Ex dancer calls for a "session"
Shekitout
South Carolina
Had 2 OTC's with a dancer who worked at my favorite club. She quit the club, got messed up with drugs, asked me to take her to emergency room which I did. I tried to keep in touch but her sister wouldn't let my calls thru. In August I left a message on answering machine that the hospital had called trying to reach her about paying the bill. Ex dancer calls me & tells me to don't bother her anymore calling me a psycho. I email her saying I'm the psycho she called when she needed a ride to the hospital, etc. 5 months go by & out of the blue she calls telling me she's now working at a fitness center. She texts me the same day asking if we can do a "session"(OTC) as she's broke. I text back where & when. She calls the next day for the location and the session happens. As I'm leaving she asks about doing dinner. I text her later about doing lunch. She leaves a voicemail that she would love to do lunch & to call her back which I do. I leave a message but she doesn't call back. I call her about lunch on Tues but no reply by text or phone. When she first called she told me not to call at work but then later said it would be OK but don't call a lot. Do I call her at work or just forget the whole thing? I would like to keep the "session" thing going. Or just wait & see if she calls again?
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you should. It's pretty funny.
Bones: What makes you think that I want to share? Besides she told me that doing a lap dance for a guy wearing a purple thong was just too freaky. She is happy that I go comando...lol...
So why so down on Shekitout's success?
Shekitout: a quote from Diane "life is like a butterfly. The more you chase it. The more it will alude you. But if you sit softly, it will come and sit on your shoulder". Then fuck the shit out of her...
BUT, you said you were interested in perpetuating the "sessions", so it must've be good and well worth your time (and money, if that was involved). So, I think if it were me, I'd give her the benefit, and not give up on her quite yet.
I wouldn't call her, though. You don't want to appear as being desparate. Just wait... I'm sure she'll contact you if she enjoyed the sessions, and especially if she needs the money.
It's not for certain, but there's a enough likelihood based on what you described last year. Sorry, the details are sketchy. I recall something about drug abuse, a very distraught hospitalization, doing sessions at her parents house(!), turmoil with her family, wild mood swings, wildly erratic behavior. (Excuse me if I'm missing something, maybe the others can fill in.)
Her dealings with you have involved prostitution when she was apparently in a desperate state, for which she could build up resentment, her hospital stay, which could have been traumatic, and her family problems. Sort of a volatile combination. And you seem to have left yourself exposed enough so that if she DOES snap and seeks vengeance on you, she's got plenty to work with to identify you and make things ugly for you.
So, it's not necessarily that she IS a psycho so much as the consequences to you if she decides to act even a little bit like a psycho.
She asked if I was still going to the club & I told her I had cut way back. She said it was a waste of moeny & I agree. I have been to club to visit with Igiveup/Shadowcat, Bones, etc but no more dances for me on my visits. I'm content to just look.
Thanks for replies.