Is it better for women to be highly sexualized?
Consider a wild hypothetical. Suppose my ex-wife were to become a maximum mileage extreme 'off the hook' stripper, like say is written about at Follies.
Would that then open the door to some sort of future sexual liaison between she and I, even with me paying her a customary fee?
Maybe it would. Why not? That kind of sex would be safe. Its not just free of emotional entanglement, it would be free of her getting her hooks back into me.
Okay, but the chances of that are zero. She is too old, and that kind of life is 100% the opposite of anything she has ever been.
Consider another idea, is it better for women to be highly sexualized, from when they are young adults. Maybe they remain that way, or maybe they slow down. But at least at the start of their adulthood they have lots and lots of partners, maybe even paying partners.
Well, that would reduce the chances of sexual fidelity in marriage. But it would also mean that de-sexualized dysfunctional marriages which go on to become death traps would be less likely. So I think it would be better.
As people know, I am not going to be married again, not going to co-habitate with a woman again, not going to practice monogamy again, and not going to be trapped into defacto celibacy again. I am building an organization which will be entirely the opposite of that.
Right now my ex-wife knows nothing about this. But suppose she did know about it and over time came to accept that that way is better and she became like our other women. Would that be okay, she going along with this new
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Little interruption handled.
Suppose my ex-wife could go with the new polygamous way?
Hard to even imagine. She only really relates to me know by trying to get her hooks back into me. She was so destructive, and so unreformable. Today communications are highly limited. She says, "You kicked me out of your life.
This was never really my intention, but I just needed to cut off her ability to inflict harm.
Seems like she had crossed over so many basic lines of bad intentions, that their never could be anything between us again. But this sort of thing runs contrary to the new kind of life and the organization I am trying to build.
Just have to wait and see. But to answer the original question, I do think it better if women are highly sexualized when they are young adults. This one had not been, just against her culture and values.
SJG