I've got a dilemma. I just learned about another new-to-me SC where 1/4 of the strippers at my regular extras SC work (thanks instagram). I've never been to this new-to-me SC. At my extras SC I've gotten FS before, so I really love the place but it has always been closed weekdays AFAIK and Im too horny to wait all week. Googling the extras SC address says the building has had reality porn shoots, TV shows filmed, and private parties (think AVN/High Times sponsors) on weekdays. This new-to-me SC is open only weekdays and closed fri/sat/sun. Both SCs publish dancer schedules and pics of the dancers online but the websites seem to be unrelated, like 2 different people maintain them. I dont think its the same owner. Using archive.org, I see there is significant overlap, either the owner is the same but hands off, or the dancers refer each other back and forth between the 2 clubs in a "touring circuit" or some pimp with a van. 1/2 the new weekday SC works at my bigger weekend-only reg SC. Many dancer pics and stage names are identical comparing the 2 SCs.
Tomorrow I'm planning to goto the new SC. Mileage unknown. Unknown if I'll get tossed by bouncers. I just know, half the dancers at new SC, will be dancing at the extras SC on friday night. So if you were me, would you ignore at the new mileage unknown SC, every single new-to-you stripper that you know will work at the extras club on friday, or not, and approach them on friday only at the extras SC?
It really itches my mind. If I get a no for extras at the new SC, will it be a yes at the extras SC if I ask 3 days later from the same stripper? Or will she apply the conservative (IDK yet if conservative) standards of the club where she first met me, to the extras SC? What would you do?
I see girls at multiple clubs all the time. It's never been anything but a benefit for me. Knowing the girl is extra friendly, its easy to find out what the club limits are. If its not acceptable at the new club, they've always been up front with me. If the new club is the same, but more expensive, they've always been up front about that and more than willing to see me at the other club instead, even when they've seen me paying more for other girls there. Sometimes its lead to OTC.
I'd say approach away. Be prepared to get a no from a girl who's usually a sure thing. But, the silver lining is it'll save you a lot of time and effort trying to figure out what the deal is at the new club.
Obvious question when you see a dancer you've seen at the extras club:
"Can we get away with what we've done before at club x here ???" Be sure to take in body language and all the signs and think with the big head as you ask this.
The club is usually the variable not the girl - she either does extras or she doesn't, the only variable is whether the club allows it - i.e. if she does extras she'll do them under the right circumstances.
I knew an ebony dancer that I had known for a while and had seen her at 3 different clubs and usually got pretty-good dances from her but no more than that - a while later I saw her at a dive where the chicks will fuck you right there at the bar and yeap she fucked me right there at the bar.
No disrespect s88, but it strikes me that you're making this more complicated than it needs to be. You've clearly done a lot of web-based research, but you haven't actually been to the "new" strip club if I understand correctly. If so, you don't actually know whether or not the new strip club allows extras. So critical data is unknown.
But, more to the point, what is the cost of going to the new strip club? Imagine the worst case scenario for you: they don't allow extras. You show up and the girls that would have offered extras at the other club don't offer extras here. But you still would have had a few drinks and watched nude women. That sounds pretty ace to me! ;)
Since you've done your web research I'm excluding the possibility that the nude club is only staffed by ugly girls. However, if that happens to be true you can just leave.
It seems to me that you need actual data. Go and collect the data by going to new strip club today and your standard strip club on Friday. It's the brilliant way! ;)
My extras SC has high turn over. 25% never come back next week, but somehow they are replaced with fresh meat. I dont mind at all. I love the "first night being a stripper" girls that have no idea what they are doing there and have no walls in their head yet. Its the ultimate "hookup" not "hooker" SC.
Do I approach new-to-me dancers at the new SC and ask for extras if I know they will be at my reg extras SC a few days later? If a new-to-you stripper says no once to you because of club rules, if she goes to another club, will she still say no, not because the club allows it, but because she carried over the rules from the stricter club to the extras club? While if I ignored her at the stricter club, and introduced myself to her at the extras club, she would do extras?
My plan is to avoid every stripper at the new place, that I know will be at the old place on friday. But IDK if that is smart. The new girls will have a heart attack seeing me at the old club on friday and know Im a well traveled PL.
@Papi_Chulo says it doesnt affect anything, always ask again at the new club, even if she said no at the old club.
