Techniques to Hustle More Money
Imamutt
Learn any of these the hard way? Had other techniques tried on you? Overcounting dances, shortchanging, etc..
"Pay my tip-outs and I'll give you some free dances next time" Fact: When you next see her, she 'forgot', or says it's been slow and she really needs money again, or she's never seen there again.
"Buy me a drink ($20-) and I'll come back to you as soon as I finish my next set" Fact: Never returns, or says she really needs to give this huge tipper some dances, disappears with him, or is never to be seen again.
"I need a hundred to settle up tip-outs, dealer, etc. and I'll meet you when my shift is over" Fact: Passes you on her way out, dressed in civie clothes with her boyfriend/dealer.
I actually heard a custy the other night arguing with a manager that a girl had grabbed money out of his pocket, while giving him a dance. The manager said her side of the story was that he gave it to her, and that he could stay but would be asked to leave if he was going to try to cause trouble.
"Pay my tip-outs and I'll give you some free dances next time" Fact: When you next see her, she 'forgot', or says it's been slow and she really needs money again, or she's never seen there again.
"Buy me a drink ($20-) and I'll come back to you as soon as I finish my next set" Fact: Never returns, or says she really needs to give this huge tipper some dances, disappears with him, or is never to be seen again.
"I need a hundred to settle up tip-outs, dealer, etc. and I'll meet you when my shift is over" Fact: Passes you on her way out, dressed in civie clothes with her boyfriend/dealer.
I actually heard a custy the other night arguing with a manager that a girl had grabbed money out of his pocket, while giving him a dance. The manager said her side of the story was that he gave it to her, and that he could stay but would be asked to leave if he was going to try to cause trouble.
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I think anyone can (and probably will, at some point) fall victim to overcounting.
I think among seasoned PLs, I'm surprised at the number of guys who get intimidated or bullied into giving tips, through various manipulations. Sometimes the PLs justify their beta mentality to themselves by saying "She demanded a tip so I tipped her this one time, and I'm going to show her by never returning to her", but really, you've still gotten intimidated into giving money you didn't want to give. By a 22-year-old. Wearing a g-string.
The rest of this sounds suspicious and I wouldn't do any of those.
In our local strip clubs, there are sometimes hookers, and often they will say, "Buy me a drink".
She probably wants a drink, but more she just wants you to feel you should then take further steps to finish what you have started.
But the house dancers sometimes do that too. But as our clubs are no touching, mostly they just want to sit and talk with you, and maybe give them more money. But I have seen it with a girl I had talked with much before. What she wanted was an outside relationship.
So your girl might have come back as she said. Just trying to get you tied to her, before any other girl gets you.
We have had threads about this, about not feeling that you have to buy drinks, about guys substituting soft drinks, or I suppose just cash.
SJG
The funny thing is, it wasn't until later that I thought I should have just told her to at least throw down some dances for that money; I think she would have actually worked for it had I just asked. After all, we had been doing dances and hanging out all night.
I must not have felt too taken advantage of at the time, because she was there a month later when I went back and I spent the whole night with her again, this time only money for services as she didn't try that again.
I never saw her again. I truly believe she would be my CF, possibly ATF, if she were still around, but others told me she left the club and is at another one in the same city (Vegas). But no one knew, or would say, which club.
Sidenote, sorry to hijack the thread a little. She gave me her real name, which I later confirmed was real by Facebook stalking :) - Would it be appropriate at this point to send a Facebook message and ask if she is still working and where, or is that super creepy? These two trips were in February and March.
OTC!
SJG
No kidding. I still see guys I've seen in local clubs for years shelling out tips for girls they never even look at, or buying drinks only to have the girl disappear, and any of a number of other scams.
Bloody amazing.
If a girl starts out by asking for a drink, I pretty much ask her to leave. I'm only buying drinks if I enjoy her company and hope to spend more time. But this lesson I also learned from getting burned once.
I can't say I've had any dancer do any of that since I've returned to clubbing last year. So I am happy for that.