With regards to kissing in the strip club, it seems like the older customers get it a lot more often than the younger customers. With a lot of the older customers kissing happens with regularity. With a lot of the younger customers kissing is pretty rare.
I know the strip club world is 360 degrees opposite of the real world, but it would seem to me that strippers would more comfortable kissing guys they are attracted to or at least aren't repulsed by.
Why is this? Any theories?
Strippers don't kiss a guy they are attracted to at the club. The older guys are usually carrying the bigger bank roll. That is what attracts most strippers. And they will kiss older guys to help loosen his grip on the money. Plus older guys make better regulars and have a higher disposable income. Strippes will also kiss to develop that guy into a regular that will give them a steadier cash flow
Fishsticks - you've proven by your comments that no matter what age you are, you're more likely to get struck by lighting than laid by a stripper or civilian.
Better just go gay.
LMAO at the presumption strippers are repulsed by older guys, and naturally attracted to younger guys closer to their age. In reality, sex workers tend to prefer older, better resourced older gentlemen, who know what the fuck they are doing. Many really don't like baby-sitting young, broke and inexperienced PLs.
While you think they may not be attracted to older guys that is not always the case. I have a friend in his mid forties who married a 28 year old.
My ex-wife has a friend who in her twenties got married twice. Both guys 20+ years older then her.
Those are just people I know personally. I've seen it happen a lot. Girls are not just attracted to guys their own age and it doesn't have to do with money in many cases.
Although in the sc world that is the main factor.
Although it's likely a bit off topic, I think relationships with a big age gap like the ones rh48hr mentioned makes things much more difficult
Strippers do whatever it takes to make money. Guys of all ages want to kiss but the older guys are more likely to have the money to make it happen.
Fishsticks consistently serves up softballs just waiting to get hit out of the park.
Why are you spying on the action other customers receive, much less taking notes on it? I guess it's the high school mentality.
It has nothing to do with age. They are just repulsed by you.
Why do you keep looking for a GF in a SC? Ain't gonna happen.
"With regards to kissing in the strip club, it seems like the older customers get it a lot more often than the younger customers."
Based on what?
I have no idea whether or not old guys get kissed more. When I go to a strip club, I don't take a make-out census.
If it's true, my guess would be that dancers ratchet up the intimacy with older men to access their fatter wallets. Also, younger guys seem to have a harder time understanding that strip clubs are pure fantasy and get carried away if the stripper gets overly intimate.
^^ Brilliant, just brilliant analysis! Stripper behavior is motivated by money. Who would have thought?
^ #1 above is just plain creepy. SJG has been teaching you well.
@ismael- based on the TUSCL discussion threads on kissing
@hungry- with repulsed I'm more talking about a combination of old and fat. I have seen older guys that take care of themselves that look really good for their age.
"360 degrees opposite "
Fucking hilarious!
Yeah I agree that strippers kiss older guys to access their fatter wallets, I'm sure they make a lot of regulars doing that. I think when strippers kiss younger guys, a lot of the younger guys take that as a sign that she wants to fuck him for free after her shift (although once in a blue moon that might be what she wants), strippers don't want to have to deal with the younger guys pestering them for dates.
@vikings- I had a thread a week or so ago titled "age difference" and it mentioned what you're talking about.
I have seen younger new girls hanging with the little boys but experienced girls know the boys have little if any money and always are looking for something for nothing. If you look at escort advertisements you will many tomes find "older gentlemen only" in the rules. Maybe that is because of: 1] Money(us oldster have disposable income and baby boys do not) 2] better manners 3] less likely to force her to do more than she is comfortable with or you have paid for
180 degrees. You know what I meant.
Actually Fishstix, I'm thinking you just finished algebra I -- geometry doesn't come until next year.
Let's have a deal Random if I complete geometry, will you actually go to a strip club and write a review? Do we have a deal?
^ DD. Dumbass Douche
"For this discussion we'll classify younger customers as under 35." In your case it would be under 15.
