For you married or have a SO guys
Have you ever been out with your main lady and bump into or see a stripper you've recently seen in a club? Did she come over to you unexpectedly? How do you get out of that one? Is there a mutual respect for the two of you to just look the other way?
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But in situations where people know you for other reasons you can smile at each other, even say hello based on her appearance at the time and you shouldn't have an issue.
One afternoon I drive up and see a little white pickup parked out front. I thought it was a friend of ours, but a bit surprised she would be there.
Well, when I go inside, there stands my ATF! Right there with my wife and son.
Wasn't a real problem as I already knew she was friends with my son. He just introduced us.
Anyway, decades ago, I was aware that my then-girlfriend (eventually wife) and I partied in the same general areas as many strippers, because when I small-talked with strippers about their weekend, they mentioned the same clubs we used to go to. Then one day I was speaking with a stripper, she and a bunch of other strippers got to a club about half an hour after my girlfriend and I left that same club. Nothing but luck that my gf and I weren't there at the same time 4 or 5 incredibly drunk rowdy strippers, most of whom I'd had sex with, arrived; even more of a miracle we hadn't passed each other walking through the neighborhood. I was never worried about sober strippers -- I think they would know and keep the code. But drunk strippers? Who knew if they were going to start yelling me real name (Subraman! Subraman!) across the club or whatever. So that's when I adopted my stripper name, juice69; in my paranoid state, I felt like it gave me a tiny bit of extra safety edge. Drunk strippers start yelling "juice69" at me from across the street, I play dumb ("What are those drunk sluts yelling???") and hustle the gf away.
If you're both alone she may still not want to deal with you in public as many dancers prefer to keep complete separation b/w their club life and non-club life.
And IMO most dancers probably feel a custy would not want to be approached in public and probably would not approach the custy even if he was alone and even if she would like to say hi - maybe unless he's a regular vs someone she's just danced for a couple of times.