stripper Jealousy???

background story. this has happened to me more than a few times. i go to a club, some times as a regular other times as a infrequent. i meet a girl, we talk and eventually exchange numbers. this is not a # exchange for OTC!!! we jus have good convo. out of all the times this has happened to me only once has the first time ive hung out with the girl been at a place other than my home. all the other times we have hung at my place, had a drink and watched a movie or something. most of the time we do end up sleeping together. no i never paid for this. how come after this whenever me and the girl talk about me going back up to the club the first thing out there mouth is "you better not get a dance with any bi*ch up there"? i have always thought stripper we free spirits. but my experience is totally opposite. most of them are clingy, desperate, low self esteemed, and badly in need of love individuals. what i really dont understand is the girls i have been out with are 8's and up. how they have low self esteem amazes me. but they do and it makes them super jealous. i like meeting them cause i thought we could have a relationship with out her getting her feeling into it. i guess its true all women are the same. and if i want to have unattached sex i have to break down and pay for it...