Dude, strippers only care about one thing, if you have $$$ to spend - if you're willing to spend $$$ most of the time things fall into place, no need for many if any mental gymnastics
This whole thread was pointless. I over thought this based on experiences at my extras SC. I only interacted with one stripper at the new-to-me SC then went home. This isn't a replacement for my extras SC although half the girls here work at the extras SC.
Okay, new club is zero mileage. A stripper from the friday extras place I've gotten LDs from before told me to not waste my $ and go home and come back to the extras club on friday. I did 2 songs then left. On my way out, the club owner/doorman confronted me about my experience and why I am leaving so soon. I said his club was close minded, he said its not, I didn't say specifically I was looking for extras, but he quickly stopped trying to convince me to come back in once I said mentioned DFK and he stood there silent staring at me, after awkward silence , he said he is getting my coat and I walked out. I forgot to tell him his website says all LDs are done in private, and there are private rooms, and both were false. LDs are done in shared LD room with a bouncer. Private rooms have all glass doors. Every couple that walks to shared LD room goes past the VIP rooms with glass doors. One PL was dumb enough to buy one ($260/hr, 1 hr of songs + $20). *sigh*. Maybe there are extras. Probably not. Maybe he wanted sound privacy with his dancer. Those glass doors and the bouncer on stool make it seem impossible for extras. I can't possibly imagine spending $ here vs my extras SC.
Funny thing is, my stripper from another club went upto the bouncer on a stool in the LD area (zero privacy SC, panopticon) and asked about DFK, and he said its fine but I cant touch her tits or her ass.
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I'd say approach away. Be prepared to get a no from a girl who's usually a sure thing. But, the silver lining is it'll save you a lot of time and effort trying to figure out what the deal is at the new club.
"Can we get away with what we've done before at club x here ???" Be sure to take in body language and all the signs and think with the big head as you ask this.
I knew an ebony dancer that I had known for a while and had seen her at 3 different clubs and usually got pretty-good dances from her but no more than that - a while later I saw her at a dive where the chicks will fuck you right there at the bar and yeap she fucked me right there at the bar.
But, more to the point, what is the cost of going to the new strip club? Imagine the worst case scenario for you: they don't allow extras. You show up and the girls that would have offered extras at the other club don't offer extras here. But you still would have had a few drinks and watched nude women. That sounds pretty ace to me! ;)
Since you've done your web research I'm excluding the possibility that the nude club is only staffed by ugly girls. However, if that happens to be true you can just leave.
It seems to me that you need actual data. Go and collect the data by going to new strip club today and your standard strip club on Friday. It's the brilliant way! ;)
Do I approach new-to-me dancers at the new SC and ask for extras if I know they will be at my reg extras SC a few days later? If a new-to-you stripper says no once to you because of club rules, if she goes to another club, will she still say no, not because the club allows it, but because she carried over the rules from the stricter club to the extras club? While if I ignored her at the stricter club, and introduced myself to her at the extras club, she would do extras?
My plan is to avoid every stripper at the new place, that I know will be at the old place on friday. But IDK if that is smart. The new girls will have a heart attack seeing me at the old club on friday and know Im a well traveled PL.
@Papi_Chulo says it doesnt affect anything, always ask again at the new club, even if she said no at the old club.
If it's fun, great. Add it to the rotation.
If it's not fun, leave and don't go back.
Okay, new club is zero mileage. A stripper from the friday extras place I've gotten LDs from before told me to not waste my $ and go home and come back to the extras club on friday. I did 2 songs then left. On my way out, the club owner/doorman confronted me about my experience and why I am leaving so soon. I said his club was close minded, he said its not, I didn't say specifically I was looking for extras, but he quickly stopped trying to convince me to come back in once I said mentioned DFK and he stood there silent staring at me, after awkward silence , he said he is getting my coat and I walked out. I forgot to tell him his website says all LDs are done in private, and there are private rooms, and both were false. LDs are done in shared LD room with a bouncer. Private rooms have all glass doors. Every couple that walks to shared LD room goes past the VIP rooms with glass doors. One PL was dumb enough to buy one ($260/hr, 1 hr of songs + $20). *sigh*. Maybe there are extras. Probably not. Maybe he wanted sound privacy with his dancer. Those glass doors and the bouncer on stool make it seem impossible for extras. I can't possibly imagine spending $ here vs my extras SC.
Funny thing is, my stripper from another club went upto the bouncer on a stool in the LD area (zero privacy SC, panopticon) and asked about DFK, and he said its fine but I cant touch her tits or her ass.