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OT: My Escort G/F - Sometimes Stalking Pays Off - Part 2

rockstar666

Illinois

Several months ago I wrote about an escort I was "stalking". To review, I got a Backpage crush on her from her adds, and was considering calling her to meet and fuck. As I did my normal "background check" via her phone number in a Google search, I stumbled upon an old add she placed in C/L selling some stuff years ago; I was amazed it was even still there. She used her escort phone # which was a mistake! I was able to find her real name through her real email and a link in the add, and then found her FB page. I friended her and slowly made my self known through posts. After a few months, she started reading my FB page and posting back, which was a huge thrill! Then she moved 1500 miles away just as we were getting to the "lets meet" phase, but then moved back. That's where my last post on this ended; This is an update from there.

She now lived 1 1/2 hours away from me which was close enough, and she invited me to her place (she doesn't drive). A week later I drove down and we met for the first time. She is highly reviewed on TER so I knew what to expect, and she was exactly that. My dilemma was if I should tell her how we really met or not. The TUSCL response from my first post on this was mostly 'No fucking way!'. Well, we talked for hours and got on really well, so after drinks and a few bowls I told her the whole truth.

She seemed really flattered anyone would go to such trouble when I could have just called her in the first place! I said I wanted to meet her as a regular guy, and not as a customer which is why I went about it the way I did and she seemed to appreciate that. Lots of her customers want to date her of course, and she thinks they're mostly scum. It turned out to be a good move on my part because now she really feels safe with me ...she doesn't have to be dishonest about 'what she does for a living' etc. although for the moment she said she's at least temporarily retired. I check BP for her adds and there's been nothing for months and no new reviews so I believe her. I'm sure once she gets settled she'll have to start escorting again as she's broke, but that's okay with me as we're really just FWB's anyway. BTW I did give her $60 once before we met, but no money since. I would if she asked but she doesn't.

So yes, you CAN have a g/f who is a sex worker, but it's not for everyone. If you manage to meet them as a non-customer I think it really helps!