A friendly inquiry
MilaniCashhh
What do you like to see on stage? Pole tricks? twerking? Eye contact?
What is it that a girl does on stage that grabs your attention and makes you want to take that bitch straight to the lap dance room?
I'm curious!! I am most certainly not a pole trick queen..I'll steal your soul with my eyes though.
Also....
I dance in Virginia. I got my first whip (whoop whoop!) and I'm ready to travel. Anyone able to recommend clubs on the east coast that are poppin, black girl friendly, and are not heavily geared towards extras? Figured I'd put out some feelers out on here.
What is it that a girl does on stage that grabs your attention and makes you want to take that bitch straight to the lap dance room?
I'm curious!! I am most certainly not a pole trick queen..I'll steal your soul with my eyes though.
Also....
I dance in Virginia. I got my first whip (whoop whoop!) and I'm ready to travel. Anyone able to recommend clubs on the east coast that are poppin, black girl friendly, and are not heavily geared towards extras? Figured I'd put out some feelers out on here.
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Pole tricks are good. I like to watch a body move, regardless of what it's doing.
Look at me at some point though. I want to see your eyes.
You can post pics to imgbox.com and then post the link here.
If only the guys at my club were as simple.. :p
Twentyfive: I've been twerkin, doing the school thing, and looking for a house for me and my three other roommates. The past few weeks have been too crazy! I haven't had the time or mental capacity for TUSCL :p
Also, you know us dancers...we like to disappear sometimes :)
This is probably the only selfie I'll ever post on here xD;
http://imgur.com/mpqG3eu
w.r.t. the stage - my 2-cents:
I am not all interested in pole tricks - sure I can be impressed by her athletic ability but athletic ability does not give me a boner personally.
In my PL-mind, a simple rule-of-thumb is what turns on your man/BF/former-BFs - IMO most dudes don't get turned on by seeing the woman doing summersaults on the bedroom floor.
I personally like sensuality - eye-contact and a smile like "yeah I'm (dancer) gonna fuck you (custy)"; even if that is not what's gonna go down.
I go to strip-clubs to get turned-on; not see gymnastics - I like slow sensual movements just like I like it slow and sensual during a dance vs a jackrabbit bouncing around my lap.
So seductive eye-contact and smile and getting up really close to the PL and making eye-contact when he tips you (vs doing summersaults around the stage while he's at the tip-rail).
IME often times dancers that super-focus on their pole-tricks end-up being crappy lap-dancers b/c they think it's all about the physical vs the sensual - or they are just too-much into themselves and showing off on the pole and don't put any effort into the lap-dance game.
I don't think I've ever taken a dancer for lap-dances b/c of her monkeying around on the pole; actually I kinda write her off as not a good lap-dancer; but if I like her looks then I'll usually take a chance on her.
When it comes to a dancer who I'm a regular of and visiting, or a dancer I'm talking to, bought drinks for and am planning a VIP session with, I like to see some eye contact and a general audition for how the VIP dances will go. I happily stage tip 20s for dancers who do well during their set in that situation.
I'm primarily into black-dancers and phat asses - so yes; I do like the twerk thing a lot; *personally*.
But if you work in s mixed-club w/ mostly white clientele and if the club is sorta upscale and mostly while-collar older white-guys (which is the sweet-spot for banking probably); in that type of environment the custies are usually not into twerking.
if you are n a mid-tier club and lots of young-people/custies then twerking is probably expected unless you just wanna focus your game on the often more lucrative middle-age white dudes, then no twerkiing.
And in black clubs; yeah; twerking is pretty-much mandatory ;)
I'll, uh, be in my bunk.
Nice pic Milani, don't feel like you have to post a pic though, I'm pretty sure none of us clubbers are posting pics of ourselves on here. If I was a dancer on here, and a TUSCLer requested a pic of me, I would say, "I'll post a pic of myself if you post a pic of yourself" :)
But hard to tell how your whole body looks - i.e. you don't seem too-big on the upper-body but I can't asses your lower-body - I mention this b/c I think you have the look to perhaps do better in mixed-clubs than black-clubs IMO - IMO you're small enough in your upper-body to not be considered too-thick for most mixed-clubs - black-girls that are too thick/curvy/voluptuous often don't get hired at mixed-clubs especially the more upscale(ish) ones - thus depending on how your lower-body looks; if you are thick from the waist down then that may mean you are more likely to be hired in a black club or mid-tier to dive(y) mixed-club since often upper-midtier to upscale clubs like their girls on the slim-side and not too thick/curvy - just my opinion.
Not hard for me to tell how it looks ;-)
Two better sales techniques:
1. Play with yourself on stage (probably over, not under, your g string, unless you're working at a very permissive club) and act like you're enjoying it. This is a sex-oriented business. You can set your own limits but whatever you can to do promote sexual fantasies will be well received.
2. Offer some contact when customers approach the stage to tip you. I've had contact that ranges from a kiss on the cheek, to boobs in the face to a subtle strip club "hand shake" (over the pants, typically).
I assume you'd do well in Atlanta - I would think you'd fit-in in many of the mixed-clubs - but ATL clubs are not high-dance-price VA clubs; ATL dances are $10 - but like VA most of them are either low-mileage or no-touch.
North Carolina seems to be a bit more like VA - pretty high dance costs w/ low-mileage - if you could catch on at one of the pretty-good clubs in NC it may be a good-fit.
Why do you want to dance outside VA?
And she wants to dance outside of VA because VA fucking sucks
I'm already spending enough on dancers. :)
Scuttle! Scuttle! Scuttle!
It was mesmorizing.
There are other clubs in New England where there may be 50/50 extras and a no extras dancer who's good can still do ok.
I think that most guys want good energy and engagement while a dancer is on stage. Whatever you're doing, look like you're having fun and that will get you 80% there. Sensuality and eye contact are both good.
Pole tricks/acrobatics are tend to draw my attention to the stage, even temporarily. When I catch an impressive trick from my peripheral vision, I look. I imagine that every so often, you want to attract the attention of guys who are not sitting "ringside". Honestly, I almost never sit at the stage, so you'd need to get my attention from afar.
I saw a dancer once who would engage the guys at stage to applaud and cheer. This would also attract the attention of guys away from the stage. Really, it's all marketing.
Some don't(s)...
-- Don't sit on the edge of the stage and talk to one guy for half your set. When I used to sit at the stage more, it was annoying to watch a dancer sit and talk to a guy for 10 minutes or more.
-- Don't do that heel-slamming thing. That's the wrong way to get everyone's attention. It's annoying and feels more like the dancer is pitching a tantrum.
Hope this helps.
I remember this one girl that used to do what amounted to four minute pilates routines on stage. It really showed off her strength and flexibility. Unfortunately, that was in Orlando, so that's all it did
For clubs which allow it, after that it is contact. For clubs that don't then the above will be fine.
But after, once she is off the stage, my position is that buying dances is a chump's game.
So in our local clubs, its just talking. Not for free of course, but not in the dance booths.
For anything goes places, then its front room GFE. Save the back room until you own pants are going to be coming down.
SJG