Recently I have found myself starting to gravitate toward older dancers. Now, I'm not talking about strippers that are well beyond their prime or one that should have stop dancing a decade ago. But recently I have started to appreciate dancers that are more mature (35-40). The ones I'm talking about are very fit and have that fun milfish feel to them. IMO, they seem to play less games, be more open to extras and OTC, and are of course much more experienced. Personally I'm just kinda tired of the college age party girl flake out on you no reliability mentality of twenty something's.
Face it, it's not too hard to find a hot 20 year old stripper. It's somewhat of an annomaly to find a 35+ stripper that's still hot.
I am drawn to them over younger girls for many reasons.
1. I am in the same age range
B. They are so much more fun to talk to
III. They usually are more "open minded" when it comes to OTC, ITC, VIP, ETC.
@. They seem to appreciate more that I am in similar age and am not a complete fat slob as well.
JS69 loves the young babes I like the older ones. It's probably because I got addicted to MILFs messing around on "sexual encounter" sites over the years that had mostly older bored-housewife type women.
i met a very fit and attractive lady in tijuana over two years ago. i thought she was in her early thirties... very well kept and fun. she shocked me when she told me her real age. 52. i enjoyed her a number of times. hope to experience her more.
Recently I have gotten dances twice from a gal that is probably in her late 30's. I don't care for her fake tits but she knows how to give a very sensual dance that only a long time dancer knows how to do. She keeps a bottle in her locker so that she doesn't have to ask guys to buy her an expensive drink. She can carry on a flirty conversation. She has gone up my pants leg and even given Mr. Happy a little kiss. And she has a full bush that is soft to the touch. A trip to VIP may be next.
I like them in the 25-30 range, because I am in that same age range first of all. Second of all they're not old, but not super young. It's perfect for me.
Best dance I private dance I ever had (that didn't include extras) was back in my 30's by a dancer I'd say was about 45. Wasn't just a grind and rub, but was slow and extremely sensual with her getting off (and yes she did, it wasn't faked) on me. Only time I ever saw her dance, asked about her several times but was never able to catch her again.
I like the older dancers also. When I was at Scores the other day with twentyfive, a beautiful blonde sat down with us and she told me she was 34, I could not resist her.
Here's to experience with the Milf/ Schoolteacher/ dirty librarian types who are still put together well. Yes, the MILFs can be the most adventurous and fun girls in the club.
Here is Benjamin Franklin's advice on why older women are better than younger ones:
Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress
(1745).
June 25, 1745
My dear Friend,
I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you
mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the
proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in
which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against
entering into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial
Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but
they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married
and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human
Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he,
her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more
likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would
have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the
odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry
in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.
But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with
the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you
should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand
my Reasons. They are these:
i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are
better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and
more lastingly agreable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To
maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an
Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and
are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they
continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an
old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be
attended with much Inconvenience.
4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in
conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is
therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the
Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd
to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his
Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and
Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids
that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank
and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts
continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a
Basket, and regarding2 only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two
Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are
grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal,
and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of
Improvement.
6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and
make her for Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable
may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making
an old Woman happy.
8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!
Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being
sincerely Your affectionate Friend.
Older women know they aren't the 9s and 10s anymore ITC. Older strippers finally "admitted" and "came to terms" that they have to sell sex/themselves for $, and stripping isn't being payed to party. Older strippers dont pick customers based on civilian terms (how many guns/drugs/crews/home boys/cars/tats/muscles/dick size do you have?), young ones do. Every ITC extra I've ever gotten from a stripper, has been older than me. The youngest stripper I've ever gotten an extra from was 10 days older than me. The 2 craziest sessions were from 4 years older, and 7 years older. The 4 years older passes for being 10 years younger than me. The 7 years older one looks very old for her age.
If I were single I would probably target some the early 40ish women at my gym for (unpaid) "real" connections. Older women are just way more interesting for something that's both emotional and physical. Legal age may be 18 -- but I've read that neuroscience considers true adulthood occurring at an age of more like 25. For paid flings, I'm practically as bad as @Smith. Current SB is 24 and that's the oldest I've paid for.
Haven't been to Centerfolds (Detroit) in a couple of years. Last time I was at the place a fifty something year old was still dancing there. Up close you could tell though, but those bolt on....zounds! And the dances she gave were great.
Most of the strippers that i find appealing are over 30 some are even 40+ and both my regular two girls whom I do OTC regularly with, are both over thirty, one is 38 and gorgeous the other one is a solid 8 in the looks department with a great body and just had a 35th birthday. I enjoy both of them and best of all neither is flakey both are reliable and almost always on time and treat me great.
BTW the blond Vince is referring to is also 35 and a fantastic piece of ass.
When I first started SCing for real in my mid 20s, I used to think the guys who picked 28 year old strippers were douchebags. Why choose them when you have these unbelievable 20-year-olds? Obviously enough, I understand very well now, and echo what everyone else says ... she'll be more mature, have less limits, etc. If she can get to 30 and still look amazing... awesome.
