I posted a discussion before being frustrated for not receiving text back from the dancer. I tried texting her again and I got instant response. I was surprised and told her the same.She told me she was busy and could not reply before and told she would be working at different club that day not the club I saw her before. I told her I would be there .I texted her after i reached the club.She still not at the club ,texted me saying she is on the way got late due to workout and traffic.Even after 40 min she did not show up and texted saying things got mixed up and she would be at the same club I saw her before and asked if I want to go there to see her.I went straight to that club which is 5 min drive assuming she would be already there. I texted her after reaching the club and got reply that she would be on the floor in 40 min . WTH I texted her that I got emergency need to go ,will we ever next time and left the club. She said no worries,it won't happen3d next time very sorry. Don't know what happens in dancers daily life.She can't keep the promise.
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Don't worry, I'm sure next time will go smoothly. Just keep at it.
Jack Nichelson said it best as a writer in "As Good As It Gets" Just multiply it by x10 for a stripper.
You need to attach yourself to a more reliable girl. My CF always texts me back, sometimes within minutes but always the same day and always makes our appointments.
This is all quite shocking. But it seems like you have the right temperament and realistic outlook on this. Agree with flagooner -- next time, it's all smooth sailing
This is what can happen when dealing with flighty strippers. She knows you are weak - and she’s walking all over you. You’ve set a precedent with your actions and demeanor - and she has read those cues.
It’s rare that you will change her future actions - as the mix of her flightyness and your lack of strength - will cause this to keep occurring.
You should move on. Find a new one and make sure you start off strong with this one.
Sadly, this is pretty typical when dealing with strippers.
Okay, to be serious ... I think the keystone cops like adventure Darkblue had should only ever happen ONCE before a PL learns his lesson. I had an ATF -- she was, in fact, my ATATF at the time, though has since been far surpassed -- who operated similarly to DB's girl. The reason I was able to stick with her is that I figured out that she was an absolute mess, and that if I wanted to continue to experience the mind-blowing sessions with her in the club, I'd have to work around it. In her case, I quickly learned that even if she texts me "I'm leaving in 15 minutes to go to the club, be on the floor in an hour", sometimes she ghosts in that short amount of time (I still have no idea why)... so, until she texts me "I'm at the club getting dressed", I'd just sit tight.
Why would not she want to make money? I don't understand even if she is taking me for ride.I drove 2 hours to just see her.
Damn man, 2 hours??!!! Is she really worth it? From the way she had you running around like Sonic the hedgehog it doesn't sound like it.
Because you are in ignorant bliss of the 15 crisis real time problems this girl is dealing with. Be thankful you dont know why.
TFP,
Yes, She is worth it. She won't work on regular schedule.
She doesn't remember who you are. You're just some guy w/her number who got a few dances w/her previously. She's either A. received a message from a more established regular and makes more sense to meet up w/ him and doesn't want to tell you and/or B. knows this and is lining you as a back up once she's done w/her established regular.
Who cares how long you drove to see her. What matters is how much you spend.
Stripfighter, She remembers me and spoke about me in texts.She knows how much I spend.
TFP, She does not know I drove 2 hours to see her.
Maybe she thinks you're a stinky PL. I doubt a dancer really cares how far a PL drives to see her
Her SO other got your text on her phone and they fuckoed you. Keep getting played and posting here for our amazement!
this is like your 3rd discussion about this hoe not replying back in about 3 weeks. get the hint already.
Salty, Looks like you didn't read it properly.She replied back and talked to me.But she didn't come to the club as promised. That's the topic if discussion. Why would she take so much time to come to the club. If she rally not coming she would have not responded like she did before.
Hey Amber, sorry I missed you at the club last night. No worries, Tiffany and I had a great time. Nice girl. Made the 2 hour drive worthwhile. Take care.
@Doormat999
This is standard behaviour, get used to it, seriously.
If you can't handle it, try to find another that actually responds to texts in timely manner and keeps her appointments (lol, unicorns,extreme rarity, but they do exist).
Subraman has the idea, assume she's not there or even going to be there until she says "I'm at work." They are too full of flake to assume any plans are going to be kept.
You could do the Gmoney response of telling her you met another, but it's not gonna change her behavior to you one bit. Plus she doesn't give a shit any way.
darkblue...bottomline shes blowing you off.
"This is a money digging world of ours; and, as it is said, ‘there are more ways than one to skin a cat,’" -Mark Twain
Your stripper had a better offer elsewhere, it’s why they flake out. As soon as they see greener grass, that’s where they go.
She was seeing another client OTC. Deal with it. Thats why you have more than one fav at more than one club.
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