Do I even like strip clubs?

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• Papi_Chulo

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  5 years ago

  Have you always felt like this or did it evolve to this? How long you been a regular SCer?
• Muddy

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  5 years ago

  Hmm I would try changing clubs/visiting a new city. Meet a dancer that really rocks your world that might make your remember why go there a little better. It only takes one. (But many are welcome)
• BoringLoser

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  5 years ago

  I’ve been going once a week for about a year. I guess I should clarify that I do enjoy having pretty naked girls rub all over me during a dance, but I’ve never been anywhere near to being able to LDK. Sometimes they just don’t know how to move and then it’s not fun even if she’s a knockout. But even when it’s been hot and heavy I’ve only really been maybe 40% there. I guess I’m not supper keen on messing my pants so maybe I should just be ok with that. But the seeing naked girls on stage thing was only exciting for like a month. Maybe because of porn. I can find hotter girls online within seconds, so it’s easy to see nothing but flaws when I look at dancers on stage. I’m much more forgiving when they’re talking to me if they’re natural at that. I think this is what I like most about going to clubs.
• Jascoi

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  5 years ago

  i like seeing pretty girls in live 3d really close. and the close interaction with her. preferably naked in my lap. strip clubs are a great opportunity!
• Papi_Chulo

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  5 years ago

  LDKing is not common - only certain certain guys seem to be able to do it. Do you get excited/hard when you're with the dancers? Do you masturbate frequently?
• pensionking

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  5 years ago

  After so many years, I guess I am kinda over it too. I still go, but often I leave wondering why bother. I used to get wood shortly after arriving at a club. Now, I never get wood in the club just from looking no matter. A lap dance usually arouses my curiosity, but then again, not always. Visited three clubs Sunday with no reaction at any of the three. Maybe I just need a break. Maybe I need vitamin V. Then again, maybe it is ED.
• BoringLoser

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  5 years ago

  I only get hard when they pretend to be getting off on my dick. Most girls think that rubbing on the general area is enough. For me it has to be very specific and intentional to arrouse me. I do enjoy having beautiful naked girls in my lap if we’re having fun bullshitting with each other. I touch them intimately but in more of a romantic way rather than sexual. It’s fun but not really worth $40/song.
• Liwet

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  5 years ago

  Try limiting how many girls you see so you are pickier. Try new tactics to get more for a cheaper price. Maybe try finding girls to OTC with. Try changing clubs (go check out Hong Kong maybe).
• rh48hr

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  5 years ago

  Once a week for a year? You need to take a beak. To much of the same thing gets old after awhile.
• TJ Lee

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  5 years ago

  $40/song is insane. You need to visit Follies and TJHK.
• whodey

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  5 years ago

  Try slowing down to once a month to see if you enjoy it more with less frequency. You mentioned watching stage shows and getting lapdances but nothing about VIP visits. A longer more intimate experience may be what you need. I know I get a lot more enjoyment out of 30 minutes in a private setting wih one girl compared to a dozen or more lapdances with different girls. Also, you said "I only get hard when they pretend to be getting off on my dick." Have you told the girls this? Most dancers would be more than willing to comply if it helps them making money.
• TheeOSU

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  5 years ago

  I've slacked off on going to clubs because I'm tired of running into chicks that don't interest me or on the rare occasion I find one that does she's a GPS ROB! I had it really good in the past which formed the reasons that I now refuse to settle for just anyone or overpay a ROB.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  You won't find the hedonic treadmill at Planet Fitness, but it's front and center at most strip clubs. [view link] It's possible that you need a break. You wouldn't be the first guy.
• BoringLoser

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  5 years ago

  A lot of good points here. A break could be good for me. But now the question is how do I keep myself from going this weekend?
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  "But now the question is how do I keep myself from going this weekend?" Bourbon. Also, I'm not a responsible friend.
• gawker