One of the things I noted on seeking arrangements is that it seems to me that good-looking 30-year-olds are more likely to price themselves high ... I keep running into 30-year-olds who are 8s, who price themselves like a 20-year-old 9. I think it's very likely that this is because nice looking 30-year-olds are in HUGE demand, especially in the world of sugaring, where "chemistry" is more highly prized than elsewhere in the sex industry.
A 35 year old woman wasn't born when I first entered a strip club so they are young to me.
Older women have less drama. usually. Older women have experience and skills.
Some people think they try harder because they know they need to. That is true but i think some of it is that those that do extras and try harder survive longer in this business.
I couldn't agree more, more mature always wins the day with me. I now classify dancers in two groups: petty little girls and full grown women. Funny thing is age is not necessarily a differentiator, it's all about attitude. I've met 25 year olds that are full grown women and 35 year olds that act like petty little girls. Always running away from the little girls immediately, nothing but drama, headaches, gossiping, jealousy, etc, etc, etc...
I never really cared about age if they were hot, but clearly as I've gotten older I tend to gravitate towards older strippers. Being able to carry an articulate, educated conversation while being insanely hot makes it pretty special for me. My ATF is 40, but I met her when she was 23!
Like Donald Trump, I much prefer the youngest women as long as they are legal. If you choos carefully, the young ones can be highly motivated and provide outstanding services. They just require a special touch.
I've always been more physically attracted to older women; even as a kid - mainly b/c I've always being way more turned-on by curvy voluptuous women vs fit hard-bodies and it seems as women age many fill-out more (hips; ass; tits) - not to say that fit hard-bodies turn me off; just that I prefer them as curvy and voluptuous as possible - I also hate cocky self-centered people and this is more prevalent in younger people - many young hotties think they are the shit and that the world revolves around them and that everyone is gonna kiss their ass just b/c they are hot
I have always loved the older strippers. Most of them have a better idea of what they want and don't need every guy in the club after them. Most of them have a willingness to do anything in the extras and OTC departments.
Actually it is only now that I am much older than the young strippers that I can really get along with them. Way back, I would always go for the older ones, including outside of strip clubs, because they were easier to get along with. They were flattered by my attention and they were not comparing me to trendy or typical types.
The young ones on the other hand were always peer group conformists.
Now that I am so much older than they though, they don't look at me that way, so things can be fine.
Young ones and I often get along in the Viet Coffee Shops. But if I were their age, I know we would not, as they would be comparing me to their conformist friends.
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I am drawn to them over younger girls for many reasons.
1. I am in the same age range
B. They are so much more fun to talk to
III. They usually are more "open minded" when it comes to OTC, ITC, VIP, ETC.
@. They seem to appreciate more that I am in similar age and am not a complete fat slob as well.
JS69 loves the young babes I like the older ones. It's probably because I got addicted to MILFs messing around on "sexual encounter" sites over the years that had mostly older bored-housewife type women.
Two dedication songs here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZLfasMP… (Fountain of Wayne "Stacy's Mom")
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvMFm5nK… ( A cover video by the Lemon Heads of Simon and Garfunkel's "Mrs. Robinson)
Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress
(1745).
June 25, 1745
My dear Friend,
I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you
mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the
proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in
which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against
entering into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial
Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but
they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married
and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human
Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he,
her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more
likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would
have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the
odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry
in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.
But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with
the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you
should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand
my Reasons. They are these:
i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are
better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and
more lastingly agreable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To
maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an
Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and
are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they
continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an
old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be
attended with much Inconvenience.
4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in
conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is
therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the
Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd
to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his
Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and
Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids
that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank
and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts
continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a
Basket, and regarding2 only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two
Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are
grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal,
and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of
Improvement.
6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and
make her for Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable
may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making
an old Woman happy.
8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!
Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being
sincerely Your affectionate Friend.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbTnm0mq…
BTW the blond Vince is referring to is also 35 and a fantastic piece of ass.
One of the things I noted on seeking arrangements is that it seems to me that good-looking 30-year-olds are more likely to price themselves high ... I keep running into 30-year-olds who are 8s, who price themselves like a 20-year-old 9. I think it's very likely that this is because nice looking 30-year-olds are in HUGE demand, especially in the world of sugaring, where "chemistry" is more highly prized than elsewhere in the sex industry.
A 35 year old woman wasn't born when I first entered a strip club so they are young to me.
Older women have less drama. usually. Older women have experience and skills.
Some people think they try harder because they know they need to. That is true but i think some of it is that those that do extras and try harder survive longer in this business.
I'll take it. :)
jackslash +10
Actually it is only now that I am much older than the young strippers that I can really get along with them. Way back, I would always go for the older ones, including outside of strip clubs, because they were easier to get along with. They were flattered by my attention and they were not comparing me to trendy or typical types.
The young ones on the other hand were always peer group conformists.
Now that I am so much older than they though, they don't look at me that way, so things can be fine.
Young ones and I often get along in the Viet Coffee Shops. But if I were their age, I know we would not, as they would be comparing me to their conformist friends.
SJG