Is it better for women to be highly sexualized?
san_jose_guy
money was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
Is it better for women to be highly sexualized?
Consider a wild hypothetical. Suppose my ex-wife were to become a maximum mileage extreme 'off the hook' stripper, like say is written about at Follies.
Would that then open the door to some sort of future sexual liaison between she and I, even with me paying her a customary fee?
Maybe it would. Why not? That kind of sex would be safe. Its not just free of emotional entanglement, it would be free of her getting her hooks back into me.
Okay, but the chances of that are zero. She is too old, and that kind of life is 100% the opposite of anything she has ever been.
Consider another idea, is it better for women to be highly sexualized, from when they are young adults. Maybe they remain that way, or maybe they slow down. But at least at the start of their adulthood they have lots and lots of partners, maybe even paying partners.
Well, that would reduce the chances of sexual fidelity in marriage. But it would also mean that de-sexualized dysfunctional marriages which go on to become death traps would be less likely. So I think it would be better.
As people know, I am not going to be married again, not going to co-habitate with a woman again, not going to practice monogamy again, and not going to be trapped into defacto celibacy again. I am building an organization which will be entirely the opposite of that.
Right now my ex-wife knows nothing about this. But suppose she did know about it and over time came to accept that that way is better and she became like our other women. Would that be okay, she going along with this new
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Consider a wild hypothetical. Suppose my ex-wife were to become a maximum mileage extreme 'off the hook' stripper, like say is written about at Follies.
Would that then open the door to some sort of future sexual liaison between she and I, even with me paying her a customary fee?
Maybe it would. Why not? That kind of sex would be safe. Its not just free of emotional entanglement, it would be free of her getting her hooks back into me.
Okay, but the chances of that are zero. She is too old, and that kind of life is 100% the opposite of anything she has ever been.
Consider another idea, is it better for women to be highly sexualized, from when they are young adults. Maybe they remain that way, or maybe they slow down. But at least at the start of their adulthood they have lots and lots of partners, maybe even paying partners.
Well, that would reduce the chances of sexual fidelity in marriage. But it would also mean that de-sexualized dysfunctional marriages which go on to become death traps would be less likely. So I think it would be better.
As people know, I am not going to be married again, not going to co-habitate with a woman again, not going to practice monogamy again, and not going to be trapped into defacto celibacy again. I am building an organization which will be entirely the opposite of that.
Right now my ex-wife knows nothing about this. But suppose she did know about it and over time came to accept that that way is better and she became like our other women. Would that be okay, she going along with this new
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Suppose my ex-wife could go with the new polygamous way?
Hard to even imagine. She only really relates to me know by trying to get her hooks back into me. She was so destructive, and so unreformable. Today communications are highly limited. She says, "You kicked me out of your life.
This was never really my intention, but I just needed to cut off her ability to inflict harm.
Seems like she had crossed over so many basic lines of bad intentions, that their never could be anything between us again. But this sort of thing runs contrary to the new kind of life and the organization I am trying to build.
Just have to wait and see. But to answer the original question, I do think it better if women are highly sexualized when they are young adults. This one had not been, just against her culture and values.
SJG
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of…
The guy got his ideas going and his group together, in France. Then he got divorced. He relocated to Montreal. The group is basically a very sex positive and polygamy friendly affair. Much of their energies go into making fun of the Catholic Church.
But they have also crossed over some lines which just make them beyond the pale, human cloning hoax, etc.
But at least in the Montreal area, people are taken aback by the number of beautiful young women they have. Few other cults can match this. I believe Rael always works to steer it this way, applying his own substantial charm and charisma.
Still, the ex-wife is a total persona non-Grata.
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And:
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Is having an ex-wife like having another mother, a woman who will be forever totally off limits sexually? And is the reason for this just the amount of power which had been in play and the ways it might have been abused?
A female cleric, not close to her mother, said that usually a mother is the first one who sets limits for you. Implying that that makes for a big issue.
Is that what this is really all about, resolving a kind of mother power struggle?
My ex-wife crossed over some major lines. She made the marriage toxic, and a death trap.
SJG
Iron Butterfly
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIVe-rZB…
1. Your ex-wife
2. The AMP attendant you used to stalk
3. Your mother
You need to get out of the basement more fuck stick.
SJG
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SJG
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herodotus
http://www.bible-history.com/quotes/hero…
Would this be better, for young women to be de-virginized this way, and even to spend a longer time serving clients in the temple? And in today's world, like in strip clubs, or like has been reported about Mexican college girls doing stints in the TJ Hong Kong Bar? Would making that all normative be better?
For my ex-wife, of course everything in her life would have changed. But maybe it would have been better. And for girls I knew in high school, again their lives being totally different, but maybe better.
SJG
And for those of us that have had marriages turn to cyanide, if the woman was highly sexualized, would that have helped, during or after the marriage?
SJG
So what this means is that she is imposing standards for eligibility and likely even for marriage. So she is enforcing all the old conformist standards. So of course this is BAD!
SJG
SJG
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SJG
Religion and the 2016 Election: Historical Context and Unusual Alliances - Prof. Randall Balmer
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PjMhdHHk…
SJG went into a strip club !
that's the joke
SJG
SJG went into a strip club !
that's the joke
I survived, but just barely. At least I am not in prison. I have known guys for whom this was different.
But the life I am building, as with the organization I am building, will be very different from how things have been.
SJG
Just give it a little time. What did we have the over/under on until long you either end up involuntarily committed or in prison?
SJG
SJG went into a strip club !
that's the joke
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SJG
SJG went into a strip club !
that's the joke