ATF means All Time Fav
gawker
Older than dirt
So she needs some income and has offered me a reduced rate over what I used to pay ($300 instead of $500) at the apartment she shared with the BF. She'll be 32 and I'll be 72 on the same day next month. She, despite 15 years of heroin use, is still my #10 and callled me on a video call today while she had on rubber gloves, and nothing else while she cleaned the apartment. I, of course want to see her but am cautious about going to her apartment.
My wife is now in a Nursing Home so my time is flexible. The BF has no car or license & so once he's gone to work he's very unlikely to return during the day so is it plausible for a little nooner?
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But continuing with your ATF is just going to be more heart break and expense for you. I'm probably just wasting my time telling you to give it up. Your old enough to know better but obviously don't give a shit.
Tell her you'll give her $600 for 3 sex sessions!
Moving my wife earlier this week was heart-wrenching but I researched facilities and was extremely lucky to get her placed in the best home in the area ( bypassed a lengthy waiting list after I found a good friend on their Board of Directors) white privilege works every time. But an afternoon of delight seems earned after months of wiping my wife's ass, feeding her , etc. decisions, decisions, decisions.
It's clear that both of you have feelings for each other. It's also clear that it can't go anywhere. One of you has to break this self-destructive cycle before it destroys one or both of you.
Believe it or not, I am pulling for you both. Good luck.
I'd spend the $300 on someone lower-maintenance.
Sounds like you're well-off. You must realize she's going to continue draining your bank account.
I'd suggest telling her you're thinking about it but not 100% comfortable. Guarantee that a week or so later, she'll drop her price, say to $250, then take the $50 savings and get a room. Pick her up go to the room have a great time and drop her off. That's what I'd do.
Gawker, I'm sorry about your wife and I think you did the right thing by putting her in a nursing home. You're going to get back with your ATF because she's your ATF. Be safe and take her to a hotel.
Shadowcat is right and while my big head agrees, the little head says I'll never find another who knows me and pleases me so "professionally" and has the patience which my 72 year old body requires. Damn the torpedoes...
Glad the ATF is staying clean. Be careful, she might have it wired up that whoring money goes to drugs. Might be part of how she is able to do it. You don't want to be a factor in that.
SJG
As you see with your wife, life is short. Too short. Who knows how many more years of fucking are in your future?
I say, do whatever pleases you! Damn the torpedoes.
She & her BF are only 90 days clean. After two trips of 7 & 4 days with her it's clear she can be an insufferable bitch which tells me the BF will bail out on her sooner if not later. When this inevitably happens she'll use it as an excuse to relapse. I don't want to be around when this happens.
It's time to cut the cord on my attachment to her and work to define what my new normal is going to be with my wife in a nursing home and what little logic I have left tells me my life (and wallet) will be better off without my long standing friend. Thanks.