God I love this
gSteph
The view from the other side of the room
This is seriously fun.
Hi All, gSteph here, been a lurker here for couple years, just a few replies, this is first post.
And it’s on the topic of Newbie (that’s me) fun level. The giddy, head-spinning, glorious delight of caressing warm, firm, beautiful, young women when it’s all new to you. I love their delightful, flimsy costumes, and then locking eyes with them as they remove said outfits, and settle into ones lap for some wonderful non-vocal communication – well, vocal too.
Me: mid-60s guy, office worker, married nearly 40 years. No extras for me please. First strip club visit in was in 1977 I think; over the years went rarely, always as a stage tipper, never learned what the rooms were for. In early 2017 I stopped in a local club on a whim - and offered a $1 dance, which led to a lap dance – oh my god – the feel of nipples sliding under each finger in turn while she purrs and says what nice hands you have just blew me away.
It was hard to not believe it was real/she meant it. So I appreciate the advice I found here that it is not “real”, it’s all a game, the “don’t be an asshole, don’t be a little bitch” advice summed it up nicely.
As a guy with an agreement with wife to limit visits to a handful a year, I expect to be a perpetual “Newbie”; every visit has some new experience/delights.
I love hearing others stories of their newbie times, did this feeling last for you? What’s the most you can go and still feel that “God this is fun” good times?
Again, thanks for all the advice here.
gSteph
Hi All, gSteph here, been a lurker here for couple years, just a few replies, this is first post.
And it’s on the topic of Newbie (that’s me) fun level. The giddy, head-spinning, glorious delight of caressing warm, firm, beautiful, young women when it’s all new to you. I love their delightful, flimsy costumes, and then locking eyes with them as they remove said outfits, and settle into ones lap for some wonderful non-vocal communication – well, vocal too.
Me: mid-60s guy, office worker, married nearly 40 years. No extras for me please. First strip club visit in was in 1977 I think; over the years went rarely, always as a stage tipper, never learned what the rooms were for. In early 2017 I stopped in a local club on a whim - and offered a $1 dance, which led to a lap dance – oh my god – the feel of nipples sliding under each finger in turn while she purrs and says what nice hands you have just blew me away.
It was hard to not believe it was real/she meant it. So I appreciate the advice I found here that it is not “real”, it’s all a game, the “don’t be an asshole, don’t be a little bitch” advice summed it up nicely.
As a guy with an agreement with wife to limit visits to a handful a year, I expect to be a perpetual “Newbie”; every visit has some new experience/delights.
I love hearing others stories of their newbie times, did this feeling last for you? What’s the most you can go and still feel that “God this is fun” good times?
Again, thanks for all the advice here.
gSteph
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Next step is to realize that's not quite true. Her lips around your dick -- that part is absolutely real. Her acting like she's enjoying it -- that part is fake. That seems fairly trite, but being able to see this clearly, and internalize it, is what separates the PLs from the RILs ... and believe me, you don't want to be a RIL! I very much enjoy much of the fakery, but I do have requirements about how much of the experience has to be real.
Anyway, I've been doing this for decades, and I still find it a thrill. I love the girls, I love being in the strip club. Turns out, you never get sick of being around beautiful young women; if anything, the older you get, the more you appreciate it. I think that "brand newbie thrill" gets a little harder to capture after scores of trips (which, at your rate, will take another 20 years), but even now, I sometimes get it
Funny how you can say the truest things in a strip club. Or not, and it all fits into the fun.
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Many vets also opt for a more personalized experience in order to get their fix - i.e. they focus on a particular fave dancer and they go to the club only to see her.
Lap dances need to be good to get my attention - - average dances are forgettable pretty quickly. It is no longer like being a teenager riding the bus to school, and getting all excited about a girl choosing to sit next to me, and *ZOMG* - her thigh is touching mine!!
We call them homos.
80% of men on earth (that's 2.5B men) don't know the pleasures of this wonderland called strip club.
Even I didn't know until 7 years ago. My first post inquired about what is OTC, 420.
@ Papi, I guess I'm not a total newb anymore, if them titties on stage catch my eye, my hands want to verify the eyes impression. And I think I'm safe from progressing to some version of sex, I am good with what I get at home, truly in love with wife, and I just would never go there. Haha, 60 - 100 (plus lots of ones) is my usual range.
@sirlap, my wife and I have discussed / negotiated frequency and spending, it's just not that much. And I tell her about visits within a day or three, that's our deal. That's why I'll feel like a newbie for some time.
Again, thanks all for advice and stories.
gSteph