Planning a club visit in near future. Made me wonder, which gives you more pleasure, the anticipation of a visit, or reliving in memory your most recent visit?
I realize this is most relevant to those who club less frequently than those who go all the time, or often go on a whim without preplanning.
Me, I like the anticipation beforehand, though the memories can be marvelous after.
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I hate the anticipation waiting for my next trip to paradise.the memories with a young gorgeous mexican chica is priceless to me
To be honest, the anticipation is usually better (because the actual experience is often a big letdown). But most of us still keep going back because, once in a while, the experience in the club meets or even exceeds expectations.
What the good reverend just said.
Anticipation almost always.
Second to the visit itself.
When I watch football, I never watch the pregame show but if my team wins, I watch the post game show, highlights, read about the victory on social media, ESPN.com, and watch YouTube highlights until the next game.
I don't really enjoy the anticipation of going mongering but reliving the adventures is what I look forward so much.
What the Reverend said too.
Reliving the memories and justifying the money spent
I love the anticipation of more. That means I am on my way. If I'm thinking about memories, then it may be a while until I go back.
For me it used to be the pre-visit excitement and couldn't wait to get to the club (these days when I go it's more out of habit or boredom so not too-much pre-visit excitement as in the past)
For me it is too chill out and not have to think. Whatever happens, happens.
I like to smell the used panties, of the last stripper, I visited for half a day before go.
The anticipation is awesome. I was thinking about this last weekend when I was on my way to a Toronto-area erotic massage place. But for me, nothing beats the anticipation of being in that cab or HK shuttle just a couple of minutes away from Club Hong Kong, just knowing you're that close to a plethora of pussy -- hot pussy, suckable titties and shapely asses.
Survey says: Anticipation wins. But not by a mile. Memories are good too. Couple can't decide.
Half the fun is the anticipation, the other half is an event that meets or exceeds what was anticipated.
Remembering and reliving a good experience can dictate our actions when we think of the future as an anticipated memory “This will be a fun strip Club/ITC/OTC experience”)
I try to enjoy both equally and try to keep my expectations reasonable.
“And now, to bask in the joys of anticipation; sweeter, some say, than the actual cash.” -Al Bundy
Anticipation, definitely. Memories are great, but they're already in the bank. Adding to that 'memory bank' is more exciting.
I realize that for me, it is quite cyclical, anticipation is growing considerably as visit approaches, but afterwards I expect to be in happy memory mode.
Anticipation definitely. I don’t know what’s gonna happen. That’s why I want to go so bad. Gotta find out.
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