Having an ATF is like being married?
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
Friday, December 1, 2017 3:43 AM
Okay, as a disclaimer, i've never been married and i don't see it in the cards. I'm not really the marrying type (just too self-centered and don't really want to share or take on each others' less than perfect lives/baggage), although i'm probably better than average marriage material, even now. Not that i'm knocking marriage. I'm sure for many many people, when it works out, it works out very well. Anyway, i do notice that when a man gets married and especially pretty early in the marriage (while he's still pretty happy) he's much more confident with women. Often flirting openly with his wedding bad visible and he just doesn't give a damn what any hot or not so hot women says or thinks of him because of the good thing (so far) that he has at home.
In the same way, i don't need to take or suffer any shit from any stripper (not that i really did before), but if any stripper is being taxing, irritating or full of herself or hard selling/ROBish, or just in general SWish (can palpably feel the PL hating), i just so easily dismiss her knowing i'm just really there to see my ATF or if i'm at a different club, i can leave that club and go to my ATF if she's working or see her on some later date. Now i'm not trying to brag, because having an ATF brings its own pathethic issues and you can always lose your ATF (she quits or something or stops seeing you or the relationship sours, etc.), but otherwise, it's a quite a nice feeling to have.
Anyone else notice this or feel the same way?
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