How about this.
twentyfive
Living well and enjoying my retirement
Was in a club a while back and I ran into a stripper I recognized. Weirdest shit, she was the daughter of one of my good buddies whom I have known pretty close to forever. Anyway long story short my buddy's wife was a stripper herself back in the day and we all knew this but they have been married over 30 years. The daughter recognized me and came over to talk to me and in the course of the conversation asked me not to tell my buddy. I agreed on the condition that she tell her mom and have her mom confirm it with me she told me she would.
I understand not telling her father as he can be a hot tempered guy sometimes but I wanted to be sure that she had a safe person to turn to in case she had any problems with this job.
Does anyone think I did the right thing, it would be really ackward between my friend and me if it came out that I was aware of this, and didn't say anything.
I understand not telling her father as he can be a hot tempered guy sometimes but I wanted to be sure that she had a safe person to turn to in case she had any problems with this job.
Does anyone think I did the right thing, it would be really ackward between my friend and me if it came out that I was aware of this, and didn't say anything.
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Gawker she turned twenty one just 3 months ago.
Patriarchal rules if she's under 21 and still living at home (Dad's house, Live under Dad's rules, learn the hard lesson, kiddo).
Otherwise she's a full adult and I wouldn't say a thing. If anything she may need guidance.
If it comes up later with Dad or Mom, I'd take it on the chin.
Regarding any other of my buddies, it becomes harder. I think you made a fine choice, insisting she tell her mom -- now it's the mom who is on the hook. More casual acquaintances, I'm probably keeping my nose out of it completely.
An aside to Papi and everyone else that said, she's over 21 and an adult and that is true but your children are your babies until you die and beyond.