Drinking in the strip club
larryfisherman
California
What are your overall thoughts on drinking in the strip club as far as the patron goes?
I always need to have a drink in my hand at the strip club. Most times I'm not craving a drink or anything, but sometimes when I'm bored in the club (ugly dancers), drinking is something to do, if that makes sense. That being said I'll only have 2 or 3 drinks max, I don't want to get tipsy and have these strippers take advantage of me. I also don't like my strippers tipsy or drunk, I don't want them to get sloppy during a lapdance.
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I always need to have a drink in my hand at the strip club. Most times I'm not craving a drink or anything, but sometimes when I'm bored in the club (ugly dancers), drinking is something to do, if that makes sense. That being said I'll only have 2 or 3 drinks max, I don't want to get tipsy and have these strippers take advantage of me. I also don't like my strippers tipsy or drunk, I don't want them to get sloppy during a lapdance.
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Now if I cabbed/ubered it, I will drink much more. Some of my best nights ever have been when I got blasted in the club.
In my experience I like my strippers a little tipsy, they usually are more fun. There's a difference between tipsy and drunk. My best night ever in a strip club was several years ago and a stripper and I kept trading shots at the bar. At the end of the night when my head hit the hotel bed the room was spinning so I was pretty drunk, and the stripper was equally drunk as well.
- drinking hard with the girls is part of the experience I"m going for, and one of the things I love about SCing. I don't ever drink alone at the SC, but once I get my girl, we're set.
- A buzzed girl (NOT a drunk girl!) can be incredibly fun in the club, waaaay more fun than sober chicks..
- And drinks are one of the best investments you can make... buy her a $5-$10 drink, and all the girls here follow the unwritten rule that she stays until her drink is done, so very little $ gets me a lot of fun flirting time.
- Often, my stripper's friends will come buy, and hang out if I buy them drinks, too. So an extra $5 drink gets me the "table full of girls" experience, that I also love.
I've never been taken advantage of, because I was buzzed, and I always carry my entire wallet ... I'm under enough control that I don't do anything dumb or out of character. If your judgement goes south super fast, then maybe drinking in the club isn't for you
I can handle my liquor, I'm not an abusive or annoying drunk. However, when I get drunk in bars or clubs I start spending money like crazy. There was one night at a Vegas strip club, I got completely plastered, and I ended up spending $3,000 that night. The next morning was really shitty.
I take an Uber to avoid DUI's.
With dancers, I've got no tolerance for sloppy drunks. I've got no interest in being the guy she made a bad decision with because she was drunk. Not judgement intended, but that's just not me. With dancers I'm friendly with beyond the casual customer/dancer dynamic, I'm happy to have some drinks and relax, if we get drunk then so be it. I also tend to avoid girls who don't drink at all, unless its some sort of health thing. So, I guess I can be counted in the camp of liking a girl with a little buzz on.
Everything in moderation man. A few drinks for everyone often makes for a better time. Too many usually makes for a bad time for at least someone. I'd say if you can't find that happy medium, you may want to stay out of SC's all together.
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I get a bottle of water when I walk into the club, and if I'm spending more than an hour, I'll get another one. Sometimes I'll do the hard stuff and get Diet Coke, but I'm not usually brave enough to drink out of a strip club's glassware.
I had been going to this club while is was working in this town for a few weeks and had made the acquaintance of several of the girls. I was going to break my usual pattern of water or one bottled beer and get a top shelf bourbon (Makers Mark for them) on the rocks for me and tequila for her when I started watching the bar tender. She was dipping the ice out with the glass... a big time no no for a decent bar tender; not only does it contaminate the ice it also is likely that there is pieces of broken glass mixed in with the ice! so I change and let her get her tequila and I stuck with a bottle that I watched be opened.
Drinking makes you sad - crying doesn't help you get extras.
Drinking makes you mad - bouncers don't like it if you hit strippers
Drinking makes you limp - DUH!
Drinking makes you talk - strippers will find someone with fewer words and more money.
Drinks use up all your cash - no money no lap dances.
Drinking makes you inebriated before leaving to drive home - Cops will not give you a "pass" if you explain that you only drank because the dancers were ugly.
My fav clubs also serve coffee (or are very near someplace that does). I cut myself off about an hour before I plan to leave and drink coffee or water.
Also, what alcohol does to people is not something I want. And then there is the driving issue. The rule for General Aviation is something like 12 or 24 hours dry. I don't see why the rule for motor vehicles should be any looser.
