Civilian GF/Wife vs Strippers

larryfisherman
California
I've heard some people on here say having a girlfriend or wife is more expensive than going to strip clubs/fucking strippers. They say that's one of the reasons they prefer being single and going to SCs as opposed to be in a relationship. They also say that with your girl you can't fuck whenever you want, with a stripper you set up a time and place when you want to fuck and then you do it, that's another reason they prefer the SCs over being in a relationship.

My overall take on it is being in a relationship is probably more expensive than the strip clubs because you're probably paying the rent/mortgage, you buy your girl stuff etc, but I definitely prefer the civilian road. With a stripper sure you can fuck when you want, but it's just business. With your girl it's more passion and it's actually love, she's not trying to make you cum fast. Your girl is actually going to be there for you in your toughest times, a stripper could care less (although to keep you as a paying customer she might act like she cares). When your money runs out your girl might actually stay with you. When your money runs out strippers runaway from you faster than Usain Bolt.

What are your thoughts on this?

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san_jose_guy
7 years ago
Having a wife is signing away your equal citizenship guaranteed under the 14th Amendment.

Having a GF means she will be provoking upsets to steer you in that direction. Even if she is cool, she will be taking shit from her GF's.

The organization I am building is the best remedy.

SJG
ThereAndBackAgain
7 years ago
Civvie relationships are based on a lot of expectations, compromises and what people rationally like to call social-"match". You are wedging finances to live richly and pass on inheritance. Its more egotistical than humanist like society has made it to appear. My car, my wife, my house, my son... so on and so forth is all part of vanity that you made your life meaningful and lived to fullest or whatever.

A mother and whore are both human. And humans are as rational as they are kind. ( I am sure you were talking about money that runs out is the splurge money not food money)
houjack
7 years ago
This isn't the place to ask this. Most answers will show preference for strippers, obviously. Especially compared to wife. I mean, look where you are. What 50+ year old is gonna find a civilian 20 yr old girlfriend, lol.

The reasons may be different, but the preference in the end is probably the same.

Some probably had crazy wives, or sex withholding wives, or manipulative wives, overbearing wives,... etc. Whatever, you get it. Maybe they just get older and don't wanna fuck their wives anymore (age, fat, who knows?).

Myself, I just don't want monogamy anymore. Too constricting. I wanna be free, and not just to fuck, but like just go out without answering questions or without needing a reason.

Also, main reason for divorce? Money. Men losing job and no longer supporting wife. Most likely she will not stay in tough times. Sorry kid.
K
7 years ago
The two are not mutually exclusive. I own a home. I rent an office. I own a nice car for personal use. My business owns a POS for hauling equipment. You can have a SO and still be in this hobby.

I may be saying too much here but my second wife enjoyed many aspects of this hobby with me before she passed away. My first marriage ended for entirely different reasons as I had stopped for the duration of that marriage.
san_jose_guy
7 years ago
Once you have a normative and socially legitimate relationship with one woman, it is no longer just you and that woman. The relationship itself becomes the mechanism by which all manner of conformist pressures are introduced and imposed.

The organization I am building will be the best remedy ever invented.

SJG

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jackslash
7 years ago
With wives the passion will not last a lifetime, and divorce will take half your assets.
san_jose_guy
7 years ago
I have always said that if I were to live again, I would be either a divorce lawyer, or a pimp.

But as it stands, the organization I am building will give a far better life course for both women, and for men.

Marriage should be abolished because it violates the 13th and 14th Amendments.

SJG

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san_jose_guy
7 years ago
LDK, you are not looking at the real cost to your life, in being married, and what it will cost if you ever end it on this side of the grave.

SJG
shailynn
7 years ago
Good, Fishsticks likes civilians better than strippers. Now there's no reason for you to ever post here again.
larryfisherman
7 years ago
Jackslash always dropping knowledge bombs.
mjx01
7 years ago
Giving up 50% of your financial assets and having to pay a monthly stipend after the divorce... vs pre-negotiated pricing.
larryfisherman
7 years ago
@mjx- that is assuming that every guy that gets married gets a divorce. Also if the guy doesn't get married and the relationship ends, he's not going to be giving up his assets and paying a monthly stipend.
Bj99
7 years ago
Ppl like to think that sex is love for women, but it's not, it's security. For strippers, the sexuality, or actual sex, is money, which is a pure form of security. It's instant gratification, and it's simple. Gfs are in it for the big hustle and many of them stop craving sex, when they stop craving security bc they already have it, even if you leave them. If you get married. Spend the money on a decent and fair prenup. Consider alimony, and a fair child support, bc alimony is taxable for the recipient, and so it's often at a lower rate for all involved. I'd suggest both of you having a decent allowance while married, so that gifts are still gifts at least. Nothing worse than when you don't even want your man to spoil you bc it's your money too.
FTS
7 years ago
It's kinda like Bitcoin vs Gold. Bitcoin is the manifestation of pure, virtual commodity money, whereas Gold is the original commodity money provided by nature; the money God intended for His children.

A long time ago, before the agricultural revolution, Neanderthal men had 10x serum testosterone than modern men and had no concept of law, deviant/acceptable behavior, political correctness, etc etc.. Neanderthal sex was basically the same as how the monkeys and gorillas do it; they get horny, female monkey senses male horniness, gets wet, spreads her legs, and they fuck. But then... something happened, something to do with a snake and an apple, I forget, it was a long time ago. But now we wear clothes, eat with forks, bomb each other with ICBMs, and back out of agreements to reduce carbon emissions. Yes, we have retained the ability to fuck like in the good ol' days, but that form is losing it's majority share of the sphere of sexual activity. Now we trade green pieces of paper with faces of dead people on them in exchange for sexy time with pretty girls. Bitcoin vs gold. It's that simple.

LOLz.
flagooner
7 years ago
^ Huh?
Bj99
7 years ago
It's like bevis and butthead writing a paper for macro Econ 101.
FTS
7 years ago
http://www.theoriginofemotions.com/monog…

Chapter 9
Monogynic Love
People Affected: men in a relationship of less than 46 months
Type of Emotion: conceptual reward
Conceptual Trigger: “ the woman I love is happy ”
Mental Effect: positive
Key Feature: activation requires strong visual/audible pleasure
Key Feature: activation requires suddenly strong affection
Key Feature: activated after 4 months of daily interaction
Key Feature: cannot be activated by more than one woman at a time
Key Feature: cannot be activated by previous women
Key Feature: cannot be activated by kin or friends
Key Feature: the happier the woman, the stronger the effect
Key Feature: has a duration of 42 months for each woman
Key Feature: ends 4+42=46 months after meeting a woman
larryfisherman
7 years ago
Lol
skibum609
7 years ago
A relationship takes a long term view; a significant effort; a willingness to compromise, evolve and grow; a sense of team; empathy; compassion; a willingness to subordinate your own best interrests for the common good; honesty; decency etc.
san_jose_guy
7 years ago
Marriage and Family, Would You Do It Again?
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=3773…

SJG
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