When a favorite gains weight
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
Anyway, i am digressing. In my case, the favorites/regulars were favorites/regulars largely because they were physically attractive (not overweight) and already gave good if not usually great dances. When they became overweight, they were still the same girls and gave the same dances (in some cases even better dances out of necessity). But there was a part of me that was turned off a bit or more than a bit. The dances (even with more mileage and contact) just weren't as exciting or as pleasant for me. Feeling and looking at fatty flesh (besides boobs which are nice when fatty) is just not the same as a super nice tight body. I tended to not get as many dances from them and tried to avoid them more on subsequent visits. Having said that, weight gain isn't a permanent/unnaturally unchangeable condition and sometimes this fluctuates as well as my interest in the girl. In this case where she loses the weight and looks great again, if she's used to giving better than previous dances, she usually doesn't forget and usually makes even more money than she ever did, both from me and in general.
How do the rest of you guys handle something like this?
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Anyway, weight gain is a good thing if a girl starts out as a skin-and-bones manequin. Take the comedienne Whitney Cummings: she gained 25 pounds a few years ago and now she looks almost human LOL.
Weight loss can be a good idea if A) the girl starts out as an enormous dump truck to begin with, and B) if she loses weight slowly and through healthy means. There's nothing worse than a sudden massive weight loss though. It ruins the elasticity of the skin and makes most women look awful. Also, take note ladies, most of the time the tits and ass are the first things to go when you shed the pounds. Because nature is cruel.
If a dancer starts out as thick or curvy, but not a fat slob, and then she loses weight for whatever reason, I usually just stop getting dances with her. But I've never seen a dancer gain so much weight that she suddenly became unattractive to me; that only seems to happen to civilians. When you spend hours each day working a pole and blowing dudes, it tends to keep the excess weight at bay naturally.
I'm not as hung up on weight as most but I do have a limit.
If I am aware of the drug users addiction, I usually stay clear of them even when they have nice looking bodies. The dancers that come back a couple of months after having their babies, I treat on an individual basis. If they are just slightly over weight and not nursing, I welcome them back. But if they still look sloppy fat, I cannot handle them. I'm not 18 any more and it takes more to get my motor revved up.
I would never try to talk to her about it, even with the utmost respect. Unfortunately, there's an infinite number of ways for that conversation to go sideways.
Bodies tend to move up and down in weight over the years - and I don’t mind a gain. It’s the extras that make the difference to me.
I'm almost exclusively into AA dancers and IMO/IME on avg AA women can put on weight "much better" than white-women - IDK if it's b/c black-women tend to have better/more muscle-mass or just naturally larger-frames where they can often carry more-weight better - i.e. IME many AA-dancers that have gained weight a lot of it goes to the "right areas" (per my tastes) i.e. tits, ass, hips - seen several AA dancers that were either slim or medium become thick or brickhouses where their tits have gone from Bs to Ds and their asses and hips gotten bigger all while still remaining curvy (i.e. their tits, ass, hips, are their most prominent areas/features) - thus in my case it's rarely been a deal-breaker when an AA-dancer puts on weight, although there have been a case or two where I did not like the way they looked when they put on too-much weight b/c their stomach got too-big in comparison to their tits/ass/hips - but usually they still look good enough to dance (in a black club), they are often just thicker.
I've also seen some AAs that have lost weight and I have not liked them as much b/c their tits and ass got smaller and at times they felt softer after losing weight - and in some occasions some AAs that have lost weight did look better (curvier and firmer) - but overall I've been more turned-off when they've lost weight vs gained-it (in the case of AA dancers).
a good plump ass has a better chance of making contact with your pressure point, but if she doesn't lean in on the subsequent grind, it makes for a pretty sad tease. in this case you might have to take some initiative and hold her down or put a little thrust into it yourself to get the most out of it.
One time I saw a gal who'd been in my OTC rotation way back when, and I agreed to some regular dances that she quickly turned into something else. Her technique had leveled up to more than compensate for the extra weight. There was another girl at Players Club in Baltimore who was all time hot and delivered the goods on lappers, too. She ballooned so much to be almost unrecognizable. Her I couldn't bring myself around to getting dances from at that size, at least on that night. Never saw her again.