Dancer - "Is it OK for me to touch you?"

Plenty of times. When phuglies and phatties and tattooed women approach me, I'll send them away with some polite comment.

Just because they are dancers doesn't mean I want them to touch me. So many women, so little time!

Only an ugly dancer who sat down uninvited, started to rub my crotch and asked if I liked what she was doing. That girl was about 20 years past the time she should have stopped dancing.

I don't know why anyone would tell a girl that they were paying for a dance from to not touch them.

WetWilly - I agree with sending away fuglies but the question was would you tell her no touching after you have already accepted the dance?

It's generally kissing that I try to ward off. Some seem to see it as some kind of secret weapon, but I think of it like letting a dog lick your mouth after he has just gotten done licking his balls, another dog's ass and chowing down in the cat litter box.

Once when one told me that she could touch me but I couldn't touch her, I responded that I didn't say she could touch me. It was enough of a buzzkill thing to hear that it didn't really matter at that point who was touching who.

A dancer is not allowed to touch me intil she goes splish splash in my bed on the back of my truck

A stripper put her hand on my junk. I told her she had better get her hand off me in 30 minutes.

I was asked this question once. A thick, heavy-set dancer, who was a 6 at best, sat down and started talking to me. She was completely in bitch mode. I did not find her attractive at all. She then started rubbing my cock and asked me if it was OK for her to touch me. Since I did not find her attractive, I told her, "No, it's not". Thankfully she got up and left after that.

When getting dances I have never had a girl ask if she can touch me. If she wants to touch me, she just does. I've never told a girl not to touch me while getting a dance. As long as I find her to be attractive and I'm really enjoying the dance, I will let her touch me all she wants to.

I've had dancers ask if it was OK to touch me. I typically reply, its OK but I prefer that you use your mouth and pussy when touching me.

I say "yes, and since I only charge $5 a song to touch me, you'll still make $5 off this dance"

Not from a girl that I've selected. Have brushed off unwelcomed touching by some by Saying, "nope, I'm good"

The only times I reject touching advances are when I know they're to set up unsolicited extras.

Phugly dancers have developed a lot of ways to avoid giving customers a chance to say no. It's an old sales technique, finding something the customer will say yes to. " Do you like to cum ?", for example.

I don't ever recall being asked this question. If I was in the middle of a dance it should be assumed I'm good with it. Prior to accepting a dance if I wasn't planning on getting dances with her I would just say "no thanks" just as I would if she was asking for a dance.

I can only remember being asked this question once. More than 20 years ago, early in my mongering days, I was getting a lap dance from a fairly attractive blonde MILF, maybe late 30s, who asked me if it was OK for her to touch me. I said "Sure, go ahead" -- it turned out "touch" meant OTP handie! Since an actual handjob requires skin-to-skin contact, that experience qualifies as the very first of my many hundreds of lapgasms.

Never been asked. Never told a dancer not to.

I got asked tbis a couple of weeks ago, I either take is as:

* a way for her to see if you are there type to br interested in high-mileage

* her trying to be polite and trying to provide good customer service by doing or not doing what you like

* perhaps she thinks if the custy is LE that he may not be allowed to say yes (kinda an LE test that she thinks would work)

Shadow,

Actually, the question you asked was

" Has anybody ever told a dancer to NOT touch them? "

With the new question you posed in your later post, my answer is completely different. If I asked a dancer to dance for me, I'd never deny her full access to any of my body parts.....

> I said "Sure, go ahead" -- it turned out "touch" meant OTP handie! Since an actual handjob requires skin-to-skin contact, that experience qualifies as the very first of my many hundreds of lapgasms.

@MrDeuce, wait, from a terminology perspective, I thought that was a BBHJ OTP

The glossary really needs to be updated. This website is starting to get confusing.

I've never heard that.

The hardcore thing about the OTP modifier is that you can get BBFS OTP every time you get a lap-dance at some clubs. I bought a stripper a drink BB the other day, but I had been keeping it under my hat because I'm not sure what the waitress would think.

I don't remember a dancer asking me the question.

I don't remember telling a dancer not to touch me either.