Who Is A Pathetic Loser?
shailynn
They never tell you what you need to know.
Papi brought it up in another post about most of us being pathetic losers. What is the definition of a TUSCL pathetic loser?
Is it:
ANYONE that is paying for sex no matter how cool you are or how much free pussy you can get?
What I imagine the typical TUSCL PL to be like. Never married, not a lot of girlfriends, and possibly even would still be a virgin if it weren’t P4P.
But where do the married guys fit in that want some side action. Some have smoking hot wives, some have average wives and some married trolls.
What about the divorced guys that can’t stsnd the thought of living full time with a woman ever again, who just want to hit and run when it comes to sex and the stripper route is the easiest option for them?
Then there’s the guys (well I stand corrected, “GUY”) who fucks goats, rides a huffy bike and always tells us how’s he’s gonna take over the world. Yeah that guy is definitely a PL.
Is it:
ANYONE that is paying for sex no matter how cool you are or how much free pussy you can get?
What I imagine the typical TUSCL PL to be like. Never married, not a lot of girlfriends, and possibly even would still be a virgin if it weren’t P4P.
But where do the married guys fit in that want some side action. Some have smoking hot wives, some have average wives and some married trolls.
What about the divorced guys that can’t stsnd the thought of living full time with a woman ever again, who just want to hit and run when it comes to sex and the stripper route is the easiest option for them?
Then there’s the guys (well I stand corrected, “GUY”) who fucks goats, rides a huffy bike and always tells us how’s he’s gonna take over the world. Yeah that guy is definitely a PL.
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Sometimes I will read a review or a comment where a guy comes off as almost elitist. They see themselves as above other PLs, but they seem to forget that in the eyes of society we are pretty much all on the same level.
If you buy a stripper a new car and she gives it to her unemployed, drug-addicted boyfriend, you may be a pathetic loser.
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1. Jobless, no money for outside women.
2. Problem in their life which they need to hide.
3. Unworkable marriage, but cannot end it.
4. Not able to live up to commitments, like marriage.
5. Regular In Love, RIL, cannot close in relationship with stripper, sees her in club, spends lots of money, but does not take her home with him and pump loads into her.
SJG
And they do it in Mexico.
In David E. Stuart's books about Guyamas, most of the putas that have their heads screwed on straight have guys that are keeping them that way. They would go off on mondays to be with these guys, then come back later in the week for the night club brothel and the locals.
SJG
Her costs estimates may be a bit high, but otherwise it sounded fine to me.
SJG
Shailynn is starting high school next month, and he may even be starting his ministry, seeking to succeed Robert Tilton.
SJG
So I am glad that the term PL is used here, and I understood it at once.
The desperation is why the girls are able to "sell dances" i.e. bull shit, and extract so much money.
Deep Bra Stuff and taking you girl home with you for regular TLNs is far better.
SJG
What’s wrong with my cost estimates? :/
I would see $1k for TLN as the high end, but not unprecedented or out of the question.
Fact is though, I don't approach women offering them money for sex. So it wouldn't likely go the way you described. Money is a show of care and respect, not to persuade them to do anything they are not otherwise more than happy to do.
So while I would not rule $1k out, it would be unlikely.
I would not even introduce the subject of money until the girl did. It would be a totally civilian pick up, until she mentioned money.
So I believe it would probably work just fine at some lower number, this is my view.
But for guys who lead by offering money, by all means, get em for all you can.
For myself, it would eventually be for photo modelling and TLN sessions, and it would be regular. So there the money could be more. But the girl is really my mistress, it is just care money, not really pay money.
My larger point though, this tread, talking about who is a PL. A guy who goes into a strip club and buys dances as he has no other source of sexual gratification, he is a PL.
Guy who selects a girl, makes it happen ( Deep Bra Stuff ), and is not really interested in dances, but instead gets an ongoing relationship running, he is not a PL.
SJG
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I’ve had an experience like that before. I got white girl wasted and hung out with a customer for a few hours, and they fed me money at random intervals, and stayed in the front room.
My hustle was almost non existent that day and I made about $800 off him :)
Though there wasn’t any DFK or any OTC. Matter of fact, I had to stay for part of night shift as well because the managers wanted me to sober up. (I’m impressed they didn’t fire my dumb ass lol)
To return to my point, the guy who goes there to buy dances as this is his source of sexual gratification, he is a PL
The guy who has no interest in that, but selects a girl and ASAP gets a regular outside relationship going with her, probably with money, but that not mattering. He is not a PL.
SJG
Strip clubs have lots going for them, but they also have serious limitations. Until a guy can see that, not much good can be said about him.
SJG
And all he is doing is exacerbating his own sexual frustration.
He sees these beautiful women, all dolled up and parading around in their high heels. Does he try to have and to hold them?
No he has given up. He sees them as out of his reach. He may make excuses about age, he may be married, but either way, he has given up.
He fails to understand that there are things about this society which are taking his status away and locking him into his predicament. Or if he does know this, he lashes out at false targets like Feminism and Liberalism.
Either way, he does not try to have and to hold, or to do anything to correct the underlying issues. He just looks to that endorphin rush, that chemically induced feeling that heroin and morphine try to emulate, which comes with each ejaculation.
SJG
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Society, at least in the USA, doesn’t fully approve of strip clubs. They are largely viewed as places where anything goes, where sex is always available for a price.
I think legitimate society views strip clubs as cesspools of wanton behavior - where there are sex acts performed in full view. Where dancers are nothing more than whores who parade on stage for the highest bidder. Almost like a modern day version of Caligula.
They view the men who frequent strip clubs as Johns who pay for sex. However, they accept that men will visit strip clubs for bachelor parties. It’s the customers who return - who are frowned upon - and considered losers who must pay for sex. There are many motivations behind a customers decision to be a club patron, and they can be quite varied.
I think the name suits me quite well, based on societal norms. I don’t think Pussy Lover is appropriate. Guys who love pussy are found in many decent locations, and a good portion are in happy, committed relationships. Those guys are not PL’s. They don’t spend time on the shitty end of town, trolling for pussy from nasty sluts...
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Well the bachelor party guys, they are just frat boy types. Their world is based on dividing women into two categories.
In large measure I agree with you, but its not just because strip clubs are frowned upon. Its because there are better ways of getting your desires met then regularly going to strip clubs. What you want is to find regular girls and be waking up with them in the mornings.
SJG
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