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For sure, "I'm not paying them for sex, I'm paying them to leave" and all that. As true today as ever.

Although it hasn't happened to me in many years, I can certainly imagine that once in a loooong while, a PL might want to just walk away from a club to avoid some drama-y situation. That said, you definitely have a lot more "go sideways", butthurtness, and drama than most, and you'd be healthier and happier if you addressed that, rather than ran so often. If I had to run from a club to avoid some situation more often than once every few years, I'd be looking hard at whether this was a healthy way to get my needs met.

I think Subraman hit the nail on the head.

I don't go to show clubs. I am a patron of strip clubs - and I prefer the clubs aren't "classy." To be honest - I've not had problems with dancers. I've never had a problem that made me want to leave the club. If the vibe isn't right with on girl - I'll move on to another (in the same club).

Just my 2 cents - but if you find yourself having to avoid dancers - or having issues with clubs - you might want to take a look internally and see if your expectations aren't aligned with what most clubs provide...

Timex, you keep saying you're done with strip clubs (I mean "showclubs") and are going to take a long break. Then you bitch about your favorite dancer coming into the club with someone else or treating you like a mere customer instead of like a boyfriend or whatever you're currently butt-hurt about. Seriously, you need to take a break from clubbing, for many weeks if not months. While you're at it, you should probably change jobs and/or engage in some much-needed introspection about why you always feel so resentful and victimized.