That thread about slow dancing at the hostess clubs reminded of something I'd experienced that was odd at the time and I've not seen anywhere else. At one of the Crazy Horse's (I think it was a CH, was it the one near Charlotte? can't place it...) they had this thing they did where all the dancers would pick customers to go up on stage and slow dance for a song.
I've done a lot of weird shit in clubs, mostly because it was fun, felt good, or seemed like a good idea at the time. That one slow dance on stage still stands out as especially weird years later. There was a playground element to it, since there were a lot more customers than dancers and you're very aware that people who didn't get picked are watching you up there under the lights.
Anyone else out there done one of these?
Funny coincidence that you just posted this - I used to frequent the hostess clubs in southern California. I always liked being able to actually move with the music, plus have a girl in my hands that I could feel up and slither all over. Yes there was a club in NC (Teasers in Statesville, now closed) that had a "slow dance" song, but I don't think it was the same experience. The lights were too bright, and you need a few on-your-feet style songs usually before for you and the girl to settle into each other. The hostess club experience can be frustrating for PL's who are focused on mileage. You have to like trying out a variety of girls and figuring out who will do what. Sometimes you get a very "proper" dancer who stiff-arms you and won't get close. Sometimes you get someone quite willing to be pressed up against a wall and grinded on. The fun is in discovering that extra bit of chemistry between you and a semi-normal girl.