If you like a stripper and would like to spend time with her OUTSIDE THE CLUB for FREE, do you find out if she has CHILDREN before ASKING her out on a date? Do you find this out before spending MONEY on her?
I think I see what's going on here. Bump a lot of boring dead posts that didn't generate any traction back in 2007. Founder gets sick of it and closes posts again. SJG's head explodes.
No, if it comes up in conversation fine, but I don't ask unless we hit it off and it becomes a part of the convo. But I wouldn't hold it against her or anything. If things went somewhere, I'd be concerned about the role of her baby daddy/ies in her life though.
There is always risk in getting to know someone new. It might not work out.
But you can just tell her about yourself and about where you work and live.
Then you might ask her, "Do you live here in San Jose?" "By yourself?"
Usually that does it.
And then some girls will right off tell you about their kids. That is a very good sign.
Some guys like to say things early on, "I'm jealous of your boyfriend, bedding down with you night after night." Say that when you are really close f2f or nuzzling.
If she goes for that, DFKing should ensue shortly after and you should have already have been planning on taking her home with you.
If a girl wants to create a distorted picture of her life, she will. But the vast majority don't.
But also, don't ever ask her anything which you don't have a boni fide need to know. Like asking about kids or how she got to the club, are only things you need to know about when you are setting up the details of an immediate OTC.
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Well played Lil_Trollballs.
But you can just tell her about yourself and about where you work and live.
Then you might ask her, "Do you live here in San Jose?" "By yourself?"
Usually that does it.
And then some girls will right off tell you about their kids. That is a very good sign.
Some guys like to say things early on, "I'm jealous of your boyfriend, bedding down with you night after night." Say that when you are really close f2f or nuzzling.
If she goes for that, DFKing should ensue shortly after and you should have already have been planning on taking her home with you.
If a girl wants to create a distorted picture of her life, she will. But the vast majority don't.
But also, don't ever ask her anything which you don't have a boni fide need to know. Like asking about kids or how she got to the club, are only things you need to know about when you are setting up the details of an immediate OTC.
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