Perhaps rickdugan should propose a new system. The new system involves walking into the club and saying "Hi, I'm Rick, I'm unemployed, and I live with my parents!"
I have found most strippers relate to my friends the best......Benjamin, Ulysses, Alexander, and Andrew!!
Make sure they know you have them with you, but they are shy and don't befriend others in the club. They must get to know someone outside of work before going home with them.
Oops.....guess that is P4P. Sorry !!
See, this is where the PUA guys and I disagree. First dates with girls are not that hard to get. They really aren't! Second dates are a little tougher (because often one of you doesn't really want to see the other after the first one, not much chemistry, etc).
If you're in shape, have a normal face, and are comfortable with who you are (in your own skin), you don't need a system.
I find much of the PUA stuff to be entertaining, but at core I do not agree with it.
Overall, I think it best to as much as possible, learn to be flexible in how one relates to people. And so the Alpha Male acts can be entertaining sometimes. But that is as far as it should go, because after all it is just posturing.
^^^^ People learn to compensate if they can't check all three boxes. But they have to be comfortable with themselves, and they have to be employed and self supporting.
Normal face and in shape are, as I see it, not strict requirements.
SJG
Glenn Campbell, the experience shows, and experienced male musicians are the ones who are really comfortable in their own skin. youtube.com
Hack article. Buried the lede; if you're young and in shape and funny you can totally date a stripper... with all the baggage that comes with it.
At a busy club no girl wants to be hit on by a guy not spending. The sweet spot really is when it's deadish but girls haven't given up yet.
And like the real world, you can punch below your level. The hottest girl in the club wants a hot rich boyfriend. But the 5s and 6s? Super gettable, if you want them.
From the article "Look at how the manager operates – He knows everyone, he looks important and he has a lot of charisma (confidence). You need to emulate this guy on some level. Dress smart and play the part of someone high value."
That describes none of the managers I've ever seen. I think they take pride in how sloppy and disheveled they are.
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last commentThis guy is basically selling a fancy version of The System. Dress nice, be cheap, get to know management, blah, blah.
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Grease the bouncers.
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I prefer to do things the George Costanza way. I'll pick up all the chicks.
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I kind of want to touch the boobs of 20 dancers rather than the vagina of just 1.
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Q. What's the best way to pick up a stripper?
A. Lift with the legs, not with the back.
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Brilliant point rh48hr!
Perhaps rickdugan should propose a new system. The new system involves walking into the club and saying "Hi, I'm Rick, I'm unemployed, and I live with my parents!"
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Everybody has their own system and I'm not sharing mine. :)
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I have found most strippers relate to my friends the best......Benjamin, Ulysses, Alexander, and Andrew!!
Make sure they know you have them with you, but they are shy and don't befriend others in the club. They must get to know someone outside of work before going home with them.
Oops.....guess that is P4P. Sorry !!
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^^^^ best system to date, although shadow wearing funny tshirts is a close second
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See, this is where the PUA guys and I disagree. First dates with girls are not that hard to get. They really aren't! Second dates are a little tougher (because often one of you doesn't really want to see the other after the first one, not much chemistry, etc).
If you're in shape, have a normal face, and are comfortable with who you are (in your own skin), you don't need a system.
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^^^^^^^ Agreed!
I find much of the PUA stuff to be entertaining, but at core I do not agree with it.
Overall, I think it best to as much as possible, learn to be flexible in how one relates to people. And so the Alpha Male acts can be entertaining sometimes. But that is as far as it should go, because after all it is just posturing.
SJG
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Dominic, few of us can check all three of those boxes.
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^^^^ People learn to compensate if they can't check all three boxes. But they have to be comfortable with themselves, and they have to be employed and self supporting.
Normal face and in shape are, as I see it, not strict requirements.
SJG
Glenn Campbell, the experience shows, and experienced male musicians are the ones who are really comfortable in their own skin.
youtube.com
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i've had good times because of george. lots of georges.
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amazing how 'making it rain' just ten or twenty georges can get her attention. :)
( i save a bigger 'make it rain' for my favorites sometimes.)
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Hack article. Buried the lede; if you're young and in shape and funny you can totally date a stripper... with all the baggage that comes with it.
At a busy club no girl wants to be hit on by a guy not spending. The sweet spot really is when it's deadish but girls haven't given up yet.
And like the real world, you can punch below your level. The hottest girl in the club wants a hot rich boyfriend. But the 5s and 6s? Super gettable, if you want them.
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From the article "Look at how the manager operates – He knows everyone, he looks important and he has a lot of charisma (confidence). You need to emulate this guy on some level. Dress smart and play the part of someone high value."
That describes none of the managers I've ever seen. I think they take pride in how sloppy and disheveled they are.
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