Thoughts on the demise of fapping...

Jan 16, 2018, 11:52 PM

So I found my first LDQ this week and am planning on becoming a regular with her.

I have masturbated nearly daily for almost 30 years and it is really strange to think I could theoretically never do it again. I can LDK pretty easily so it is pretty cheap to get an orgasm at the club.

Just thinking about it brings me joy.

But even though I could probably afford to go a few times a week I am probably going to limit myself to once. I am guessing it's not healthy to go that often. And I want to have energy and desire for the sex I can get at home.

Still it is a fucking happy thought.

So to you guys, how long have you gone without fapping? Only orgasming from the pleasure of a woman? I am sure some of you might have had significant others with high sex drives or just have tons of money who will find this really odd. Still an interesting discussion topic...

Thanks to everyone who chimed in on my previous noob threads! This forum has been invaluable!

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Darkblue9997 years ago

I am too busy to fap.It has been 3 months I fapped or had sex.

Cashman12347 years ago

Going without fapping? Who does that? I’m not stroking it now because I’m in my office - and I don’t want HR to run over! Maybe a few days is my stretch. It’s not good to let things get backed up. Lol!

Enjoy your LDQ! Glad you’ve found a new way to get off!

PaulDrake7 years ago

I want orgasms.. I just prefer them not from fapping.

lapdanceking82 - What's your record for the most LDKs in a month?

I think we need to do a February LDK challenge!

joc137 years ago

I have noticed that since I have started seeing my current SB, that I rarely fap between our visits and except for links on this board, hardly ever watch porn anymore. We've gone as long as 14 days in between seeing each other, but the 1st 3 or 4 days don't count cause I'm so worn out I couldn't fap those days even if I wanted to.

Enjoy your LDQ! I think you'll be happier getting your ejaculation services from a real live girl.

san_jose_guy7 years ago

Using strip clubs for sexual gratification is perverted.

Paying for ejaculation services is simply using your money to exacerbate your own sexual frustration.

SJG

shanny727 years ago

I prefer to hold back a couple days before a club visit. A huge load is so much more fun for all involved

Cashman12347 years ago

Can I ask SJG - what we should use strip clubs for? There are sexy nude women dancing in front of us - so why go if sexual gratification isn’t appropriate?

PaulDrake7 years ago

Don't bait the troll!!!

Papi_Chulo7 years ago

Was not familiar w/ the term fapping - I wonder if it's a newer term used by younger folks

Papi_Chulo7 years ago

I never married (by choice) - and I've spent more time not in a relationship, than in one where I would be getting regular sex (especially over the last few years).

I'm also wired a little tight, thus beside the sexual gratification per se, fapping helps kinda relax me and helps me fall asleep.

The longest I've gone is about a week probably - on avg I don't go past 3 days - and if feeling a bit stressed about things, it can at times be daily - but yeah, I def enjoy the club much more when I have abstained from self-love for a few days.

SirLapdanceanot7 years ago

For 15+ years I have been alternating between sex with my wife, fapping to porn, and LDKing with strippers to varying degrees. It has only been over the last year or so where I dropped from 3-4 faps per week to once a month. Also simultaneous to this I went from an LDK every month to at least weekly. Over time I have realized that I would rather LDK with a hot stripper on a less frequent basis than fap more frequently. But also I don't think I would ever stop doing either and also having sex with my wife. I like having all three options and plan on it for as long as I can still cum.

@PaulDrake congrats on finding an LDQ. Enjoy the honeymoon phase as long as you can. I am a regular to my ATF DS and a semi-regular to my backup CF because both of them are totally cool with me LDKing and intend it for me every time I seem them. They are both awesome LDQs and I will take a guaranteed LDK with them over taking my chances on an unknown.