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  5 years ago

  When I started being a serial strip club customer I’d gat aroused watching a nude dancer on stage if she was hot. Then I discovered VIP at my favorite club and once the dancer had my dick in her mouth it was over the top for me. I’ll never forget one night during a VIP hour with gatherings dancer ( not my ATF) lying back into me on a leather couch. She was totally naked and my pants were around my ankles. She started sliding up and down and then reached between her legs and guided my bareback dick into her pussy. She kept the motion going and we came simultaneously. She didn’t get up and I could feel our juices running down my right leg. It was heaven. Today, in my mid 70’s I don’t even feel a twitch stageside. In VIP or a hotel, things have to go more slowly if I’m going to get off. Now I know it’s not a brothel and my expectations have diminished, however the goal remains very similar. I, for one, don’t like leaving with blue balls to rush home and jack off to porn. If you’re young enough, I encourage you to go for the gusto. If you fall for the trap of “leaving the middleman out” and going right to porn, you’re missing a great deal. For a variety of reasons I’ve been moving towards more personalized porn. I know a stripper very well. I’ve gotten to know her BF. They first sent me some photos and video clips of them having sex. Then one 15 minute video of him fucking her in the ass. Then we did an hour on FaceTime where we’d talk while they fucked, sucked, rimmed, etc. Now they take suggestions. Last week I said I wanted to see a real good blowj9b, hopefully with him cumming in her mouth. I got 3 video clips, with two of them she was naked between his legs and the lighting was fair at best. The third one they were doing a 69 and she was holding the camera and the lighting was better. He came at the end of that one but she apologized saying that they’d had sex an hour earlier so he didn’t have much cum left. We now have invested in a camera ( instead of a cellphone) and enlisted the help of a neighbor of theirs to do the camera work so they can concentrate on sex. She’s a widow in her early 50’s and wants to meet me. Ain’t love grand?
• orionsmith

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  5 years ago

  If you don't enjoy strip clubs, I'd find something else more fun if you can. I enjoy strip clubs but I've gotten used to falling asleep much earlier which screws with trying to visit clubs like I once did. I suspect that whenever I get more free time, my visits will likely increase if I enjoy whatever local clubs are in the area. Might try just dating regular girls again for a while. Hooking up with strippers is an adventure by itself. I'm probably through with hooking up with strippers, unless she's hot and wants to. :)
• orionsmith

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  5 years ago

  Gawker has the best stories. Above post was directed towards the op or for anyone who needs a long break. Things change. We can all hope things get better. On the bright side, you probably had a hotter meal than the NCAA Football champions eating mcdonalds at the White House. Those hamburgers and fries don't stay hot through a gazillion checkpoints. Trump went all out on his budget. Here's my presidential tip. Next time have a volunteer heat up the burgers and fries in a microwave about 17 seconds right before they are to be eaten.
• George123789

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  5 years ago

  Gawkers stories rock! I fear aging hasn’t been kind and won’t let up. So, building interest is the best route.
• rickdugan

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  5 years ago

  Boring, as others have said, it sounds like you need a break. Maybe you also need to diversify your clubbing a bit more.
• whodey

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  5 years ago

  Orion don't let an early bedtime decrease your clubbing fun. Just go during the day instead, afternoon or early evening can be just as much fun, or even better depending on the club.
• Papi_Chulo

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  5 years ago

  Some PLs do get burned-out - for some it's sooner than for others. For me, SCing has been mostly meh for the last year+ - I like variety thus I have a rotation of clubs I hit and don't like hitting the same club every time I SC - having a rotation kinda helped keep things sorta fresh for me - but after so many years of SCing especially hardcore SCing in recent-years, I feel like I've "been there done that" and there isn't much variety left to try - unlike many PLs that like familiarity, for me seeing/experiencing the same-thing over and over gets old quick, at least in the context of SCs - for me familiarity equals boredom Many experienced SCers seem to proceed to the fave-model and this is what maintains their interest - others proceed to OTC and/or extras and this is what it takes to hold their interest.
• flagooner

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  5 years ago

  Homos get burned out from SCing.
• Papi_Chulo

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  5 years ago

  ^ yeah - sometimes you just get tired of the vagina - maybe I'll start going to church again