Are you cheating on me?
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
Ever have a dancer ask you that at club? Even playfully? There was one dancer that i was a regular of that would ask me that. Well, regular actually might be a bit of a stretch as she rarely sought me out being very popular, but she knew that i would do numerous dances with her every time we go together. She was that beautiful and a good lap dancer. I would always respond "There's no cheating. There's no cheating in strip clubs!" I don't think she ever got the reference. Ironically, she would see whoever the hell she damn pleased while i was there, so i guess i could or should have just turned it on her hypocritical ass.
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A strip club should be a respite from pettiness and possessiveness. But, some people won't be able to resist "acting like the outside world" though.
It's hard to covey mood in writing, but i'm not very serious at the clubs. I'm not a very serious person in general either. I do smile way more at the club than i do IRL though. So i'm just making some cheeky discussion while i bide time/savings for my next visit.
@Bj99
The girl is a veteran there for maybe 8 years on and off. She may end up being a career stripper at this point unless she finds something else. Historically one of the top earners, so maybe she knows what she's doing. For a long time, i thought maybe she just doesn't like me much or thought i wasn't worth the effort or whatever. Or maybe she doesn't have a good memory? Or maybe she thought i was a one and done type of PL that after spending hundreds on a dancer, i had enough of her. There are quite a few dancers that seem like this. To answer your question, i would usually get at least 7 dances with her and as many as 12 @$30 each about a handful or a little more but less than two handfuls of times in 3 years at that club. And she was always infer a tip, saying i owed so much after the dances plus whatever else i felt like giving. Unnecessary for her to say that, but when most PLs do that many dances, they might not tip on them so who knows. Maybe an average of $260 (8 dances plus small tip) each time for less than an hour, even less than half an hour of her time sometimes, depending on how much she wanted to drink; she would spend no time with me afterwards, although she would walk me back to the table and embrace; there are a lot of dancers that don't even do that. So even if she wasn't a regular, she was a favorite and i think even told her such. I don't go to clubs to drink, i don't go to talk. I don't go to front room grope as it's just half-assed but free compared to in the chump station. So i'm a very easy PL to get dances with if i want to get dances with them. Now, not so much. I don't want to come off like i'm being passive aggressive to her or resentful now, but for the moment, her ship has sailed. Her dances also got noticeably better (and they were always good) not that long ago, so i guess the door's still open, sigh...
And as to a stripper asking me? Never. If she did I would be honest and still take it in jest.
@Bj99 just curious if you will give the guys that want a lot of sit/tease time more of it on slow days than days when you are in high demand.
If nobody is waiting in my ATF DS, she will sit with me for up to an hour and it doesn't cost me anything more than sitting with me for 10 minutes before going to get dances.
I don't usually stick around with a girl after i get dances. I don't always like it as i feel the girl might want a second round with me after i already spent a ton, which often she does after spending another hour with me at the table (which usually seems like an overly long time, unless it's with the ATF or a particularly sexy favorite).
Not anymore. But she's a bad bitch and she knows it. She does seem like she's trying harder to get dances from me. Actually acknowledging me now when she sees me even when she's with other customers, actually plopping right onto my lap to claim me (and she's not a plopper). Before, there were times when i actually had to seek her out to get dances with her, after telling her on stage that i wanted to see her later. Those were a couple times that i would walk up to her, make very little small talk, she would say something like are you ready or want to get some dances and off we'd go to the chump station for not even half an hour for some great dances and boom that was it. I talked about her before in my onegina article; she was the former favorite that was probably the number two at one time, although she has probably dropped out of the top 5, which was unthinkable before, but alas, others came along.
Papi is right. Also when she sees you getting dances from other girls, she just wants to make sure she’s still heavy in your rotation.
This should't be too much of a problem though. The one girl leaves for a month long vacation in 8 days and the 3rd (unknowing) girl only works weekdays, so I won't see her until after the other girl leaves for vacation. Come next year, my clubbing will be on weekends only, so the 4rd girl will only have to be juggled in if I take vacation, go on a holiday when the office is closed or happen to be driving by for work purposes, which is rare.
My ATF acted like she was upset when I mentioned another dance before, Bad acting I should say. I love teasing her about it and she takes it in stride. Likewise I don't get jealous of who she dances with.