $10+K/mo just selling photos of my ass on snapchat, I'd be rich by 30. I just don't get it.
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Yes, 1 in 10 may be savers but most don’t seem to fit that profile.
In the sugaring world, most have been pretty good about handling money and using the sugaring money for school or school expenses. Current 21-yr-old is in a different category though and spends a lot of money on cars and racing. She told me recently that her previous SD was a dermatologist. I tried to tell her gently that the absolutely magnetic appeal she has on men won't last forever. But I can tell it didn't sink in.
A broke hoe can't demand as much $$$ or act like she's worth so much.
Fast money moves quick.....they get a larger sum at once, not on a regular basis, its easy to blow through it.
They really do have a lot of expenses...hair makeup drugs etc. If she's in an expensive city, its hard on almost any income.
My ATF who has since retired was very open to me about her investments. She owns residential and business properties all over Brazil, all over NYS and bought my bungalow in Hawaii.
The reality is most people have trouble managing their funds, so it's none of my business about their personal finances.
Making strippers sound like investors and money making geniuses is ridiculous.
Gawker is right, marriage is basically the way out unless they actually do have some kind of skill to fall back on. Every stripper I know eventually gets some vocational training or gets married if they want to get out.....and none of them retire millionaires.
In 11 years I've only known one who invested. She got a Subway franchise in Manhattan.