Met a former dancer out as a civilian-interesting interaction
steeldog65
I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
Last week I ran into a dancer that "retired" a few months ago. She was high mileage, non-extras dancer that is cute but starting to get to the point where she was done with dancing. I was out for dinner after work and just sitting down at a steakhouse when she walked up to me and asked if I remembered her. It took a minute but I did. She asked if she could join me while she waited for her group to arrive and I acquiesced.
It was interesting to talk to her outside of the SC and without the sexual aspects of the job. She was full of interesting comments about dancers, customers and even about me and how I was seen at the club by dancers. I don't think I would want to be "friends" with her but it was an interesting 15 minutes while she awaited her party. She did mention that my "nickname" among the dancers who didn't know me was "smells good guy" which made me laugh. Any one else have such encounters?
It was interesting to talk to her outside of the SC and without the sexual aspects of the job. She was full of interesting comments about dancers, customers and even about me and how I was seen at the club by dancers. I don't think I would want to be "friends" with her but it was an interesting 15 minutes while she awaited her party. She did mention that my "nickname" among the dancers who didn't know me was "smells good guy" which made me laugh. Any one else have such encounters?
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I don’t club where I live and this is one of the reasons why (well and the clubs suck). If I was out of town in another city and this happened it wouldn’t bother me one bit.
The only thing I can compare is at a club where extras sometimes can happen I had a great VIP session with a girl. Went back a month later and that same dancer had to abruptly leave because her kid got sick. She sits another dancer down at my table and says “this is my friend, hang out with her tonight.” I was happy because the friend was hotter. I was trying to gauge if I would have a similar VIP experience with this new dancer through conversation and she said “oh don’t worry, she told me all about you.” I had no idea what that inferred, good or bad, but we did a VIP and got a similar experience than before so I was happy.
Probably lets guys grab her boobs/ass/whatever, grinds really well, (etc) but doesn't do HJ, BJ, FS...
Lots of contact. Lots of groping. But no ejaculation services. That's my interpretation.
Damn, learn something new every day. Thanks for the intel Larry.
There's this really trendy restaurant / gastropub place that me and my ex (boyfriend at the time) would frequent. I mean we went there AT LEAST once a week, often several days a week. One night we were seated in this area right by the bar, and a dude I danced for before at an 8 mile club was there with a bunch of very annoying, drunk, obnoxiously loud 40+ year old women. He kept looking at me and then I realized who he was, and told my boyfriend "I know that dude! I danced for him before." Since he was with people at the time, I didn't say anything and he didn't say anything to me.
I've mentioned before that a former principal of mine became one of my regulars. Then I stopped dancing at the club(s) he frequents and lost his number. So a few days before Christmas, I was at one of the nicer malls in the area doing some Christmas shopping and saw him in one of the stores. I was in a hurry trying to go from store to store because I was shopping so many different people, so I just said, "hi, how have you been? Good to see you" type of pleasantries and kept it moving. A few hundred bucks and a couple shopping bags later I run into him again at another store. Then again about a half hour later. I would just smile and say hi, but I saw him in passing at least 3 or 4 times through the mall that day. (I was doing some shopping for my sister and some girlfriends, and he has several daughters, so I guess go figure that we'd be shopping at the same stores). I had no makeup on and was just running around the mall buying shit. It was actually quite funny to me.
@desertscrub--why the hostility? High mileage is lots of things but extras are the enumerated holy trinity of HJ/BJ/FS.
Additionally, it's pretty straightforward and not uncommon, while walking along Bourbon Street, New Orleans, to encounter women coming to or going from their work as strippers. That's a bit of a different situation so I'm not including those many sightings as true "met a stripper in civilian life" encounters.
Huh. This is surprising to me. I've encountered dancers out in the "real world" before a handful of times. Usually, they aren't so openly social. Discretion and all. One waved, made a funny face, and showed a bit of leg (more of a gag than a tease), and then walked away (I thought that was cute). Aside from that, nothing quite so bold as your dancer.
I sometimes think that today's youth are a bit too trusting in some ways due to social media making their lives something of an open book.
Shoulda asked her out
^Under that scale, my dances would be considered high mileage. And while I may occasionally do a couple of things that may fall in very high mileage territory, I make sure not to push it too far.
“Nicespice- I need to get to Texas.”
Sounds good to me :) I’ll remember to speak broken English too.