How do you explain the disconnect between what you believe and what you practice
CJKent (Banned)
“The more a person needs to be right, the less certain he is...”
Values guide the decision making process of what is important and what is right. But in bussiness practice and interaction with strippers is difficult to do what is right to/for you.
I believe is in part because the predarory bussiness culture in America. To get the most and give the least. I have observed that some strippers newly arrived from other countries have a more fair trade culture and mentality, until they learn the american way of doing business.
I believe is in part because the predarory bussiness culture in America. To get the most and give the least. I have observed that some strippers newly arrived from other countries have a more fair trade culture and mentality, until they learn the american way of doing business.
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I try hard to live my life according to my actual values. We all have limited resources; time, money, energy, space, even goodwill. I used to teach parenting classes where I taught clients to develop a family mission statement and writing out a list of each members own personal values, so that resources are spent accordingly; it takes effort, or there will be waste and conflict.
Shutting a club down because you have beef with someone there causing others to lose jobs, others to lose out on a place to have fun, was just plain wrong in my opinion. Whoever did that or assisted in that hurt thousands of people and there will be a price to pay when they die. I have no problem if agents want to stop people from transmitting sexual diseases but hurting others because you have a beef with someone else, that is just revenge. Sounds like the guy on the motorcycle who kicked a car while going down a highway causing the car to run into a truck, injuring the truck driver. It was wrong to kick the car and he hurt others. If the guy is evil, he probably enjoyed it all. Evil enjoys hurting others. Good people do not enjoy hurting others. It's that simple. Sometimes many of us may have a little bit of devil inside us all because many of us can remember enjoying doing something bad. Overall I have chosen to be good instead of joining up with the evil side. Evil people enjoy hurting others and you could easily be targeted if you are in their company.
That is if your MO includes cultivating favs.
If my first experience isn't especially good, I don't give a lot of second chances. I try to cut my losses quickly.
BTW, LOL @gammanu
Anyway, I'm not sure there's a huge disconnect for me, either. I don't believe there's any ethical disconnect in two people agreeing on sexual services, or each one trying to get the best deal they can for themselves. I don't deal with strippers dishonestly, I negotiate a good deal for me but don't try to exploit her (unless you believe that her being a stripper is itself exploitation), and treat my strippers with respect (again, I don't think sexual services = disrespect)