Empirical perception versus outside perception
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
Going deep on TUSCL. Please work with me folks...
A PL can post a story on TUSCL how he gave his favorite three earth shattering orgasms during an OTC encounter. Many PL's reading the story may (or probably will) think "BS, the honey was faking and was probably baby-barfing the whole time".
Or, A PL shares a story about a dancer having real feelings for him even if just friendship. The immediate perception on TUSCL is "BS, its a hustle and the honey was probably baby-barfing the whole time she is with the PL"
My point is this - empirically most of probably think dancers are at least enjoying our company on some level. In contrast, when other PL's relay just that, our inclination is to assume the dancer is just a great faker and it is a hustle (baby-barf)
How can we all assume what is personally happening to us is real and at the same time suspect, the same activities, are all fake BS for all other PL's?
And yea, I know most are going to come back and say they know everything in a SC is a fantasy hustle, (I would say the same thing) but I even find confessions like that suspect.
A PL can post a story on TUSCL how he gave his favorite three earth shattering orgasms during an OTC encounter. Many PL's reading the story may (or probably will) think "BS, the honey was faking and was probably baby-barfing the whole time".
Or, A PL shares a story about a dancer having real feelings for him even if just friendship. The immediate perception on TUSCL is "BS, its a hustle and the honey was probably baby-barfing the whole time she is with the PL"
My point is this - empirically most of probably think dancers are at least enjoying our company on some level. In contrast, when other PL's relay just that, our inclination is to assume the dancer is just a great faker and it is a hustle (baby-barf)
How can we all assume what is personally happening to us is real and at the same time suspect, the same activities, are all fake BS for all other PL's?
And yea, I know most are going to come back and say they know everything in a SC is a fantasy hustle, (I would say the same thing) but I even find confessions like that suspect.
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Strippers (escorts, massage girls, SBs) are real people and sometimes experience real emotions.
The thing about "3 earth shattering orgasms" I might consider exaggeration before I call BS on it. After all, we are mongers in here, and as Gandalf would say "every good story needs a little embellishment"
Then, add our fragile egos to the mix, and we'll assume things for our actions and the opposite for others. Again, that's wishful thinking, not empiricism or perception.
That still doesn't mean I know how to put these talents to use.
Also, a small random sample of the last 5 strippers I had sex with 3 were there for the money, 1 was there because she wanted to spend the night in my nice hotel and the 5th was just hoping the condom would break so she could lock some payment down for 18 years.
Mamisan would say "Shairynn, you one funny round eye!"
OTOH, if a CF who is trying to make me her regular pretends to get off from dry-humping me during three lap dances, I'm going to outwardly applaud her orgasmic ability while inwardly calling BS but also appreciating the gesture.
Part of our empirical perception of how we interact with favorites is an ability to distinguish between real and fake affection or real and fake orgasms. As we get to know them (and ourselves) better, we improve in that discernment. So it's not contradictory to *know* that our favorites actually like us or actually cum while other PLs' favorites are just faking.
Pretty sure that would also be lethal in a relatively short amount of time. Perhaps you meant 1 to 5 degrees? Even that would only be surface temperatures; I'd expect core temperature to rise only a little.
"To be completely honest, sleeping with someone decades older than me for the first time made me physically sick:
"To be completely honest, sleeping with someone decades older than me for the first time made me physically sick: ....but then the old dude gave me three earth shattering orgasms, now I won't fuck anybody under 50."
So it's not out of the realm of possibility some of them truly enjoy what they do and the reactions you get are natural.
I do think there are general truths (e.g., middle-aged guys are not giving young women orgasms on the reg). That said, some people here seem to think that every person is cookie cutter -- every stripper is exactly the same, basically a money-controlled automaton who does the exact same things depending on inputs. It's a belief that IMO shows a deep misunderstanding of humans in general.
That said, I'm one of those people who thinks the rule is: middle-aged guys are not giving multiple orgasms to young women. I think that applies to 95% of the stories you guys post. And BTW, I think that applies to me, too. It doesn't mean there aren't sometimes exceptions ... hell, the last time a stripper turned into a FWB for me, I was 45 I think. It IS the case that young women, especially damaged ones, might end up with surprising feelings.
Exception proves the rule. As a general rule, speaking in absolutes as if there's NEVER an exception ignores the fact that these are real people, and in fact I believe such positions are more about posing to look cool than anything else. And it's even true that if anyone is going to run into an exception, a bunch of guys who hang out with damaged strippers are probably strong candidates. I still nevertheless think that middle aged guys making young women cum is waaaay rarer than discussed here. (that of course is just one example)
But I'm okay with being convinced in the moment.
It's interesting when new TUSCL users will post a short novel, hoping that the extreme level of detail and prose will convince everyone that, in his case, it's true love.
Also agree with your last point. I'm especially amused when the new poster invariably throws in "I work out and I'm in good shape", as if that's some huge factor in what we'll think :)
A stripper told me she got an actual orgasm As One customer made it rain and rain on her while she was on stage. she said the thought of that much money being thrown at her all at once made her coochie squirt. And she got strong feelings in the moment (high on endorphins... and other drugs in her case)
PLs trying to be you like stripper boyfriends, if you can afford to go to a strip club then you don't have what it takes to be a legit stripper boyfriend.
So when these PL's act like, she caught feelings oh she loves me, or that it's anything more than a financial transaction I call BS.
Fckn speech to text