A fav. has recently stopped dancing and I assume become a full time escort with former customers. I think she even travels out of state to visit with certain customers for big money. I remember when I first started buying dances she asked if I would be interested in OTC. This was a first. A girl asking me for OTC. I wished I had said yes the first time. The sexual chemistry with this woman was off the charts for me. We had some quick carplay and I was nervous and she even said that I was. I ruined any further hook ups with her. I still miss her dances. I even followed her around the club one afternoon hoping she would spend time with me. How pathetic. But, some girls just get in your head. I hope she returns to the club. But, she may have hooked up with a sugar daddy who won't permit this. I could ask her friend for more information about her "situation" but I feel like I have already been a crazy customer already. Have any girls broke down your defenses like this woman? She is my stripper kryptonite.
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Timex345, I'm not quite sure what your issue is. What you describe has a bit of a disconnect from the title of the thread.
If the question is "should I ask her friend what is up?" I think you should go for it. The worst you could get from her friend is "I don't know." Then you'll be where you are now. If the girl is escorting then I suspect her friend may put you in contact with her.
If you're contemplating actually trying to track her down then my advice is DON'T. dallas702 has a good point about not being a crazy stalker.
Here is my advice: don't try to track her down. If you ask her friend about her and her friend passes a message to her that's fine. But you should just drop things and move on for your own mental health.
Remember that stalking = non-brilliant! :(
Everybody knows that I'm obsessed with a little red headed former stripper. But she welcomes my affections and my money so I'm not sure that I qualify as a stalker.
As for the OP's situation, forget this one and find a real DS. If you really had amazing sexual chemistry you wouldn't have been so nervous as to screw it up.
There's like 20 other strippers in the club. Just fish for another week one.
Everything you write about her gets a little creepier, including the explanations you make up in your head to explain her behavior... ya, a bit stalker-ish, if that's the question!
To answer the other question, "Have any girls broke down your defenses like this woman?", I've had strippers I've been pretty crazy about, but I still display mostly-normal psychology when that happens. I've never followed her around the club, I've never fantasized that I was so important in her life that I imagined one stripper texted her information about me (despite the fact that the girl has been ignoring me), I've never fantasized elaborate explanations about something I see her do for which I really know fuckall about, etc. At this point, the girl may be justifiably creeped out by you, if she notices you at all anymore -- just move on, don't ask about her
You are the worst person to decide if you are astalker or not. The behavior you describe sounds creepy and stalker like. That's without telling us everything. How did you ruin further hook ups? By being nervous? It had to be more than that.
Yep, you certainly have all the boxes checked off on the "stalker" card. The next question is, are you going down that dark path?
I understand having a temporary obsession. I also know that your obsession could put you in jail. Instead of stalking a woman who has been bought many times buy many different men, and is probably willing to let you pay for time IN her, perhaps you could chase other young strippers around the club!