Only customer in the club
larryfisherman
California
I'm on my way to a club as I speak, I'm pretty sure I'm going to be the only customer in the club. I've never been in this situation before.
Have you ever been the only customer in a club?
Was it awkward? How long did it take for you to leave, or for another customer to come in?
Have you ever been the only customer in a club?
Was it awkward? How long did it take for you to leave, or for another customer to come in?
30 comments
My main club, if I'm the first customer at lunch, someone will be right behind me.
being the only customer in the club is probably very unlikely to happen UNLESS you're there during the day when they first open or shortly after they open
If you're the only customer, do all the girls come over to you?
The times when there were dancers, it was pretty much the same as how it goes on a slow night with 2-3 other customers. They followed the one-at-a-time rule, the more aggressive/confident ones would approach no matter what, except ones I had turned down in the past didn't approach. Typically when there is only one customer, a club won't run stage, unless it's a club that stays open until e.g., 2am no matter what and other customers have filed out just before then.
The only thing I do differently in these situations is to tip the dancer on stage no matter what.
SJG
I was the only customer and there were only 7 or 8 dancers. I can disprove the belief that extras aren't available at MV.
By contrast, if it's in a club I'm unfamiliar with, I feel self-conscious, like Juice at a healthfood store. Sometimes I stay, but sometimes I GTFO and just come back later.
I've been the only Caucasian in African American clubs a few times. That was not an issue at all (at least not from my perspective).
Hells yeah! if you have the confidence to pull it off, it is awesome. Again, though, going into a strange club, where it's so early only two girls have bothered to show up, and both are fat ... totally understand feeling like wanting to get the hell out. But if there's plenty of pretty girls? Hell yeah, I feel like I'm gold
OTOH, on my last foray into Kansas, I went to my favorite Kansas club, hit it up with one of the ladies and we got each other off.
It was a very SLOW vibe. Often, the is no music even playing. If you're used to the Fri/Sat night party nights with rain makers, then you might not like it. I found the conversations, light drinking, and front room flirting pretty refreshing & recharging.
If you are at all self conscious and not self confident (since all the staff will be fixated at you at times) or if you have trouble guarding your space then it might feel awkward. Me? I couldn't care less.
^^This times ten. :) LOL@ the fat girl comment, though.