Whether it's with a dancer or someone else, over the last 3 years I've definitely become more dominant in the bedroom. When I was married it was a lot of give-and-take now I want the woman to orgasm but I want it done my way. I find an interesting change. Have others experienced similar things as after they've aged or become more experienced?
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I’ve always been very aggressive. Hasn’t really changed. I do not like being on bottom. Not my thing. I’m always fucking the girl. And she is getting fucked by me.
I like whatever makes for an enthusiastic romp. I’m no longer interested in dead fish play even if she is hot as hell.
I've sort of had to become dominant in order to make sure I'm getting my money's worth. If you let the lady run things, you're not going to have a good time and you're going to pay a ton for it.
I prefer for her to be the aggressor vs her just lying there letting me do w/e - in lieu of that then I have no issues being the aggressor - e.g. I prefer for her to go to town sucking my dick w/o me having to ask her, but in lieu of that then I will ask her.
In my relationships, I am the alpha. I make all of the major decisions in my household. I might let my wife decide what color towels because I don't give a shit. But whether to buy, sell, add on, take out a wall, get a new car, what investments to make. I decide all of that.
But I like a girl to take over sexually. Nothing turns me on more than a girl that just climbs on and starts riding.
I like to be in charge but I like to take her likes into account, so if she likes to ride I let her ride, etc.
I know what I want and how to get there so once I feel she's good and take over and get mine.
I love being in charge sexually. I had a GF when I was 25 who was wonderfully submissive. Not passive, but a true sub. We had some of the best sex of my life.
My fave seems to like it when I take charge during our dances.
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