Well it finally happened. I realized that despite still trying to go and have the fun I initially had, the strip club scene is boring to me. I can’t pin point why. Maybe it’s burnout. Maybe it’s being tired of going to the club at night and hearing the loud noise and music. Maybe it’s because the girls are more bitchy now it seems. Maybe it’s everyone tightening their rules up with uncle Leo going after the clubs and the government probably being next. But for whatever reason I don’t get any enjoyment out of them anymore.
It sucks when clubs no longer provide the enjoyment they once did. It’s good you realize things aren’t as much fun - so maybe you can save some money. Hopefully you can find another outlet.
I'm very streaky when it comes to going to strip clubs. I'll be real into it for like 6 months, then I'll burnout, get bored of it, and stop going for like 6 months until I get the itch again. That's why I often come and go on this site. I just returned here and to clubbing after one of my trademark breaks, and it's unavoidable I'll dissapear again at some point.
I think it's only natural since this hobby can be draining in many ways. Take a break for a bit. When you get that itch, come on back to it and it will be fun again.
I’m experiencing something similar. Mostly, it’s because the new LE environment has driven most of my friendly faves out of the business. Instead of a GFE, most of the dancers I encounter seem to be coldly going through the motions. I don’t feel any connection to them.
Nothing wrong with taking a break. Strip clubs are supposed to be fun, obviously.
I take breaks too. It’s not work, it’s not family, it’s not even the only way to enjoy a sexual experience. It’s more like a favorite food that you’ve had a lot lately. Trying something else for a while makes the favorite food taste better when you want it again.
I've been SCing fairly regularly for about 15 years but in the last couple of years, especially after I became very active on TUSCL, my SCing became a very-regular thing for me instead of something I did less frequently when I needed a distraction.
Over the last year or so it's been hard a lot of the times for the SC to really excite me - it's kinda been a blur of tits and ass where it doesn't excite me as much as in the past and feels like "been there done that" - I keep going thinking "maybe I just wasn't having a good day" on previous visits but the writing is on the PL-wall. Often times I go out of boredom since my schedule allows me to hit SCs almost any day and I have a good # of clubs near me, so it's not that hard for me to just pop in when bored or just having a down day.
I assume going less often would help, or taking a good break, but feels like "I've been there done that" and wonder if I'll ever be impressed by SCs and enjoy them like I once did - time will tell.
I'm feeling burnt out about by the hobby too as of late. I've probably averaged 1 club visit a week for the past 6-7 months over 5 different clubs. Gonna cut back for a bit after going to a club yesterday in CT and realizing the second I left the club, I could have drove right by without going in and felt no different as I did when I left the club.
I've found that when I take a 3 week break from going, then I start craving going back. What I need to do is stick to 3 week breaks on a consistent basis. I've actually been going to my favorite club as of late more so just to talk and see my favorite girls than I do to get lap dances, see stage boobs or get extras. I'm starting to consider some of the dancers as friends rather than holding to a strict customer-dancer business relationship.
I have the opposite problem. I am retired and have too much free time on my hands. I find myself going twice a week just to get out of the house. I get tired of watching TV and reading the bragging,bickering and lying on here. Fortunately I can afford the visits.
Foot, then find other ways to enjoy yourself. For me clubs are a distraction from a seemingly infinite list of work and family obligations, so I find almost every visit to be a welcome reprieve, even if nothing great happens. If I had more time on my hands, I have to imagine that I would look for other things to fill it. Maybe you should sit it out for a while and find other forms of entertainment. Maybe go to a few ball games, or volunteer somewhere, or try out a few new restaurants, or [insert other thing here]. You are in Philly, not the boonies, so there should be lots of other options for you to explore. Strip clubs are expensive to begin with, so skipping a couple of trips should free up some cash for other pursuits.
Starting to find the same thing myself.... I've went in a few times lately just to hang out with some guy friends I have made in the Clubs.....saving me some money. Went to Florida for 9 days and didn't even look at a club...going to back it down and see if interest comes back.
I go to clubs only a few times a year since I’m not an extras guy. But I can see where it might get stale for a bit.
Been watching a lot of Italian porn from the 1990s lately. Great stuff from director Mario Salieri. Hopefully that doesn’t get stale.
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I think it's only natural since this hobby can be draining in many ways. Take a break for a bit. When you get that itch, come on back to it and it will be fun again.
I take breaks too. It’s not work, it’s not family, it’s not even the only way to enjoy a sexual experience. It’s more like a favorite food that you’ve had a lot lately. Trying something else for a while makes the favorite food taste better when you want it again.
Over the last year or so it's been hard a lot of the times for the SC to really excite me - it's kinda been a blur of tits and ass where it doesn't excite me as much as in the past and feels like "been there done that" - I keep going thinking "maybe I just wasn't having a good day" on previous visits but the writing is on the PL-wall. Often times I go out of boredom since my schedule allows me to hit SCs almost any day and I have a good # of clubs near me, so it's not that hard for me to just pop in when bored or just having a down day.
I assume going less often would help, or taking a good break, but feels like "I've been there done that" and wonder if I'll ever be impressed by SCs and enjoy them like I once did - time will tell.
I wonder how would that impact small black clubs in the Miami area?
Not that I'm humble bragging or anything - I'm just you're average guy with 275 Trusts
I've found that when I take a 3 week break from going, then I start craving going back. What I need to do is stick to 3 week breaks on a consistent basis. I've actually been going to my favorite club as of late more so just to talk and see my favorite girls than I do to get lap dances, see stage boobs or get extras. I'm starting to consider some of the dancers as friends rather than holding to a strict customer-dancer business relationship.
Anyway, good luck.
Some guys go to strip clubs as a function of compulsion or habit rather than fun. Don't be one of those guys.
Strip clubs are too expensive to not have fun.
Been watching a lot of Italian porn from the 1990s lately. Great stuff from director Mario Salieri. Hopefully that doesn’t get stale.