For you married or have a SO guys

Most girls, believe it or not, are professional. Just as they would prefer that you don't acknowledge them, they know that it would be inappropriate to acknowledge you in real life.

No. I doubt I'd recognize most of them OTC anyway.

Do your mongering away from home base if you can.......

But in situations where people know you for other reasons you can smile at each other, even say hello based on her appearance at the time and you shouldn't have an issue.

@repete, I totally had a dream last night that I ran into my ATF at a restaurant she was waitressing at. She said hi to me and my name. I was startled awake at that moment haha. I would love to see her in the daylight but not in that way.

When I first had my side business, I was still working full time. I'd go there after I got off "normal" work. My wife and son ran it the rest of the time.

One afternoon I drive up and see a little white pickup parked out front. I thought it was a friend of ours, but a bit surprised she would be there.

Well, when I go inside, there stands my ATF! Right there with my wife and son.

Wasn't a real problem as I already knew she was friends with my son. He just introduced us.

Interestingly, just happened last Saturday. I was at a car club event (Daytona Rolex 24 viewing party) with my wife at a bar, and my former ATF was there with a couple guys who looked like they worked at clubs I’d gone to before. I thought I’d saw her, then we were hanging at a new car they had on display. The ATF was staying in the passenger seat. Hearing her voice from far (and sounding as dumb as a lamppost), it confirmed my suspicions. Interestingly one of the former ATF’s friends (I found later that he was) and I were talking. While we were talking, I saw her hiding her face in the passenger seat behind the price sticker. Pretty goofy.

I have not. But, some close calls are what led me to adopting an in-club stripper name of my own, years ago, a practice I continue to this day. Just out of inertia I suppose.

Anyway, decades ago, I was aware that my then-girlfriend (eventually wife) and I partied in the same general areas as many strippers, because when I small-talked with strippers about their weekend, they mentioned the same clubs we used to go to. Then one day I was speaking with a stripper, she and a bunch of other strippers got to a club about half an hour after my girlfriend and I left that same club. Nothing but luck that my gf and I weren't there at the same time 4 or 5 incredibly drunk rowdy strippers, most of whom I'd had sex with, arrived; even more of a miracle we hadn't passed each other walking through the neighborhood. I was never worried about sober strippers -- I think they would know and keep the code. But drunk strippers? Who knew if they were going to start yelling me real name (Subraman! Subraman!) across the club or whatever. So that's when I adopted my stripper name, juice69; in my paranoid state, I felt like it gave me a tiny bit of extra safety edge. Drunk strippers start yelling "juice69" at me from across the street, I play dumb ("What are those drunk sluts yelling???") and hustle the gf away.

All my mongering is on business trips that are in other cities. I don't go to strip clubs in the city I live in. Also, the clubs where I live are pretty lame, so it's not that difficult to stay out of.

Yes & No. Took SO to tanning salon and ran into an escort that I'd seen and been FWB with. Thank goodness the SO was in the tanning bed.

I'm not married, but I once was out with my ATF and ran into a couple I know from my church. The wife asked my ATF what she did. With not hesitation, my ATF said, "I'm a waitress."

If she's w/ someone else, then likely she does not want you to acknowledge her as much as you don't want her to acknowledge you, IMO.

If you're both alone she may still not want to deal with you in public as many dancers prefer to keep complete separation b/w their club life and non-club life.

And IMO most dancers probably feel a custy would not want to be approached in public and probably would not approach the custy even if he was alone and even if she would like to say hi - maybe unless he's a regular vs someone she's just danced for a couple of times.

Noo, luckily the strip clubs i visit are on the far east side of town, i live on the west side. But i agree most strippers are professional and know they want customers to come back, why bother ruining this?

Another good reason not to be married, I like the PL life. :)