Do you think your chances of OTC is better with in the closet dancers or out of the closet dancers?
I believe OTC chances are better with out of the closet dancers because they are not ashamed of their dancer life and are less likely to be ashamed of their customers.
Many in the closet dancers don't even associate with their dancer coworkers. They definitely don't want any link to club with a customer.
In the closet like Tom Cruise?
My experience has been limited to two girls, two situations but they are/were both "inside the closet"
Even though I have only been OTC with a few dancers, I have yet to do so with one that is open with friends or family about how she earns money.
Johndough, not sure if I understand you. If you are talking with a dancer in her club, then you know that she is a dancer. It makes no difference what people outside the club know of her.
As far as what she will do with you OTC, my policy is always to talk to all women as civilians and in all situations.
SJG
counter question: is a customer better at OTC when he is out of the closet with his SO about his activities? If not SO, then substitute all of his close family and friends.
I think the philosophical question is be honest to yourself about what you are. And own it.
^^^^^^^ Agreed!
SJG
Definitely out of closet.
I'm too old and rotund to do it in closet