Instagram Handle vs. Phone Number
HungryGiraffe
Somewhere USA
Had an interesting experience recently where I'd just finished a nice lap dance with stripper and I asked for the digits. She offered her Instagram handle instead. I suspected a SO situation and sure enough first pic was of her and her fiancé. I found it fascinating that the Instagram page provided pics of her family, friends and all about her professionally, including her real name.
What's really cool is next time I see her in the club we'll be able to have a great convo about her wide range of interests. Fully appreciate her not wanting to get text messages from stripping gig clients.
Is this the new normal in the age of social media? Did I just get lucky? Or, is she taking a risk unmasking herself after spending 10 mins with a new strip club connection?
What's really cool is next time I see her in the club we'll be able to have a great convo about her wide range of interests. Fully appreciate her not wanting to get text messages from stripping gig clients.
Is this the new normal in the age of social media? Did I just get lucky? Or, is she taking a risk unmasking herself after spending 10 mins with a new strip club connection?
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I stopped being surprised, though. If you're anywhere near a club regular and nothing bad has been happening, you probably wouldn't be able to add any more drama to her life than seems perfectly normal to her - especially as "some guy on Instagram" vs. potentially blowing up her phone w/ text messages.
Also, rumor has it that some strippers and even strip club customers have a tendency to make poor choices.
In other words, yeah, it falls within the range of normal now. I guess it's one of those things like how kissing is too intimate, but BBBJCIM is not.
When it comes to facebook, I still find it rare that strippers give out their REAL media, with their friends and family on it, to anyone but regulars they feel won't stalk them or embarrass them in front of their family. I think it's pretty dumb for a stripper to give out their facebook to just any customer, but I guess not surprised that some do. With instagram, it seems to happen more and more that strippers are using their instagram accounts -- even their real instagram accounts -- to give to customers
Snapchat is definitely my fave. It's a little less risky for the stripper, since there's no public interactions with her other Snapchat contacts. Snapchat gives the girls a false sense of security about any sexting they do. Everyone knows that their pics can be screenshot, but no one on snapchat seems to realize there are video screen-scrapers that save videos, too.
I got added on Snapchat by a stripper I know. She didn't even tell me she was going to do it!
strippers still get their phones shut off and are always changing numbers, their Instagram and Facebook never change so you can ALWAYS get a hold of them there.
Just a theory, it's more likely they don't want their phone blown up with txt messages at 2AM by a horny PL on a night they aren't working in the club.
It's a reverse catfish, a fake Facebook account. It's her way of stringing PLs along but tells the RILs that ITC is all they'll get.
anon: to the best of my knowledge, Snapchat has turned off all 3rd party app access anyway. All my third party apps that I used to do this with, are now useless.
But, video records like AZ Screen Recorder (or a host of others) don't access Snapchat at all, they just insert themselves in the video path and record from there. I don't know the mechanism .... I would have guessed that they would do this by replacing the video driver with their own, but this one doesn't require root, so it isn't that. In any case, have had it a loooong time and not banned
I suspect that another part of it is like when a girl "accidentally" leaves a hair tie or earring at your house or leaves a bite mark. Sort of a way to mark her territory and remind you of her. I also wouldn't be surprised if they show off social media profiles of the customers who are "their territory" in the dressing room.
For the ones looking for an exit strategy, having you on social media would give her a better idea of her realistic chances and help her screen for suitability.