So for decades now I don't drink alcohol at all. And as everyone knows in some states like California you can't have full nudity unless there is no alcohol.
SJG
In the mid-2000s while living in Dallas I was at a SC and a dancer asked me why I didn't drink and I said I did not like the taste of beer - she then asked me to try a sip of her mixed-drink and I liked it since I did not taste the alcohol much but could feel the effect (the drink was a Hurricane) - after that for about 2 or 3 years I would usually have a Hurricane sometiems two when I clubbed and it would give me a buzz - I didn't drink back then to have a better time in the club but more to deal w/ stress and numb myself.
These days I rarely drink and usually just nurse a lite beer in the club - since I never been a regular drinker I don't assocaite drinking w/ having a good time in the SC but at times in the past I would be like jackslash where drinking would make me less inhibited and less uptight in the club - lately I've been thinking about having a good strong drink or two when I SC so I won't be as uptight but last time I was @ Tootsies Miami and ordered a Long Island it did not give me any buzz whatsoever making me think I got ripped off and that they were serving watered down drinks (thus less of an incentive for me to drink at the club).
"After all, I could get a drink damn near anywhere, including at home"
+1000 Shadowcat
That's the way I feel. I can drink a beer at home. I can't see 20 yo pussy at home.
Lots of these places talk about showing porno movies, like in that Cascadas Hotel over the TJ Hong Kong bar. And then a place I was at in San Francisco. The girl asked me if I wanted one of their special pricey fantasy rooms, where they have a video monitor showing pornos. I told her I wouldn't be watching any videos. ( not especially since I was going to DATY her, and she took to that really well. )
I agree fully about alcohol being unnecessary and not something which could ever help. And not in either party!
And same for marijuana too. Better to deal with girls who are completely clean and sober.
In California, the no alcohol rule in nude clubs does help with this. Some really interesting girls have been long popular at the San Jose Pink Poodle.
SJG
I feel like I'm okay to drive after that.
Never been one to get drunk....that's not necessary to have a good time, especially at a strip club!
If you're trying to avoid the stripper being more fun, more uninhibited, allowing more contact, and generally making poorer choices, then I agree, no way can alcohol help :)
Once she gets from pleasantly buzzed to drunk, that's a different story though. Some of my worst stories are with overly-drunk strippers
When I was a regular in a nude club, I'd smuggle in a bottle of Dasani water (or whatever it was they sold there), and refill it with vodka in the bathroom. My ATF would plant herself next to me and we'd share it ... and often her friends would sit on the other side of me and we'd pass it among the three of us. It got so girls would be texting me while I was on the way to the club, "You're coming, right? Bring vodka!". I'm pretty sure the bouncers knew exactly what was going on, I'm under no illusion that they're so clueless as to not notice the same bottle of water being passed around, but just didn't care as long as it was low-key.
Super fun time getting buzzed with the girls!
I think if a dancer has a playful buzz going - it can make for a fun itc experience. However - if a dancer is drunk - it can get really uncomfortable - and it can lead to a bad VIP experience.
I could have walked right out of there without paying but I did not want to cause any future problems with her or management if she later remembered I had not paid her. She works at my favorite club.
Drinking something also provides you with the opportunity to take care of and mingle with the bartenders, who can be important allies.
"If you're trying to avoid the stripper being more fun, more uninhibited, allowing more contact, and generally making poorer choices, then I agree, no way can alcohol help :)
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Well, if a girl wants to open up to me, she will. If she needs to be under the influence of alcohol to do that, then that is a problem in her character.
One nice thing about AMPs is that there is no alcohol, smuggled or otherwise. If the girl and I are getting along, she usually lets me do anything I would want to do with any girl, and she loves it and usually ends up wanting me to take her home with me.
It is easier to communicate and start a personal relationship with someone when there is no alcohol or dependence on alcohol.
And yes I know that people smuggle alcohol into the no alcohol nude clubs. And I am sure that some girls drink of this too, just like in the BYOB strip clubs.
I knew a guy, from England with severe PTSD from having been a sniper in their military, who use to sit in a public park all day long and drink from a two liter soda pop bottle which he had heavily spiked.
It takes all types.
Further discussion about alcohol:
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DFKing and DATYing dancers, not treating them like prostitutes or otherwise dividing women into two categories, alcohol, marijuana, the speculative and parasitic economy, and politics are just areas where there is always going to be strong disagreement.
I do respect Subraman for being clear about what he wants and for being straight up about it.
SJG
Robin Trower
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