I guess they figure all young PLs are broke with no good jobs. I would block all stripper kisses anyway.
Stripper kisses me while I'm in a vip, shes asks how do you like that? I respond...lower...
i turn to jello when the right girl kisses...
I think the women may correctly recognize that the older men see kissing as more important, and they are less interested in non-GFE actions.
SJG
in my experience so far i have seen dancers kissing and making out with pls of all ages... main factor is mutual attraction followed by possible continued activity = money (more times than not.)
And so I am taking it that mutual attraction can be a complex thing and that age is not the only determinant.
I have seen dancers treat older guys extremely well. And so it would seem to follow that in a high mileage club, front room make out sessions with older guys might not be uncommon, as our OP Larry is suggesting.
SJG
Well I don't know why Fishsticks is bitching about Random - all his reviews are fabricated. That's a fancy way of saying FAKE for those of us still in Jr High.
^^^^^^ Shailynn indeed! Quite impressive what someone was able to do with a 1980 Apple II, 2 Mhz Motorola 6502, 64k DRAM, 5MB hard drive, and keep this ALIFE running for so many years.
SJG
@hungrygiraffee what if they're young, inexperienced and well off (or financially stable)? Do strippers still hate them? I thought ALL women like to mold a man to their liking.
I have the opposite problem, more frequently, do I have strippers going hard to kiss me...and I'm 26. It COULD be my mature (not ugly) looks, but I'm pretty skin clear to pass as young.
Btw, I've learned to hate kisses from strippers because if they kissed me, they've probably sucked a helluva lot of dick.
I think you mean 180. 360 degrees would put you in the same spot you started... it is complete circle...
I don't know if your old guy theory is necessarily true, but if it is it's probably because they usually have more money.
"Actually Fishstix, I'm thinking you just finished algebra I -- geometry doesn't come until next year."
That was actually true for me but Geometry was way easier. I hated Algebra, I kinda loved Geometry.
Larry, so you are seeing strip club kissing. Might you be more explicit about where you are seeing this? And I assume you mean front room.
Usually the more the back room mileage, and the more the girls are in competition with each other, the higher the front room mileage. Either that, or they are trying to set up OTC's.
So is this in that San Gabriel Valley? I think you like the less FS oriented SoCal clubs. So is it in these? Is the girl going to leave with the guy? I have seen this locally.
Can you say if you see any changes if the club is managed by DV or SR?
PM me if you like.
This is a very good thread subject.
Thanks, SJG
No SJG I'm just talking about when discussion threads about kissing on TUSCL come up, it seems most of the older crowd that chime say that kissing is a pretty regular thing ITC or at least not rare, while the younger crowd says kissing is pretty rare for them.
Oh, so you are not seeing this in clubs, you are just reading about it on TUSCL.
Well I suspect what it is then, is that the younger PL's tend to take the women in strip clubs at face value, accepting it all on the girl's terms, like buying dances.
Where as an older PL is more likely an experienced womanizer and someone who always finds ways to take the lead himself, and so he will give the girl a chance to open up with him and get into GFE mode, before inviting her to any back room, or just to leave with him.
SJG
Random: " '360 degrees opposite '
Fucking hilarious!"
Relax. He was probably thinking of electrons.
ROFL
Larry, it is very different when you are around the same age as the dancers, versus when you are much older.
And with the younger guys here, most have been lucky enough to not have been married.
When a guy is married, he gets cut in on some of the girl talk. He learns more to understand women, behind the facade.
And then if his marriage turns sour, or does go all the way to divorce, that is a horrendous experience. If he survives it, he will never again take women completely at face value. He will understand them well, but only because he does not go by what they say.
So with these sorts of changes, you will find guys who have learned how to get women to do what they want, not really accepting so of their initial excuses.
I mean what are strip clubs, but places where you see that women can be very pleasing, and not like they so often are.
SJG
For this discussion we'll classify younger customers as under 35.