Last time I went to a local strip club, I got a lap dance with a girl, and the girl said she could do BJ for extra charge. After she did BJ for me, she gave me her number and said "we could do something more outside the club". I'm going to text her and ask her for OTC. However, I worried about prostitute sting, and cops will arrest you even you just ask price. Is there anyway to avoid sting when ask a stripper for OTC? A guy suggests me to ask like"I would n't think of paying for sex, but I was thinking about making a donation to your children' s college fund say $150?" I would appreciate for more suggestions to avoid sting.
Cops don't give BJ's. If you got one, she is not a cop. The not paying for sex but making a donation route will not work. They know what you actually paid for.
A police officer working undercover at the strip club, and giving blowjobs, all to set you up for a prostitution bust? lol
OTC isn't for everyone. I don't think it's for you, if this is what you're worried about. I'm thinking this has to be someone's new "fun persona" or "comedy" *cough* troll, but just in case.
I am not sure if this is a legit discussion, but I will play along for the benefit of those with similar questions. if you are concerned that you may be about to step into a sting/trap, try:
I'd like to spend an hour with you, would 150 work? How does thirty minutes for 100 sound?
Generally speaking, never mention a specific sex act and never say the word dollar.
In a sting, LE will ask you what you are looking for, trying to get you to request a sex act. If that does not work, LE may offer a sex act and ask if that is what you want. A "yes" reply or even an affirmative nod will get you pinched. Anyone experienced in the business understands what you get for a 30 minute date and what you get for a 60 minutes date. It doesn't need to be stated explicitly.
I once escaped a sting back in the day by saying "No no no, you misunderstand, I just wanted to share some time with you" and then quickly moved away. I saw the next guy get busted moments later. Whew!!
To your question -- cops don't give BJs ITC and then set stings for paid sex OTC. You're fine.
In most places like Los Angeles paying for an escort is legal and ‘'what two adults do on a “date” is their own business.”, technically you are paying for her time for companionship. So it is not illegal to have consensual sex.
In any case if you ever have to deal with any kind of Law Enforcer Officer (LEO); first is ask if you are under arrest or detained. If not, say good night and walk away, I they say yes you are under arrest or detained for investigation, they will have to read you the Miranda Rights.
("1- You have the right to remain silent. 2- Anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law. 3- You have the right to speak to an attorney, and to have an attorney present during any questioning. 4- If you cannot afford a lawyer, one will be provided for you at government expense.")
Your answer at this point, no matter the questions should be:
“Attorney”; “Attorney”; “Attorney”
Chances are you will be able to walk away whith not even a citation.
Most people end up in jail or in a trial, because they don’t know how to keep their mouth shut.
NEVER INCRIMINATE YOURSELF!!!
In your case there is little chance that the police would get involved.
You should text her:
“Hi there “her name”; I hope you remember me; we meet at the “club name” you gave me your number so “we could do something more outside the club”. I would like to learn how to make love right and I want you to teach me :)”
She will probably will answer yes and will let you know how much, and then you will decide if the price is right and make a date (time and place) you might want to get an Hotel room in a neutral location convenient for the two of you. If she offers her place, and you feel comfortable, might want to go, just be careful.
In this situations is always important to remember that you should walk away if you are not feeling safe, trust you gut/instinct.
If you are for real I hope you let us know about your experience so we all can learn from it.
Had some OTCs. All were with girls that I had known ITC for a few months. Also, one coached me to leave her money in a blank envelop in plain sight. Never did tell me exactly why.
And the advice of Lawyer Lawyer Lawyer should be the only words out of your mouth is sound.
Haha I like the offer to fund the kids 529 account. I would love to hear about her reaction when you deliver your pitch. If she protests tell her about the tax benefits of non taxable accrued dividend interest and capital gains.
If she sucked you off she's not a cop. i think its true if you don't feel safe you should get out. i tried otc once. i ended up in an abandoned parking lot in newark at night. i drove away before anyone shot me.
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What's more likely is her not showing up or her ripping you off.
OTC isn't for everyone. I don't think it's for you, if this is what you're worried about. I'm thinking this has to be someone's new "fun persona" or "comedy" *cough* troll, but just in case.
I'd like to spend an hour with you, would 150 work?
How does thirty minutes for 100 sound?
Generally speaking, never mention a specific sex act and never say the word dollar.
In a sting, LE will ask you what you are looking for, trying to get you to request a sex act. If that does not work, LE may offer a sex act and ask if that is what you want. A "yes" reply or even an affirmative nod will get you pinched. Anyone experienced in the business understands what you get for a 30 minute date and what you get for a 60 minutes date. It doesn't need to be stated explicitly.
I once escaped a sting back in the day by saying "No no no, you misunderstand, I just wanted to share some time with you" and then quickly moved away. I saw the next guy get busted moments later. Whew!!
To your question -- cops don't give BJs ITC and then set stings for paid sex OTC. You're fine.
I will play along;
In most places like Los Angeles paying for an escort is legal and ‘'what two adults do on a “date” is their own business.”, technically you are paying for her time for companionship. So it is not illegal to have consensual sex.
In any case if you ever have to deal with any kind of Law Enforcer Officer (LEO); first is ask if you are under arrest or detained. If not, say good night and walk away, I they say yes you are under arrest or detained for investigation, they will have to read you the Miranda Rights.
("1- You have the right to remain silent.
2- Anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law.
3- You have the right to speak to an attorney, and to have an attorney present during any questioning.
4- If you cannot afford a lawyer, one will be provided for you at government expense.")
Your answer at this point, no matter the questions should be:
“Attorney”; “Attorney”; “Attorney”
Chances are you will be able to walk away whith not even a citation.
Most people end up in jail or in a trial, because they don’t know how to keep their mouth shut.
NEVER INCRIMINATE YOURSELF!!!
In your case there is little chance that the police would get involved.
You should text her:
“Hi there “her name”; I hope you remember me; we meet at the “club name” you gave me your number so “we could do something more outside the club”.
I would like to learn how to make love right and I want you to teach me :)”
She will probably will answer yes and will let you know how much, and then you will decide if the price is right and make a date (time and place) you might want to get an Hotel room in a neutral location convenient for the two of you. If she offers her place, and you feel comfortable, might want to go, just be careful.
In this situations is always important to remember that you should walk away if you are not feeling safe, trust you gut/instinct.
If you are for real I hope you let us know about your experience so we all can learn from it.
And the advice of Lawyer Lawyer Lawyer should be the only words out of your mouth is sound.