Boredom

14 comments

• Cashman1234

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  6 years ago

  It sucks when clubs no longer provide the enjoyment they once did. It’s good you realize things aren’t as much fun - so maybe you can save some money. Hopefully you can find another outlet.
• a21985

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  6 years ago

  I'm very streaky when it comes to going to strip clubs. I'll be real into it for like 6 months, then I'll burnout, get bored of it, and stop going for like 6 months until I get the itch again. That's why I often come and go on this site. I just returned here and to clubbing after one of my trademark breaks, and it's unavoidable I'll dissapear again at some point. I think it's only natural since this hobby can be draining in many ways. Take a break for a bit. When you get that itch, come on back to it and it will be fun again.
• jackslash

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  6 years ago

  Try stamp collecting.
• mark94

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  6 years ago

  I’m experiencing something similar. Mostly, it’s because the new LE environment has driven most of my friendly faves out of the business. Instead of a GFE, most of the dancers I encounter seem to be coldly going through the motions. I don’t feel any connection to them.
• Huntsman

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  6 years ago

  Nothing wrong with taking a break. Strip clubs are supposed to be fun, obviously. I take breaks too. It’s not work, it’s not family, it’s not even the only way to enjoy a sexual experience. It’s more like a favorite food that you’ve had a lot lately. Trying something else for a while makes the favorite food taste better when you want it again.
• Papi_Chulo

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  6 years ago

  I've been SCing fairly regularly for about 15 years but in the last couple of years, especially after I became very active on TUSCL, my SCing became a very-regular thing for me instead of something I did less frequently when I needed a distraction. Over the last year or so it's been hard a lot of the times for the SC to really excite me - it's kinda been a blur of tits and ass where it doesn't excite me as much as in the past and feels like "been there done that" - I keep going thinking "maybe I just wasn't having a good day" on previous visits but the writing is on the PL-wall. Often times I go out of boredom since my schedule allows me to hit SCs almost any day and I have a good # of clubs near me, so it's not that hard for me to just pop in when bored or just having a down day. I assume going less often would help, or taking a good break, but feels like "I've been there done that" and wonder if I'll ever be impressed by SCs and enjoy them like I once did - time will tell.
• realDougster

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  6 years ago

  “I assume going less often would help, or taking a good break” I wonder how would that impact small black clubs in the Miami area?
• Papi_Chulo

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  6 years ago

  ^ I can only assume many would close Not that I'm humble bragging or anything - I'm just you're average guy with 275 Trusts
• orangepicture

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  6 years ago

  I'm feeling burnt out about by the hobby too as of late. I've probably averaged 1 club visit a week for the past 6-7 months over 5 different clubs. Gonna cut back for a bit after going to a club yesterday in CT and realizing the second I left the club, I could have drove right by without going in and felt no different as I did when I left the club. I've found that when I take a 3 week break from going, then I start craving going back. What I need to do is stick to 3 week breaks on a consistent basis. I've actually been going to my favorite club as of late more so just to talk and see my favorite girls than I do to get lap dances, see stage boobs or get extras. I'm starting to consider some of the dancers as friends rather than holding to a strict customer-dancer business relationship.
• shadowcat

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  6 years ago

  I have the opposite problem. I am retired and have too much free time on my hands. I find myself going twice a week just to get out of the house. I get tired of watching TV and reading the bragging,bickering and lying on here. Fortunately I can afford the visits.
• rickdugan

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  6 years ago

  Foot, then find other ways to enjoy yourself. For me clubs are a distraction from a seemingly infinite list of work and family obligations, so I find almost every visit to be a welcome reprieve, even if nothing great happens. If I had more time on my hands, I have to imagine that I would look for other things to fill it. Maybe you should sit it out for a while and find other forms of entertainment. Maybe go to a few ball games, or volunteer somewhere, or try out a few new restaurants, or [insert other thing here]. You are in Philly, not the boonies, so there should be lots of other options for you to explore. Strip clubs are expensive to begin with, so skipping a couple of trips should free up some cash for other pursuits. Anyway, good luck.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  6 years ago

  This isn't unusual. Take a break until the itch comes back. The clubs and dancers will still be there. Some guys go to strip clubs as a function of compulsion or habit rather than fun. Don't be one of those guys. Strip clubs are too expensive to not have fun.
• Notanewbie

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  6 years ago

  Starting to find the same thing myself.... I've went in a few times lately just to hang out with some guy friends I have made in the Clubs.....saving me some money. Went to Florida for 9 days and didn't even look at a club...going to back it down and see if interest comes back.
• JAprufrock

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  6 years ago

  I go to clubs only a few times a year since I’m not an extras guy. But I can see where it might get stale for a bit. Been watching a lot of Italian porn from the 1990s lately. Great stuff from director Mario Salieri. Hopefully that doesn’t get stale.