ask about mileage/extras b4 the dance? reasking later after a no to mileage/extr
s88
New York
Friday, January 6, 2017 8:26 PM
Short version:
Do you ask for extras before the dance, and make it unconditional that she agrees or no LDs, and walk away if she holds her no?
Do you get a LD, and physically find out her mileage, not verbally before, and if the dance is a bad investment, so be it, SCs are a gamble, not a store?
If she says no physically or verbally, would you ever ask again about extras before the LD or physically try extras (bad gamble), in a week or a month, or a couple months?
Longer version:
My current system:
Normally once I find out a stripper physically or verbally says no to mileage/extras/ITC/OTC. Whether I ask outright verbally, or go for it physically and see if I get pushed away or my hand is grabbed. I forever pretend like she doesnt exist in the SC.
Out of the 100 something girls I got LDs from last year, I only once ever repeated with a zero mileage stripper because she was the hotest girl in the club (TLDR [view link] ) , and I'd go home spending only $8 otherwise. 6 months earlier, I wrote her off as zero mileage in VIP. 6 months later, I go upto her pretending I dont know her name, and do the basic small talk. For a $20 dance, she allowed me to touch pussy this time. After that we went to VIP, and extreme DFK and FIV and stick shifting. She went no limits on me twice and became a fav. She then "sobered up" and told me she was drunk in the no-alcohol SC and she wasn't interested anymore in me, she also suggested she was single at the time, but isnt anymore. She took a 3 month break from stripping then reappeared. I re-VIPed her, no kissing, no mileage. Next time she refused to even go into VIP for 15 minutes (smallest time unit, I used to always do 30 with her when she DFKed as my fav), said that wasnt enough time, and walked away from me. A month later, I say hi again, I ask her about DFK before agreeing to VIP, she says fine, this time she DFKs but no pussy touching for 15 minutes.
Anyways, she is now an ex-fav, but I did crush on her for 2 months in 2016 and I enjoyed that. She is the only girl I ever repeated with after a zero mileage dance, but I pretended I didnt know her when I repeated.
Flash forward to today. After a newbie stripper, no personal drama, no SS, asked me to be her no-$ BF, and we DFKed for free OTC (I paid her Panera on 1st date and her Chinese on 2nd date tho). I accomplished my goal for 2016. At this point, everything is gravy. Im not desperate. Im fine going home spending no $. I dont give a fuck anymore. Nothing can top free OTC/being the BF with a stripper(night job)/unsuccessful lingerie model(day job). I now always ask about DFK before spending any $ on a stripper. I used to believe, if you ask, she will say no automatically, if you physically try, she will look the other way and go with your flow. If you asked before, she would have said no, then enforced the no in VIP. Now I always ask, because Im not desperate. I now think, if she says no to me face to face, she wouldn't have done it had I taken a gamble and no-discussion VIPed her. IDK if this is true.
I've been running out of SCs again lately. My ratchet SC dried out in spring/summer 2016. My DFK factory dried out in Aug 2016. With my latest SC is set up to make extras very easy (no camera rooms with doors). Visit 1 and 2, I met no limits, no discussion, GFE girls, and got free just friends OTC dates with them later. After a bad experience in visit 2, going GFE on a new girl who didnt know about extras (she still just friends OTC hung out with me after that experience), for visit 3 I warned every girl exactly what will happen in VIP and I asked if they wanna go through with it. I only got "I'll do some of what you want but I have limits" backpage vibe strippers for visit 3 and I dont want to repeat with them, I didnt ask their #s. On visit 4, I changed things, and didnt warn what will happen in VIP, like in visit 1 and 2. I got zero mileage from any new girls unlike visit 1 and 2. I only got mileage from previous mediocre girls who did some, but not all my extras from visits 1/2/3. Im running out of strippers at my extras SC. At this point, either I look for a new SC, or I have to reask strippers about extras that turned me down in the past. What y'all perverts think?
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